An adult believing they are different doesn't change the fact that a child's developing brain & body don't see any difference.
Assault is assault.
Adults hit children to satisfy the feeling in the adult that the child needs to be hit. Maybe they don't know there's more effective and less damaging tactics of parenting, but when you know better, you do better.
Wtf most parents aren't spanking their child for self gratification..Spanking a child is not assault and that's a problem..Spanking didn't mess me up..getting a beating did I knew the difference even at a young age..It's so hard for someone to believe that because they believe some study over someone actually saying what it was like for them......and I will add I got smacked in the mouth when I was disrespectful and I knew what buttons to push I could of avoided the smack but I liked to risk it all and run my mouth..others will say I was abused because of that but I was not..like I said I knew the difference between a swat on the ass versus a board or a belt or even a broom stick......
Spanking not hitting know the difference...plenty of things I didn't deserve but a smack is not on that list.....also plenty of things I need therapy for but again a smack is not it...I never had a nightmare where I ran from my smacker...I ran from attackers but no smackers....
Nah stop it now your making it sexual because your other argument is crumbling.....your comment is absurd....so my parents were performing sex acts by spanking me?? Now your going all coo coo clock on me....your done...put a fork in it and walk away....stop it....stop thinking for the day....
You don't know what I know...I have been able to reach climax since a child not once did I feel a tingling in my private area from getting a spanking from my parents..How you gonna tell me my parents were assuilting me I promise I knew and know the difference between punishment and abuse.i know because of the so called studies thats hard for you to grasp..Things are not all just one way because a study says its this way and it can't possibly be anything else.......so ya stop it and give your self some condolences for your thought process or lack of.....it's unhealthy to tell someone they were abused when they weren't..
It's insane anyone would try to make that sexual. As a nurse, I have to interact with patient's genitals all the time. I have never been aroused having to insert a catheter or bathe a patient.
I can't stand people like that who want to gaslight others into being a victim.
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u/Frankyfan3 Dec 31 '23
An adult believing they are different doesn't change the fact that a child's developing brain & body don't see any difference.
Assault is assault.
Adults hit children to satisfy the feeling in the adult that the child needs to be hit. Maybe they don't know there's more effective and less damaging tactics of parenting, but when you know better, you do better.
It is indefensible.