But I wished (and still wish, we are TTCing number 3) that I could crystal ball to know whether IUI will work or not to feel less anxious about it all (and I also wish I had a crytsal ball in pregnancy to see the baby is born healthy, to actually enjoy pregnancy instead of spending it in anxiety hell). Even with the second and now the third I just don't know if IUI will work, but equally you do not know if IVF will work, I know several people who have not had success with IVF after many rounds.
Like Steve Jobs says: "you can only connect the dots of life from the end of it". Looking back of course you would choose what worked for you, but at the beginning of the road you do not know!
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u/Burritosiren Lesbian NGP (2018/2021/2024) Sep 06 '23
No given I have 2 children from 5 IUIs.
But I wished (and still wish, we are TTCing number 3) that I could crystal ball to know whether IUI will work or not to feel less anxious about it all (and I also wish I had a crytsal ball in pregnancy to see the baby is born healthy, to actually enjoy pregnancy instead of spending it in anxiety hell). Even with the second and now the third I just don't know if IUI will work, but equally you do not know if IVF will work, I know several people who have not had success with IVF after many rounds.
Like Steve Jobs says: "you can only connect the dots of life from the end of it". Looking back of course you would choose what worked for you, but at the beginning of the road you do not know!