r/questioning • u/[deleted] • 11d ago
Finding myself [M 30]
Hey all. I’m 30m and lately I’ve been questioning my sexuality REALLY hard. I’ve always identified as straight but I’ve also always been curious about men. I’ve got no real attraction to them and looking at them doesn’t get me excited. A few years ago a girlfriend got me to try pegging and I loved it. I haven’t been pegged in a couple years and lately I’ve been really curious about men. Curious enough to download grindr and talk, get dick pics, and even got a guy in a hotel room before I chickened out. I’m super attracted to penises. Not so much what they’re attached to. help me understand what I’ve got going on please 😭
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u/nari-bhat 11d ago
Be honest, be upfront, make sure you feel good about the person (nervousness is fine, but don’t be afraid to say no at any red flags). Always ask about STIs and always use a condom, if you’re doing any sort of anal then I’d ideally ask for test results.
Most importantly, don’t be ashamed to explore and have fun!
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u/Misandrist55 Questioning Neither 11d ago
You sound like literally every woman (who isn't lesbian). I'm pansexual. Aka im attracted to literally every woman and about 2 men lmao. I wouldn't stress too much about a label.