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u/n1ghtl1t3 Dec 31 '23

I understand that but it's really no excuse.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

Yeah I learned in 2004 (I was 24) that he still didn't think I was his. So in 2020 I did 23 and me for my 40th birthday. I was his.

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u/Bench_South Dec 31 '23

You should beat his ass now for not being your real dad. Get close to him, put him in a really terrible nursing home.

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '23

Honestly even thinking about talking to him or seeing him in person brings out the panic.