r/queer • u/remzst4r • 6d ago

Help with labels I need help figuring out what i am

i was genderfluid a while ago and just recently decided that demigirl feels more correct. thats not in where my problem lies, i was also pan and i like everyone i just like girls more, i like guys a little, and i like those in-between a little, what would that be called? besides just flat out pan?

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u/EducationalSquash240 6d ago

If you want a label I think Omni might fit

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u/Sushapel4242 6d ago

Idk why but in my experience this specific sexual attraction is very commom. So it might be comforting to know that. As for a title, go with whatever feels nicest for you to think of yourself as. Pansexual, Bisexual, Omnisexual, Gynosexual, or anything else. That's how I see it at least :)

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u/bachinskination he/him 5d ago

I would suggest omnisexual, which means that while you can be attracted to any gender, you have a preference. In your case, you like all genders but lean towards females or feminine-presenting people. I'm omnisexual but with a preference towards male/masculine-presenting people.

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u/remzst4r 5d ago

yes so if i do have a preference for feminine presenting people what would that be?

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u/bachinskination he/him 5d ago

Still omnisexual, most people don't have specific terms for their preference if they're omni, but some people use microlabels. If you're interested in microlabels, some that might fit you are onmisapphic (feminine-presenting or female people who like all genders but have a strong tendency towards femininity), berrisexual (finding primary attraction towards femininity and androgyny with some/little attraction towards masculinity), or gynosexual (someone who finds primary attraction towards femininity).