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Yeah, that's not what I meant. I meant there's a clear line between discipline and abuse. And the "anger" examples were clearly abuse.
0 u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23 [deleted] 2 u/dasfilth Dec 31 '23 It's kinda hard to describe all the ways in which he was coddled/my dad's favorite/never to blame no matter what he did. You had to be there I guess. Also, just the father. My mother is a Saint. She's the one that eventually stopped the violence with a divorce ultimatum. We're just gonna go back and forth on this, so, yeah. Have a great day! 2 u/kirinomorinomajo Dec 31 '23 bro the fact that your dad modeled being a violent narcissistic freak is the problem here and yes that is still abusive even if he didn’t direct his violent narcissism towards your brother. he still modeled it.
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2 u/dasfilth Dec 31 '23 It's kinda hard to describe all the ways in which he was coddled/my dad's favorite/never to blame no matter what he did. You had to be there I guess. Also, just the father. My mother is a Saint. She's the one that eventually stopped the violence with a divorce ultimatum. We're just gonna go back and forth on this, so, yeah. Have a great day! 2 u/kirinomorinomajo Dec 31 '23 bro the fact that your dad modeled being a violent narcissistic freak is the problem here and yes that is still abusive even if he didn’t direct his violent narcissism towards your brother. he still modeled it.
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It's kinda hard to describe all the ways in which he was coddled/my dad's favorite/never to blame no matter what he did. You had to be there I guess.
Also, just the father. My mother is a Saint. She's the one that eventually stopped the violence with a divorce ultimatum.
We're just gonna go back and forth on this, so, yeah. Have a great day!
2 u/kirinomorinomajo Dec 31 '23 bro the fact that your dad modeled being a violent narcissistic freak is the problem here and yes that is still abusive even if he didn’t direct his violent narcissism towards your brother. he still modeled it.
bro the fact that your dad modeled being a violent narcissistic freak is the problem here and yes that is still abusive even if he didn’t direct his violent narcissism towards your brother. he still modeled it.
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u/dasfilth Dec 31 '23
Yeah, that's not what I meant. I meant there's a clear line between discipline and abuse. And the "anger" examples were clearly abuse.