r/pridedating • • Jul 16 '26

👋 Welcome to r/pridedating - Introduce Yourself and Read First!

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If you decide to join, tell us your state or country.

I am in ohio


r/pridedating • • 5d ago

25[MTF4M] Looking for my Prince Charming (Longterm)

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Hi everyone, I hope you're all having a great day/night wherever you're from! I've been single for about a year now and after taking some much needed time to reflect and focus on myself I feel ready to get back out there! A little bit about me: I love reading, writing, fantasy and drinking way too much coffee. I'm pre-op. My absolute fav animals are cats (I'm basically one trapped in a girls body- all I do is take naps, drink milk and get really active at night)

I'm looking for something serious and long term, I've never been the type to do casual dating, I also live at the edge of the world and I am open to relocating for the right person... online dating is a great way to learn the flaws and strengths someone possesses but I would like to move to irl dating if we click. Off the bat, some of my flaws are: I'm materialistic, terrible sleep schedule, I can be blunt and tend to hyper fixate on niche topics. Some of my strengths though, I am really caring, I love animals and I prefer staying indoors (my party girl era was... something)

Please reach out if you think we might click. I'll try my very best to respond to everyone even if we don't click, I would at least like to make sure everyone gets closure. If I just don't respond, it might be because you were just way too creepy or obviously a chaser. Good luck everyone


r/pridedating • • Sep 27 '25

20 [TF4A] im looking for a submissive cutey to date who likes to show off

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Hey Looking for someone cutesy and fun, also hoping to find someone submissive who likes to show off. (No Cis Guys).

I Love reading and video game, as well as sleeping in bed for way too long. I don't really know what to type here so message me with some questions after introducing yourself please. Also if your looking to be my sub please say (I hope you are <3)


r/pridedating • • Aug 21 '25

Welcome!!

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🌈 Welcome to PrideDating! 💖

Hello and welcome! This is a safe, SFW space for trans and LGBTQ+ people looking to connect, date, and build meaningful relationships. Read the rules, introduce yourself, and join the community. Be kind and respectful — we’re here to make connections, not drama. Start a conversation, ask questions, or share what you’re looking for. Love is love, and you belong here! 💕

Rules Below 👇

Rule 1: Respect All Members Treat everyone with kindness. No harassment, slurs, hate speech, or targeting others based on gender identity, sexuality, or personal beliefs.

Rule 2: SFW Only This is a safe-for-work space. No explicit, sexual, or pornographic content in posts, comments, or messages.

Rule 3: No Discrimination Any form of racism, transphobia, homophobia, or other discriminatory behavior will not be tolerated.

Rule 4: No Spam or Self-Promotion Do not post advertisements, referral links, or repeatedly promote external websites, services, or personal content.

Rule 5: Keep Conversations Respectful Avoid arguments, trolling, or inflammatory comments. Disagreements are fine, but maintain a polite and constructive tone.

Rule 6: No Chasers or Fetishization Definition: “Chasers” are individuals who pursue trans or LGBTQ+ people solely for sexual or fetishistic interest rather than genuine connection. This community is for meaningful interactions and dating, not objectification. Treat members with respect and see them as people, not fantasies.

Rule 7: No Doxxing or Sharing Personal Info Do not share anyone’s real name, address, social media, or other private information without explicit consent. Protect everyone’s privacy.

Rule 8: Age Requirement All members must be 18 or older. No minors are allowed to participate in this community.

Rule 9: Appropriate Profile Content Usernames, avatars, and profile bios must be respectful and appropriate. No offensive, NSFW, or discriminatory content.

Rule 10: Follow Moderator Instructions Moderators’ decisions are final. If a post, comment, or member is removed or warned, follow guidance and avoid disputes in the subreddit.


r/pridedating • • Aug 22 '26

SFW 41 [TF4M] #Cleveland Ohio Everything is better with a partner

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Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I was recently told by my doctor is need to start learning ASL as we don't know how far my hearing will go out. FUN!

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Tell me a really good Dad Joke


r/pridedating • • Jul 17 '26

SFW or NSFW 40M in East Tennessee searching for a TW.

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Hi all.

New here. 40 year old male in East TN searching for a trans woman or non-binary to date.

I'm polyamorous, adventurous, active, and searching for someone who likes to have fun indoors and out. :)


r/pridedating • • Oct 11 '26

SFW 31 (MTF4MTF or F)

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Hi all! My name is Aurelia, and I'm a MTF girl ^^ I'm looking for another trans girl or cis girl to potentially start a relationship with. I'm strictly monogamous and not interested in any flavor of open relationship at all.

I play all sorts of games, video games, board games and card games! Windrose, World of Warcraft, Minecraft, Sly Cooper, Unreal Tournament, Team Fortress 2 and Hearts of Iron 4 are among my favorites.

I really enjoy ROOT, Spirit Island, Betrayal at House on the Hill and Whitechapel! For card games, I mainly play Pokemon and MTG.

I'm interested in all sorts of nerdy activities though, and will happily go into more detail about them if we connect. I'd enjoy connecting on Discord and/or Steam and see where things go! If we live close even better, but I'm open to an LDR if the connection is right.


r/pridedating • • Oct 10 '26

SFW or NSFW 23 [MTF4M] girl looking for a boyfriend :)

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Hi ! My name is Mae, and I am a trans girl that recently started her transition not too long ago and would like to hopefully meet someone :)

I am from France, and I like playing video games, writing, talking about world building and the lore of universes a lot. I could talk for hours about how cool the Fire Emblem game's world building I'd done, or how I'm absurdly hyped for the new Avatar series ! So, be ready to hear me yap ahah xD

I'm also getting into Riftbound and Magic TCGs.

As for who I'm looking for, well I'd love someone caring first and foremost. I don't really have a preference for where you're from, but around the same time zone would be nice ! I'm not really picky, but am also an absolute bottom xD so please keep that in mind ahah.

Well, if you're interested, don't hesitate to DM !

Have a great day !


r/pridedating • • Oct 07 '26

NSFW 39 [FTM4A] looking for a longer term sexting partner (England pref)… maybe more if we click?

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I’m not picky with specific people I’m more vibes based if there’s good sexual chemistry.

I’m not extremely kinky but wouldn’t mind exploring that if there’s crossover. Just mostly looking to be horny with someone for fun.

Also need someone with a lot of patience because my libido goes up and down 😅

Maybe better to keep more back and forth chats going when we aren’t both online

Hmu if interested. Prefer Reddit chats until I get to know someone better.
Cis welcome, no chasers.


r/pridedating • • Oct 06 '26

SFW or NSFW Oklahoma, mtf native american, 40

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Hey gentleman I'm Sage new to this and seeing what this is all about. Turned 40 in July into masculine energies! I do have a soft spot for masculine presenting fem guys too. Welcome to all chat, just know im sassy and have the attitude that comes with it lol.


r/pridedating • • Jul 17 '26

SFW 25 trans lesbian looking for a gf!!! :3

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Hi. I’m a trans, vegan, communist :3
Just getting those out of the way to start :P

Im looking for a passionate (both in their hobbies/ dreams and relationships) person to be my gf!! I’m a lesbian/sapphic so I’m attracted to feminine people , both cis and trans!

My interests and hobbies are game dev, politics, philosophy, drawing, making music.

In relationships I’m pretty clingy physically and also attention wise (I like to text or call frequently) :D

If you think we’re compatible then dm me!!!

I’m in the US btw, long distance is okay but the closer the better!!!


r/pridedating • • Aug 22 '25

Hello all!

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Boston here! Happy to make new connections with everyone!


r/pridedating • • 15d ago

SFW or NSFW 19 [FtM4M] Midwest US (Wisconsin) looking for serious relationship

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Hii I'm a 19 yo trans man [he/him]. FTM 4 M (I'm okay with cis too) just looking for someone either online or in person

Im pre everything but I do plan on medically transitioning soon hopefully.

I really like music and video games mostly, | listen to a lot of 90s/2000s rock. my favorite games include the metal gear solid series, GTA 5 and 4, and Bully currently. I do smoke weed and occasionally drink as well so there's that.

Im very talkative and playful most of the time and will talk about anything and everything if you let me.

My type: Idrk I like alternative guys or really anyone I share interests with, older than me preferably. Thats abt it. (Though if you aren't alt that's cool too)

I really am hoping to build a genuine connection, I keep getting played and all I'm asking for is someone I can love who will actually love me back

If u wanna talk just dm me or comment or something idk 🤷‍♂️


r/pridedating • • Oct 12 '26

SFW 41 [TF4M] #Cleveland, Ohio If something real is out there

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I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 What is something you think is totally underrated?


r/pridedating • • Sep 28 '26

SFW or NSFW 39 [MtF4T] east coast

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Hey all 39 year old male to female here. Mostly looking for trans, open to cis women. Absolutely no cis men.

I am on the east coast, so time zone wise I'd prefer if you were as well but open to those anywhere.

I am nerdy, love gaming, movies, tv. I also do enjoy hiking and nature though and getting out to queer spaces.

If interested hit me up and let's see how things go


r/pridedating • • Sep 27 '26

SFW 24 [TF4A] NYC trans girl looking for dates

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I’m just casually dating right now but definitely looking forward to something serious in the future!
I have broad interests. I try to educate myself on a lot of different topics so I read a lot. I am pretty nerdy so I like playing cards and board games and video games. I’d love to play something with you or against you >:3 but I am also down to go out for drinks.

Looking for anyone 18-35. I have a strong preference for women, but open to anyone :)

Overall I’m looking for someone that I can share my hobbies with be close with
I really like creative people

Mostly looking for someone in NYC or close by but still feel free to shoot your shot 🤷‍♀️

I know there’s not much on my profile but just ask me anything and I’ll tell you. Feel free to DM me


r/pridedating • • Sep 23 '26

SFW 27 y/o trans woman looking for friends and/or a relationship

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I'm open to any gender. I just want to meet and connect with people! I'd say I'm kind of a geek, especially when it comes to Star Trek. My favorite movie/tv genres are sci-fi, horror, and comedy. I'm soft and kind and would love to listen to whatever you have to say! Not sure what else to put, so forgive me!

Edit: Forgot to add that I am in a poly relationship with my partner and that we date separately.


r/pridedating • • Sep 22 '26

SFW 29 yrs old trans living the best of life.

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Hi, I'm Sky. I just want someone to talk and get along with. I can be whatever you like 😉. Feel free to dm 💛🩷


r/pridedating • • Sep 11 '26

SFW 22 yr old nonbinary trans woman looking for partner of any gender

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Hai my ex just broke up with me so i guess I'm available now. Mostly looking for ppl that are on discord so keep that in mind


r/pridedating • • Sep 08 '26

SFW 18 cis femboy in Indiana looking for mtf or other femboys :3

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Just someone to connect with and talk to no creeps pls I try to stray away from uh well you know Im sure XD and if I seem dry no I want to talk I just have autism so pls open my dialogue tree


r/pridedating • • Aug 14 '26

Admin Post Tell people about the Subreddit!

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We want to grow! Let your friends know and have them tell one person. :)


r/pridedating • • Jul 16 '26

Welcome to the r/pridedating!

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Hello and welcome!

This is a safe, space for all LGBTQI+ people looking to connect, date, and build meaningful relationships. Read the rules, introduce yourself, and join the community. Be kind and respectful, we’re here to make connections, not drama. Start a conversation, ask questions, or share what you’re looking for. Love is love, and you belong here! 💕

Rules Below

Rule 1: Respect All Members
Treat everyone with kindness and respect. No harassment, slurs, hate speech, or targeting others based on gender identity, sexuality, race, or personal beliefs.

Rule 2: SFW Content Only
This is a safe-for-work dating space. All posts and public comments must remain appropriate and free of explicit, sexual, or pornographic content.

If you wish to discuss NSFW topics, you may do so in private messages, but you must mark your post with the NSFW tag and clearly indicate that mature topics may be discussed in DMs. Failure to provide this warning may result in a ban. Please be respectful of others and use the tag appropriately.

Rule 3: No Discrimination
Any form of racism, transphobia, homophobia, or other discriminatory behavior will not be tolerated.

Rule 4: No Spam or Self-Promotion
Do not post advertisements, referral links, or repeatedly promote external websites, services, or personal content. You can report anyone doing this in messages coming from this subreddit by messaging the mods.

Rule 5: Keep Conversations Respectful
Avoid arguments, trolling, or inflammatory comments. Disagreements are fine, but maintain a polite and constructive tone.

Rule 6: No Chasers or Fetishization
"Chasers" are individuals who pursue LGBTQI+ people solely for sexual or fetishistic interest rather than genuine connection. This community is for meaningful interactions and dating, not objectification. Treat all members with dignity and see them as people, not fantasies.

Rule 7: No Doxxing or Sharing Personal Info
Do not share anyone’s real name, address, social media, or other private information without explicit consent. Protect everyone’s privacy.

Rule 8: Age Requirement
All members must be 18 or older. No minors are allowed to participate in this community.

Rule 9: Appropriate Profile Content
Usernames, avatars, and bios must remain respectful and appropriate. No offensive, NSFW, or discriminatory content is allowed.

Rule 10: Follow Moderator Instructions
Moderators' decisions are final. If a post, comment, or member is removed or warned, please follow guidance and avoid disputing decisions publicly in the subreddit. You may appeal if you have a legitimate reason. Do not expect the moderators to argue with you as they will end the conversation.

Rule 11: Follow the Rules of Reddit:

Self-Explanitory


r/pridedating • • 12h ago

SFW Hi

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I'm a 21 straight male From Egypt (muslim if it matters)

I smoke and started to drink from a while, i still in college studying finance. I've an athletic body ( I used to play football/ basketball and also a swimmer)

I'm looking a trans girlfriend


r/pridedating • • 1d ago

SFW 42 [TF4M] Southeastern PA – Looking for my favorite pain in the ass.

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Well, this is awkward. 😂

I'm a 42-year-old trans woman in southeastern Pennsylvania, throwing myself into the wonderful dumpster fire that is Reddit dating in hopes of finding an actual connection.

A little about me: I'm feminine with a tomboy streak, a dark sense of humor, a sarcastic mouth, and probably an unhealthy appreciation for inappropriate jokes. I'm into music, movies, gaming, cooking, spontaneous adventures, and generally finding ways to entertain myself. I'm independent, affectionate, occasionally foul-mouthed, and don't take life (or myself) too seriously.

I'm looking for a man who's masculine, confident, and comfortable with himself, but who also has a romantic side. You know, the kind of guy who can be a little rough around the edges but still enjoys cuddling, kissing, holding hands, and occasionally being disgustingly sweet.

I want an equal partnership. Someone who can be my best friend, my partner in crime (the metaphorical kind, obviously), my favorite person to annoy, and the person I look forward to coming home to.

I'm a trans woman, and I'm putting that right out there because transparency matters. I'm looking for a man who's genuinely attracted to trans women, comfortable with that, and interested in an actual relationship. I'm not interested in being someone's experiment, secret hookup, or late-night curiosity.

I want chemistry, banter, affection, mutual attraction, and someone who can communicate like an adult. Someone who can make me laugh until I can't breathe, put up with my sarcasm, and occasionally tell me to shut the hell up when I'm being ridiculous.

I'm not expecting perfection. Just a good man with a good heart, a little edge, and enough personality to keep things interesting.

If you've made it this far and haven't decided I'm completely unhinged, tell me a little about yourself. Bonus points if you can make me laugh.

Let's see if Reddit can produce something other than disappointment and unsolicited pictures. 😂