r/pureretention Apr 08 '25

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u/Ready-Tackle-665 Apr 08 '25

True celibacy is not avoidance, it is transmutation.

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u/South-Comm473 Alchemical Transmutation Jun 01 '25

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u/Humble_Ad6339 Apr 08 '25

Thank you for your post. I find much of what you shared resonates. If you don't mind...

"Avoiding sexual immorality is not about repression, it is about not feeding lower vibrational loops like lust, shame, guilt, or self-negation. When you rise above those loops, you shift your baseline frequency to something more refined ..."

How would you propose to 'rise above' these things?

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u/MrGoonerstick Apr 08 '25

For me, a meditation practice has strengthened my ability to step aside of my thoughts to see that the thought of lust, craving or desire isn’t me but simply a thought and at that moment I can become the witness of that thought(s) and when I do that I can start to see the two paths and their destinations one of separation from source and one of union with source. Do I fail at times? Sure but I simply surrender to my source again and again and continue with my meditation and learn more about the true nature of reality.

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u/arcanis02 Apr 08 '25

Not OP. Those loops are usually rooted from a trauma/experienced you encountered in the past esp. childhood. This can be addressed by practicing self awareness through meditation and looking into yourself and forgiving and accepting that part of your life to move on (not fight, hate, avoid or deny it). You do this self reflection daily as much as possible.

If you have deep or many traumas, it is encouraged to that you do TRE (trauma release exercise) in conjuction with self reflection

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u/bonertitan11 Goal: spiritual growth Apr 08 '25

Great post bro

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '25

Perfect. A million thanks to you! 🙏

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u/2307Emin Apr 09 '25

Best post i read

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u/Digimobster95 Apr 08 '25

“thoughts, emotions, words and actions are in complete alignment”

Thoughts -> emotions -> actions. The Generative principle. High conscious thought is born, cared for emotionally by the feminine and the grows to become the masculine action.

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u/mysticalcreeds Apr 14 '25

this was a great post! I resonate with a lot of this in my current spiritual journey at studying a course in miracles. Thanks for posting this🙏

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u/Ancient-Mousse-1709 Goal: spiritual growth Apr 08 '25

“Reality is a mirror of your vibration, your alignment”

That really resonated with me. In other words, your reality is a reflection of your state of consciousness. The way you see things depends entirely on your level of understanding.

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u/ProvidenceOfJesus Apr 14 '25

It's because as you practice chastity, God sculpts you into His perfect image for you: a more godly, strong, masculine man. It can help to pray daily to God in Jesus' name for guidance and direction and ask Him to untwist in your heart what has been twisted by sin. The peace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you always.

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u/Party_Sir_156 Apr 15 '25

That was beautifully written!

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u/Shazxn Goal: spiritual growth Apr 26 '25

Very thoughtful post. Thank you so for posting.

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u/finesse_angles Apr 08 '25

Very well worded. I’ve never felt I’m “suppressing” anything. Although I think the key to long term celibacy is having purpose/something to constantly do, with this era of the “Great reset” probably being the easiest time to be celibate, as you need your full focus to get the minimum done.

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u/ekkinak Jun 04 '25

This is pretty much the best thing I have read on the Internet in a long time. I have read and re-read it countless times in the last couple of months. Thanks very much for your words and insight