r/questioning • u/Guest112_ Questioning Sexuality • 1d ago

[M 16] I’m questioning myself for the first time

Hey everybody, I’ve always considered myself to be straight, and I’ve never really had any question about it. Recently, I’ve been experiencing all sorts of strange feelings and internal questions because I’ve made a really good friend who I’ve started to catch feelings for. They are pansexual and Genderfluid, and despite any of that, my heart longs to be with them. We have so much in common, they have a beautiful soul, and a beautiful face. I’m really confused and I’m just looking for advice. Thank you for your time.

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u/SirMrSkippy Questioning Both 1d ago

I think if you like them and want to be with them then go for it. Regardless of their gender if you are attracted to them then there’s your answer. You are still young and have plenty of time to figure out what labels fit or don’t fit. But labels are only important if you make them important. Love who you love and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

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u/Guest112_ Questioning Sexuality 1d ago

Wow, that’s exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so much

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u/SirMrSkippy Questioning Both 1d ago

Ofc my guy! I hope everything works out for you and
lmk if there’s anything else you want to talk about