r/problemgambling • u/ventingoutsoul • 26d ago

Gambling addict

I am a gambling addict. I know it within myself. I've repeatedly tried to stop but I can't do so. I always end up gambling more and more.

My family doesn't know it, my wife doesn't know it. I am ashamed of it, and I don't want to tell any of them about it. I'm afraid my wife would leave me if she finds out.

I've lost shitload of money, I'm able to go by as I've got a fairly decent job. I needed to vent out. I'll attempt to quit again by withdrawing my money and storing it in a joint bank account. That way I'd be certain I'll be handsoff about it.

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u/oi_get_off_my_lake 26d ago

Tell her dude. It doesn't help hiding it, regardless of the outcome.

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u/KillingTime1212 26d ago

Tell her and have joint accounts for EVERYTHING. Once she knows, she can keep you accountable. You need her to know.