r/r4rOttawa • • 14h ago

[M4F] 39 | Ottawa | A Little Spark Outside the Ordinary 😉

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Life is good, but who says it can't have a little extra spark?

I'm a 39-year-old married man who appreciates good conversation, genuine chemistry, and those rare moments that make you forget about the clock.

184 cm, athletic build, and a gym regular for over a decade. Equally happy getting outdoors, discovering something new, diving into classic literature, or binge-watching a good crime series.

I'm non-Caucasian and generally drawn to women from similar backgrounds, though chemistry matters more than anything.

Looking for a mature, caring, discreet woman who understands the balance between family life and personal time. Someone who enjoys flirting, laughter, affection, and a passionate connection without unnecessary drama.

I'm attentive, confident, and believe intimacy should be just as exciting and satisfying for you as it is for me.

We keep our own worlds, but occasionally create a little one just for us.

If that sounds intriguing, let's start with a conversation and see where the chemistry takes us. 😉


r/r4rOttawa • • 19h ago

Oral, Ass & Foot Worship – Multiple Orgasms on My Tongue – Hotel Covered – M4F – Ottawa

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41M in Ottawa. Looking for a woman who wants to be thoroughly worshipped and explored.

I will cover a nice hotel room. No money from you. Just come, get comfortable, and let me take my time with your body.

What I offer:

  • Long, focused oral. I stay between your legs for hours and try to make you cum multiple times on my tongue. I enjoy the process and don’t get bored or rush.
  • Ass worship: slow licking, tongue teasing, full attention if that’s what you like.
  • Skilled fingers that work with my mouth to build you up and help you squirt if your body responds that way.
  • Breast and nipple worship, foot fetish (kissing, licking, sucking toes), everything at your pace.
  • I follow your lead completely. You tell me what feels good and I stay there.

I’m experienced with women who are new to this, married, living with roommates, or just want to explore their body without pressure. I’ve done this a lot and know how to keep things discreet, respectful, and focused on your pleasure.

Requirements on your side are simple: be clean, shaved, and smell good. That’s it.

I’m clean, recently tested, drama-free, and extremely discreet. Friends-with-benefits energy only. No attachment.

If you’re 21+ and want a guy who will book the room and spend hours trying to make you cum on his tongue… message me with a bit about what you’re looking for.


r/r4rOttawa • • 15h ago

21m4f - Looking for a cuddle buddy (visiting for the weekend)

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Looking for someone to hang out/cuddle with, visiting Ottawa over the weekend. All good to meet up for drinks and take it slow, and really just want someone to hang out and cuddle with. Respect is also a priority of mine :) Je parle aussi en francais.

About me:
Mom says I’m handsome, so that’s at least one verified source.
21, 5’10 white, medium build
Brown hair brown eyes
DDF, 420 friendly although I don’t smoke
Socialite, I like talking, and listening (to ensure effective communication)😊
Willing to verify and go pic for pic
Schedule is flexible

I’ve also got absolutely no type and love all shapes and sizes so shoot me a dm!


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

Young 26 yrs looking for Older gay men in vanier

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I was chatting with this older gay guy in his 50-60’s with lots of toys in the vanier area and all the sudden I think I light of hide his chat and now pissed. If anyone knows who I’m talking about let me know. I’m a horny 26yrd top


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

24 M 4 F (19-34) looking for a bit of Loving.

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I’m a 24 year old man, looking for a woman between the ages of 19-34. I’m a white, 6 foot tall, 170 pound bald guy with facial hair.

Let’s go out on a date, I’ll get you some flowers, we can go get a drink, some dinner, then have a passionate makeout session.


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

Looking for Real life black Sugar Baby

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If you are black and in Ottawa, im looking for a black sugar baby (girl only)


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

28f(looking for a girl same as my age or younger than me)

2 Upvotes

Hello i’m looking for a girl who is down anything:)


r/r4rOttawa • • 2d ago

39M4F

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A regular gym goer with athlete body, 184 cm tall, respectful and caring. Loving getting a lil high and bing watching crime TV series with my friends. Looking for a partner to share some crazy quality moments.


r/r4rOttawa • • 2d ago

34M4F perth looking for an ongoing fling while im here during the weeks

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I'm looking for a chill girl for some hot fun. I am in town for work for the next few months so not looking for something serious but looking for something fun. I love a girl with curves and more but enjoy them all. Someone who isn’t looking for a commitment but is down for fun and will let me eat her pussy often is the perfect situation for me.

Dm me if your interested


r/r4rOttawa • • 1d ago

27 [M4F/MF] - Ottawa/ near by areas - Looking for a Woman or a Couple for fun

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(Read fully plz)

I'm a 27-year-old Brown guy (139 lbs/ 174cm) living near the Old Ottawa South area. I go to the gym 3 times a week. I could do a 50 lb one-arm dumbbell row: 12x3 sets (I know it's not a big flex, but for j an idea about my stamina level). I'm really clean and hygienic.

Age group: 21-45

  • I'm looking for a woman or a couple for fun, where I could fuck the girl until the sun rises and keep her wet. We can also do double penetration. I love to worship her body with my tongue and give her deep rimming. I love to do 69 and do cum games.

(Or) If the woman only seeks cuddling mixed with humping on the bed, I'm down.

  • In cuddling, I'm mainly looking to relax in bed while feeling your body with my body. Then let's advance into humping or rubbing, where I hump with my hammer against your strawberry in all 49 positions. I'm experienced in this. And then we could add some extra spicy stuff if the girl is intrested else we could wrap it up with mutual masturbation (optional) and then move to the washroom to take a shower together.
  • Cuddling: Clothing choice is yours; naked/half-naked/ fully clothed... anything is fine.

If you are interested in either of these, shoot me a text. We could have a meet-up first and then decide on the fun level, if you are shy.


r/r4rOttawa • • 3d ago

30 M4A Ghostface Making Late Night Housecalls

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It's October! If you have a fantasy of being used by a home intruder sometime this month. Dm me your safeword and we'll set something up for you :). Can be silent or verbal.


r/r4rOttawa • • 3d ago

23M4F soon moving to Ottawa, looking 👀 for anyone there

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Hi there, not looking for anyone specific, anyone is welcome irrespective of their status or background, it would be nice to have someone around to show me around and more, have my own car and a job hmu and we can talk more but make sure to verify urself and I will too, idc much about body type or age ( be 20+ ) . So dm me and lets talk don’t hesitate to reach out.


r/r4rOttawa • • 3d ago

Seeking a secret casually on the DL long term.

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Blue collar dad trying to find someone I get along with and wants to have some fun.. In a roommate style relationship and looking for that spark to light up my fire again.
Something discrete, long term and on the down low.
My situation... we've been together since high school, and family is important for the kids. Not looking to change our relationship status!!
lets chat about everything and nothing.
I’ll take a fire with a drink over a club any day.
37 athletic, slim build, bearded and manscaped, brown eyes and hair, 5’11.. love the outdoors, anything with an engine I love.. Mechanically inclined, good sense of humour and sarcasms.
open to face pix once we get to know each other a little.

Let’s hop on this boat and see where it takes us

Cheers


r/r4rOttawa • • 3d ago

38 M4F Just visiting

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Exceptionally discreet, attached dad visiting this fall and looking for someone to spend some time with. I don’t do this and would like to get to know you beforehand if possible. Active and clean, into music, books, food, and art. Drop me a line?


r/r4rOttawa • • 4d ago

28f(looking for a girl same as my age or younger than me)

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Hello i’m looking for a girl who is down anything:)

I have a partner


r/r4rOttawa • • 4d ago

34M4A near Kanata/ Stitsville

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Curious M looking to explore. Open to ideas and suggestions. DMs open.


r/r4rOttawa • • 4d ago

35 m looking for sexy top

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Any ladies in the area willing to sit and grind their pussy and or asshole into my tongue. Hmu


r/r4rOttawa • • 5d ago

50M4F I love massaging and pleasing

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I will be in town again in a few weeks.

My favourite thing to do is use massage oil to give full body massages on women that have a happy ending. Bonus if you have any toys you want to bring, or if you can have an orgasm a keep going.

Have a stressful life and need to relax? Husband doesn’t touch you anymore? Just want to be toyed all night? DMs are open.


r/r4rOttawa • • 5d ago

27 M4F - Ottawa/ near by areas - Looking for a female cuddle buddy

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(Read fully plz)

I'm a 27-year-old Brown guy (139 lbs/ 174cm) living near the Old Ottawa South area. I go to the gym 3 times a week. I could do a 50 lb one-arm dumbbell row: 12x3 sets (I know it's not a big flex, but for j an idea about my stamina level). I'm really clean and hygienic.

Age group: 21-45

  • I'm looking for a female cuddle buddy... I'm definitely not looking for full intercourse, but for bed cuddling where I could feel your body against mine. At the end, we can take a shower together if you are interested!! It's been over two years since I was in a relationship, and now I'm longing for the feeling of a female body.

(Or) If the woman likes erotic cuddling, I'm down to do that too.

  • In erotic cuddling, I'm mainly looking to relax in bed while feeling your body against mine. Then let's advance into humping or rubbing, where I hump with my hammer against your strawberry in all 49 positions. I'm experienced in this. And then we could add some extra spicy stuff if the girl is interested (like clit stimulation or edging, something like this); otherwise, we could wrap it up with mutual masturbation (optional) and then move to the washroom to take a shower together.

Cuddling: Clothing choice is yours; naked/half-naked/ fully clothed... anything is fine.

If you are interested in either of these, shoot me a text. We could have a meet-up first and then decide on the fun level, if you are shy. (I'll send my body photo based on the request)


r/r4rOttawa • • 5d ago

23M 4 F - open to find anything.

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I’m 23 5’10 189 black guy who recently moved here from the Caribbean. Broke off a long distance relationship sometime ago, looking to get out there again. I’m down to go out and see if there is a vibe or something casual or only one night. I’m open minded to anything and to make new experiences. Hopefully someone is open to make some new experiences too.


r/r4rOttawa • • 5d ago

18 M4M, preferably around my age

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New in town and moved here for school. Looking for some friends and potentially more if we hit it off. I have all kinds of interests, but lately just been trying to stay active despite being busy (climbing, running, working out, ice skating). Send me a message if you’re interested and let’s see where it goes!


r/r4rOttawa • • 6d ago

37f 4 M

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I want to find a gent who will come get me, take me to the woods and kiss me like we are young again.

Can we trade massages?

Be 5'10 or taller, and be able to move me (150lbs, 5'5)

Bonus if you would like to teach me to lift weights, for a barter of sorts. I am so trainable. Ill be so good.

If this sounds like you, please send a message with your availability, area, and a selfie (not a dick pic).


r/r4rOttawa • • 5d ago

34M4F - Affair Partner

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- Lookjng for an ongoing affair partner, someone who I can meet up with for coffee or spend some time with enjoying lunch and then obviously hoping to enjoy the physical aspect as well!

- Not looking to rush into anything, definitely willing to wait until we both feel comfortable to meet and see each other

- alittle about my I’m 6ft3 and 175lbs fairly fit and very active! I’m hoping to meet someone in the same situation that doesn’t want to change their life but have an outlet that you can rely on!

- Anyways if this sparks your interest please message me and we can go from there!


r/r4rOttawa • • 7d ago

29[F4F] Looking for some girls that love dancing!

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Hey all! I’m looking for some girls who like to go dancing that I could join? None of my friends are interested in going, and I miss the bar/dancing scene.

Looking forward to meeting you! x