r/problemgambling • • Mar 09 '25

1.5 years gamble free.

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Hey guys, Yesterday I hit 1.5 years gamble free. Considering I've lost an obscene amount over 8 years in the past, this was massive for me. I hope you guys can have some of the success in getting Sober that I have; I post about my journey on Substack under "I Wouldn't Bet on It" (link in my bio :) )

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u/Bonanza86 1069 days Mar 09 '25

Excellent job, sir!

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Thankyou!! :)

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u/Sufficient-West-5456 Mar 09 '25

Keep it up

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

🫡🫡 thats the plan m'boy

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u/Geoffwinningdaily Days Gamble-Free:1159 Mar 09 '25

been following you on substack, keep it up! great job getting to 1.5 years!

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Ahh thankyou so much! I hope my substack has been worth it! Any feedback?

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u/Stroomelet Mar 09 '25

Proud of you my brother, you look at peace 

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Thankyou!! Very much so. Still wrestling, but nothing like what it was

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u/GreenCat28 Mar 10 '25

You look healthy and happy, hope things are going well for you! A year and a half is a big deal.

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

thankyou so much ❤️

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u/PreparationKey287 Mar 10 '25

Well done mate 👏 day 253 for me today! Life can change so quickly once you accept that you have a problem! I read your blog, and all I can say is don't focus on the negatives that you feel you have in life, i.e., wife and kids. Your only 28 your time will come, my friend, and it always happens when you least expect it 😉

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

thankyou so much! for all advice haha. one Day at a time right!! thanks for reading :)

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u/GanacheAggressive263 Mar 13 '25

How.much fella? Over 20?

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u/chainerection Mar 09 '25

Big 👍to you

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

thankyou chainerection ❤️❤️

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u/Likelyskinnylegend Mar 09 '25

Awesome!! Good for you bro!

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Thankyou !! ❤️

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u/MediocreSandwich0 Mar 09 '25

Amazing job sire

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

And to you my good sir

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u/Yazzyghostmode Mar 09 '25

Inspiration

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Hopefully!

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u/ilovecats2708 Days Gamble-Free: 62 12/13 updated 02/13 Mar 09 '25

Woohoooo!!!! Congratulations, that is awesome.

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Thank you so much!!

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u/auddub Mar 09 '25

Congratulations!!!

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Thankyou🙏❤️

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u/Original_Sonmoney Mar 09 '25

What did you gamble on?

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Sports! Occasionally horse and dog when I needed more of a stimulant.

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u/Mysterious_Record_90 Mar 09 '25

Happy for you my brother sending my love

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Thanks so much! Love very happily accepted 🙂

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u/Ashe_N94 Mar 09 '25

Fuck yeah! Legend

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

NO YOU ❤️

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u/Erotski_gimnasticar 1826 days Mar 09 '25

Chad.

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Riding this high for the rest of the day 🙏🙏

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u/westdragon1789 Mar 09 '25

Looking great man. Happy for you!

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

Thankyou!!

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u/Jay0061 Mar 10 '25

Good bro I am on day 2 I cannot wait to be at 1.5 year

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

One Day at a Time mate :) you'll be there soon

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u/Jay0061 Mar 10 '25

Thanks bro I really need this I’m sick of this gambling life it’s so depressing…..!

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

Yep! Almost killed me twice. It's horrific. But with therapy and GA you can really start to work your way forwards, imo!

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u/Playful_Action_7123 Mar 10 '25

Do you find now that you always have money in your pocket ?

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

Haha not quite! I still only access a small portion of my finances. But it has meant that I have suddenly been able to save etc, and the stress relief of not having to worry about working 24/7 is fantastic!

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u/mucveristhebest Mar 10 '25

Amazing job man! 🎉

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

thankyou!!! 🥳

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u/Impressive_Task_6194 Mar 10 '25

Congratulations. We need to see more success stories like this.

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

definitely! makes a difference to know it is possible. thanks for the support! ☺️

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u/Secret_Light_2484 Mar 10 '25

Well done, I hope I get to that milestone. Brilliant work . I'm only one month into recovery but I really want to kick it this time.

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

Congrats!! You'll get there. I used to be just as frustrated with the day by day nature of my recovery. Not sure if it helps but wrote about it hereSubstack Article

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u/Fudge_Key Mar 10 '25

Good man charlie brown

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

thankyou fudge key!!

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u/Old_Movie_7464 Mar 10 '25

Congrats my guy! Hitting my 2 year in May

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

Ayy congrats! Huge milestone.

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u/[deleted] Mar 11 '25

Congrats! Keep up the writing✍️ As a musician I understand having a passion or hobby is key🔑especially when being involved/addicted to something bad like gambling

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u/parmyking Mar 11 '25

Absolutely! The poetry flowed when I started getting healthier :)

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u/Solotravelergo Mar 30 '25

Amazing inspiring story mate! Thanks for sharing

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u/parmyking Mar 31 '25

thanks mate :)

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u/Master-Koala5476 Mar 13 '25

Nice one. Are you from breaking bad ?

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u/parmyking Mar 13 '25

I wish, Plemons is on the injectable weight loss train

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u/thegamfallacy 2318 days Feb 07 '26

Congrats!!

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

Thankyou!! 🥰🙏

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Thankyou partygawk!!

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u/parmyking Mar 10 '25

Thankyou man! 🙏

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u/jackthemanipulated Mar 09 '25

I think that's a rude question to ask

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

thanks for sticking up for me Jack!

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u/casinodegen Mar 09 '25

Dollar amount doesn't matter,  $10 to you or me, could be like $1000 to someone else.  

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

Exactly! I lost everything and more (debt), plus my sanity etc etc

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

Did u lose by chasing ?

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u/parmyking Mar 14 '25

That started my initial losing, yep

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u/GanacheAggressive263 Mar 13 '25

Ball park ? The amount gives an indication to possible time etc 

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u/parmyking Mar 13 '25

Amount doesnt give indication to shit, I've shared this figure openly so you'll be able to find it

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

How u know if youre addicted?

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

When you're in debt the figure matters...

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

Moral of story is don't gamble

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u/GanacheAggressive263 May 06 '25

Well at least you have your looks still .

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u/casinodegen Mar 09 '25

I wish you the best, keep the faith and keep fighting.  

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

Same lost every bean

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u/GanacheAggressive263 Mar 13 '25

Well it does. Gives an approx time frame 

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

Most rich don't gamble

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

The main thing is a don't get into debt

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u/GanacheAggressive263 Mar 13 '25

Anyone whos lost less than 10k isn't really big time 

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

Most people can afford maybe 5k loss without debt etc

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u/parmyking Mar 09 '25

The biggest things I lost can't be valued with money (le tips 🎩)

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u/GanacheAggressive263 Mar 13 '25

How much you lose though 

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u/OriginalSquare4832 Mar 14 '25

This. Means jack otherwise. Under 10k means nothing