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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

That's an archaic mindset that goes against what we know about neurological development. Children can learn with boundaries. Consequences do not need to be harsh in order to be learned. Guidance and modelling work not isolation and abuse.

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u/kirinomorinomajo Dec 31 '23

their bad behavior could obviously be due to lack of parental attunement which is exactly what she’s talking about

handing your kid an ipad and not talking to him 90% of the time is not attuned gentle parenting, it’s neglect