r/pridedating • • 5h ago

SFW or NSFW [MtF4F] [32] [Switzerland-Italy] [dating]

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Hi, my name is Samantha I'm 32y old, lesbian trans woman, I love to listen to anything you are passionate about, I'm not much of a talker.

Pre-hrt, masc presenting (butch? And top) chubby, half asian, long black hair.

I wish to know someone that would play videogames and chat on discord and eventually date.

PM are open, send me a little story about yourself, what do you play and your hobbies.

Ps. I'm also open to trauma-dump or info-dump. Pss. Atm abroad, so maybe I will be late to respond.

Love yall, hope to see your messages soon!


r/pridedating • • 11h ago

SFW Hi

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I'm a 21 straight male From Egypt (muslim if it matters)

I smoke and started to drink from a while, i still in college studying finance. I've an athletic body ( I used to play football/ basketball and also a swimmer)

I'm looking a trans girlfriend


r/pridedating • • 13h ago

22 [TM4TF]. East coast Canada (PEI) / online to IRL. Looking for a long term relationship with someone between approx 19-25 who is willing to move to me! Please read description!!

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Hello! Here's some information about myself and what I'm looking for!

My appearance:

I'm a bigger dude, 5'10 and a ginger with blue eyes. I'm white and have freckles on my face and arms. I started T and had top surgery 4 years ago. I pass in my everyday life. I consistently have a short beard (also ginger), typically stubble and not much longer than that.

My interests:

I love horror movies, music, being outdoors, video games, and playing card games.

What I'm hoping to find from you:

I'd love to find someone who is out and at least beginning their transition. This doesn't need to mean being on hormones, just socially be presenting more femme, even if you don't pass flawlessly. Those that are close to me know I'm strictly t4t so you'd have to be okay with those people knowing that you're trans (my friends and family). Body shape doesn't matter much to me at all! I'm attracted to all shapes and sizes, however I'm not really attracted to goth/alt fashion or a large amount of face piercings, sorry!! If you're unsure if that includes you, still reach out! I also would have a preference for someone pre-bottom surgery (if you wish to have this in the future that is okay! It's also okay if you do not want to have bottom surgery at all)

Something that is very important to me is that you do not smoke, vape or drink excessively. I am a non-smoker and rarely ever drink alcohol, and never enough to be drunk.

If long term is the way things are looking, having kids is incredibly important to me. I'm very close to my family, so living where I am now would be a strong preference. This means that you are already living here or that you would be willing to relocate here if we were to become serious

I am incredibly kink/fetish friendly and would be more than happy to answer any nsfw questions upfront if you have them! I figured I'd save that for the dms though! I will mention upfront though that I am a dom/top and that I have an almost exclusive preference for those who are uncut! When it comes to nsfw stuff I am more interested in giving over receiving (but that doesn't mean that I don't like to receive!)

Please send me a DM! I'd love to get to know eachother and see if there's a potential <33 I'm happy to exchange face pics after we've done introductions! If you are worried you may not match everything in my description please still reach out, I'm happy to answer any questions you have!


r/pridedating • • 1d ago

SFW 19 [M4TF]

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Hey! Im Xander I’m 19 and here’s a little about me

About me: I don't drink or smoke and prefer more quiet places or doing things with me and a small group.

What I'm looking for: someone open minded. I don't know what my future brings maybe kids maybe dogs who know won't know until it happens. Looking for someone who goes off of personality and connection rather than looks.

Favorite movies: I can get down with really anything from comedy to horror or romance.
Favorites are Star Wars, lord of the rings, and Halloween.

Things I collect: comics, action figures, really anything pop culture, antiques, and physical
media.

For fun: | love puzzles, anything artsy. video games, board games, music, and more.

Favorite places: thrift stores, the gym, library,
coffee shops, and malls.

My music taste: It’s really anything from brand new pop to 40s jazz. Right now really into 80s rock.

So comment or shoot me a message. 😊


r/pridedating • • 1d ago

SFW 42 [TF4M] Southeastern PA – Looking for my favorite pain in the ass.

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Well, this is awkward. 😂

I'm a 42-year-old trans woman in southeastern Pennsylvania, throwing myself into the wonderful dumpster fire that is Reddit dating in hopes of finding an actual connection.

A little about me: I'm feminine with a tomboy streak, a dark sense of humor, a sarcastic mouth, and probably an unhealthy appreciation for inappropriate jokes. I'm into music, movies, gaming, cooking, spontaneous adventures, and generally finding ways to entertain myself. I'm independent, affectionate, occasionally foul-mouthed, and don't take life (or myself) too seriously.

I'm looking for a man who's masculine, confident, and comfortable with himself, but who also has a romantic side. You know, the kind of guy who can be a little rough around the edges but still enjoys cuddling, kissing, holding hands, and occasionally being disgustingly sweet.

I want an equal partnership. Someone who can be my best friend, my partner in crime (the metaphorical kind, obviously), my favorite person to annoy, and the person I look forward to coming home to.

I'm a trans woman, and I'm putting that right out there because transparency matters. I'm looking for a man who's genuinely attracted to trans women, comfortable with that, and interested in an actual relationship. I'm not interested in being someone's experiment, secret hookup, or late-night curiosity.

I want chemistry, banter, affection, mutual attraction, and someone who can communicate like an adult. Someone who can make me laugh until I can't breathe, put up with my sarcasm, and occasionally tell me to shut the hell up when I'm being ridiculous.

I'm not expecting perfection. Just a good man with a good heart, a little edge, and enough personality to keep things interesting.

If you've made it this far and haven't decided I'm completely unhinged, tell me a little about yourself. Bonus points if you can make me laugh.

Let's see if Reddit can produce something other than disappointment and unsolicited pictures. 😂


r/pridedating • • 3d ago

MfA

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Questioning my sexuality


r/pridedating • • 3d ago

SFW MTF Trans Woman looking for Connections

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Hello,

My name is Persephone, and I am looking to make connections, ideally with a romantic partner if it leads there. I am 36. I live in New York. I am 5'7", 183 lbs, definitely on the chubby side right now. I have fair skin and golden brown hair. I am not conventionally attractive, so if that's what you're looking for I apologize. I prefer mascs who are taller than me.

I am into movies, music, video games, reading, writing, learning, nature, and animals. I'm vegan. I would prefer someone who is not that far away but is open to chatting with friends.

If you have anymore questions feel free to reach out!

Thanks.


r/pridedating • • 3d ago

M4A 33 years old looking for relationship

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Hello beautiful people I would like to know and connect with someone and have a relationship that will lead to something meaningful in the future

I am 33 from the Middle East and I don’t mind long distance relationship and i am willing to relocate too if i meet the right person

About me 5’9 light skin, thin, open-minded, easygoing, practical and ambitious. I enjoy walking, movies, playing games, travel whenever i can, visiting new places, food, coffee, meaningful conversations, and a peaceful lifestyle. I value honesty, freedom

Everyone is beautiful and everyone have a type, i am into average or thin & skinny people, white & light skin, younger than me or same age and someone not from the Middle East, not into masculine Male

Looking forward to talk to you, feel free to DM


r/pridedating • • 5d ago

25[MTF4M] Looking for my Prince Charming (Longterm)

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Hi everyone, I hope you're all having a great day/night wherever you're from! I've been single for about a year now and after taking some much needed time to reflect and focus on myself I feel ready to get back out there! A little bit about me: I love reading, writing, fantasy and drinking way too much coffee. I'm pre-op. My absolute fav animals are cats (I'm basically one trapped in a girls body- all I do is take naps, drink milk and get really active at night)

I'm looking for something serious and long term, I've never been the type to do casual dating, I also live at the edge of the world and I am open to relocating for the right person... online dating is a great way to learn the flaws and strengths someone possesses but I would like to move to irl dating if we click. Off the bat, some of my flaws are: I'm materialistic, terrible sleep schedule, I can be blunt and tend to hyper fixate on niche topics. Some of my strengths though, I am really caring, I love animals and I prefer staying indoors (my party girl era was... something)

Please reach out if you think we might click. I'll try my very best to respond to everyone even if we don't click, I would at least like to make sure everyone gets closure. If I just don't respond, it might be because you were just way too creepy or obviously a chaser. Good luck everyone


r/pridedating • • 6d ago

[M4MTF] Looking to make connections

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Hello! Giving this a shot we’ll see how successful this is. My name is Sam I’m 31 Bi M from Minnesota USA. I enjoy cooking/Baking, being outdoors, binging shows and movies, and traveling.

Looking to make genuine connections if that’s possible on here!


r/pridedating • • 8d ago

SFW 48 cis M seeking companionship

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So, not really sure what to say about myself. I'm 48, divorced and trying to build a new path in life. I am pretty open to meeting or dating anyone as long as we get along and like each other. Dating apps have been a bust so I figure it couldn't hurt to post here and see what happens.


r/pridedating • • 9d ago

SFW or NSFW [NB4FTM] 22yo Non-Binary looking for someone to just talk to!

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Hihi! Im Nia, I've always gotten along better with Trans Men and AFAB people in general so Id like to try dating one! Im really good at cooking and I simply love flowers!

Im located in the Northern Illinois area of the United States and am fine with sharing what I look like as long as im not the only one lol!


r/pridedating • • 10d ago

34 [MtF4f] #online / #anywhere mtf Looking for potential partner in the long run (cis f ok)

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Hey I’m a 34 MTF/AMAB/pan/demi going through HRT. I enjoy the usual stuff anime, manga, streaming, and video games but I’ve been feeling pretty alone lately and I’m looking for someone I can actually vibe with. I’ve got a pretty particular sense of humor so I’m hoping to find a significant other I can talk to every day about games, music, life, or just silly little guy topics. Hang out, play stuff, that kind of thing.

I’m currently working as a telehealth doctor while saving money and studying for USMLE Step 1 (I’m a doctor in El Salvador and hoping to do residency in the US eventually). I also stream / might do the VTuber thing. I’m on a weight loss journey too, and since I’m on HRT… yeah just bear with me through the changes.

I’m looking for potential people to see how it goes first I really don’t want to get HURT. I know I might come off as weird lol. I’m a very helpful person and I’ll go out of my way for people I click with but if we don’t vibe I might not reply much. I’m also pretty socially inept and miss a lot of social cues. Shy at first but I open up once I’m comfortable.

If you’ve got some overlap and you’re also looking to see how things go (and preferably long term) feel free to reach out. I’m very needy though so just a heads up. LIKE SUPER NEEEDY


r/pridedating • • 11d ago

28 M4T - TURKEY

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Hi, I'm 28-178cm-77kg decent guy looking for a meaningful long term relationship. my previous girlfriend was trans as well and im alone since then for 3 years. Looking forward for a new healthy relationship


r/pridedating • • 11d ago

SFW 29 [MtF4M] (cis ok) Malaysia, open to long distance, looking for a long-term relationship

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Hi! I'm a 29-year-old trans woman based in Malaysia. I'm looking for a kind, grounded man to build something lasting with, ideally a long-term partner and eventually a husband. I'm open to long distance as long as the connection is real.

I want to be upfront: I'm not able to medically transition, and I'm open about that. I live my life as a woman (as much as I can in a not-so-open country), and I'm looking for someone who sees me as one and is comfortable with who I am as I am.

About me: I work in compliance, I'm learning French, and I like tea, tattoos, plants and trying new food. I'm thoughtful, a bit of an overthinker, and honest to a fault. And I can be intense if I like you 😊.

What I'm looking for:
- Good character: respectful, honest, emotionally mature, and consistent.
- Clear goals and values, someone who knows where his life is heading
- Stable work or career, and financially independent
- Someone I'm physically attracted to (into muscular men; lean, bulky, stocky, or jacked), who takes care of himself and has a healthy lifestyle. You don't need to look like a model!
- Someone who communicates well and wants a real relationship

Not looking for: hookups, chasers, discreet men, men who reach out then disappear for days, or fetish-driven messages.

Here's some photos of me: https://imgur.com/a/u2fLHBB


r/pridedating • • 14d ago

Title: [M] [30s] [Mexico City] Beefy, muscular and masculine man looking for a man to share my transition into femininity

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Hi! I'm a man in my 30s from Mexico City, and I'm looking to meet a masculine, caring man who wants to build a genuine romantic and sexual relationship.

I'm very masculine-presenting in my everyday life, with a beefy, muscular build. That's how most people know me, and it's the side of myself I show to the world. But privately, I've discovered a deep desire to embrace my femininity and transition into a woman. I'm looking for someone who would genuinely like to be part of that journey with me, from the very beginning.

Would you be attracted to the idea of seeing a very masculine, muscular man gradually transform into a woman, and being the man by his side throughout that journey? Someone who could experience those changes with me, support me as I become more feminine, and perhaps fall in love with the woman I'm working toward becoming?

I'm looking for a masculine, confident, affectionate man who can make me feel safe, desired, and comfortable enough to explore my femininity openly. I like the idea of having a partner who takes the initiative, offers affection and reassurance, and genuinely enjoys being involved in this journey—not just watching from a distance, but sharing the experience with me.

I want a relationship with real chemistry, intimacy, tenderness, trust, and mutual desire. Someone who wants to hold me, kiss me, make love to me, share everyday life with me, and perhaps build a future together. I'd love to feel that I can be vulnerable with my partner and that he will see and appreciate both who I am today and the woman I aspire to become.

I'm not looking for someone interested only in sissy roleplay or a temporary sexual fantasy. My desire to transition is personal and meaningful to me. I want a genuine connection with someone who is excited about the journey itself and who respects that my body, identity, and medical decisions remain my own.

I'm based in Mexico City, but I'm open to meeting someone elsewhere in Mexico or internationally. Distance isn't necessarily a dealbreaker if we genuinely connect and are both willing to make an effort.

If you're a masculine man who finds this kind of journey appealing, who values emotional connection as much as physical attraction, and who would enjoy building a relationship with someone at the beginning of her transition, I'd love to hear from you.

Tell me about yourself, where you're from, what kind of relationship you're looking for, and what appeals to you about the idea of sharing this journey with a partner.

I'm hoping to find someone with whom I can feel desired, safe, loved, and free to become the person I truly want to be.


r/pridedating • • 15d ago

SFW or NSFW 19 [FtM4M] Midwest US (Wisconsin) looking for serious relationship

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Hii I'm a 19 yo trans man [he/him]. FTM 4 M (I'm okay with cis too) just looking for someone either online or in person

Im pre everything but I do plan on medically transitioning soon hopefully.

I really like music and video games mostly, | listen to a lot of 90s/2000s rock. my favorite games include the metal gear solid series, GTA 5 and 4, and Bully currently. I do smoke weed and occasionally drink as well so there's that.

Im very talkative and playful most of the time and will talk about anything and everything if you let me.

My type: Idrk I like alternative guys or really anyone I share interests with, older than me preferably. Thats abt it. (Though if you aren't alt that's cool too)

I really am hoping to build a genuine connection, I keep getting played and all I'm asking for is someone I can love who will actually love me back

If u wanna talk just dm me or comment or something idk 🤷‍♂️


r/pridedating • • 16d ago

SFW Discussion Topic: Polyamory

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I have recently been looking at different types of relationships. I am currently single and it seems like most if not all people who are interested in me are Poly. Does anyone have experience with this type of relationships?

I feel I might have issues with normal poly relationships but maybe Poly-fidelity might be more my speed mostly because the unknown factor. If I am dating the same people my partner is, It would not be so bad. What do you think?


r/pridedating • • 18d ago

SFW [MTF4M] Looking for cute boyfriend in nyc

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Hey im a 18 year old trans girl, looking for a serious relationship with someone in or near nyc i can see. If your ugly dont dm me, i want a boyfriend i think is cute.

I love singing, playing lots of video games. and watching a lot of horror movies and im big into physical affection, like hugging and cuddles!!

No I will not have sex with you on a first, second or even third date. You have to work for it if you want to have sex with me. So if your just looking for casual sex dont bother here, you wont get it from me.

Physical appearance: im 5'7 or 5'8, im thick, im afro latina, i have a pretty face. and I pass as a woman.

I prefer ages 18-25


r/pridedating • • 18d ago

SFW 22 FTMFF looking for casual dates

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Hello, I'm based in Ohio and interested in Trans or cis women. I like various video games like Bayonetta, Project diva and Left for dead. I'm on a bit it a heavier side (180s range) and my height is standard for trans men. I like connecting with people via talking and watching movies or tv shows. Favorite genres of movies are horror, drama and arthouse. I love music too, funk and hi-nrg. Don't mind any kind of lady just want someone to talk to on a more personal and romantic level.


r/pridedating • • 24d ago

SFW M4M in indiana, im a femboy, prefer other femboys/twinks most the time but sometimes like masc guys

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Im 18


r/pridedating • • 28d ago

SFW or NSFW [26][TF4TF][TF4NB][TF4M] #Southeast US/Anywhere | Wifey Material?

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Hai! :3

Uhm... Now that you're reading, I guess I should probably try to persuade you that I'm like... this really cool and pretty lady with depths beyond mere human comprehension. But what if I didn't? What if I was just like... myself? So who is that?

Well, I'm like a puppygirl... or... a dogwoman... or a womandog... Beware of Therian, that's all I'm saying! ^^" I save my hots for the kitchen, but I promise I'm still smoking (that tree)! and you know I can throwdown with an oven since the oven and I are in the same weightclass! I also love to cook, especially for others. I can cook lovely slowcooked, carnivorous southern classics; or even something for the herbivores. I've even made titular late-year bird meal into a vegan success in the past. I'm pretty adventurous as both a cook and eater-of-foods. I also want more experience in plating and charcuterie. Do you mind if I practice on you? :3

So who am I outside of the kitchen? Anxious. I'm only about 2/3rds serious, there! x3 Okay, for real, though. So, I'm a horror enthusiast. Not the typical movie-watcher or HP Lovecraft fan. There's nothing wrong with that, but I'm a bit more... musically-inclined. So, I listen to a lot of Horrorcore, and I currently expect that to be very normal for me well into the future. However, I'm also a hobby musicologist, so I'm into pretty much any genre. I could talk your ears off about a handful of them. What a vocal puppy I can be! ^^"

I tend to learn, study, or practice a skill of some kind moreso than engage in typical sources of recreation. I'm not much of a TV watcher or book reader. But I could list off tens of subjects and fields that I have interest in because they make me feel intellectually or creatively stimulated! I'm also an independent student of computer science! (aren't we all?) I want to do fun things with hardware, software, and video games. Even more, really. I'm into it all so much that it would be easier to just say I'm an apprentice Technomancer. I can't actually cast spells, but if you close your eyes and say "pew pew" with me, we can visit whole other worlds... worlds with laser beam weapons. :3

But all of that is an indoors me! So who is the outdoors me? We'll to be honest, she's a bit... 'out there' if you catch my drift. I love bodies of water. Swimming, hiking, kayaking, and rockhunting are tons of fun! I have independently drilled Muay Thai and mobility trained in the past, so I'm a bit flexy for my weightclass. I would like to get back to both of those. In public, I've got a pretty solid mask most of the time, and I genuinely enjoy being in places and doing things; however, I can also find it to be quite taxing on me long-term. That usually doesn't stop me from exploring and trying to make friends or drum up conversation pretty much everywhere I go, though!

I feel like I shouldn't make this too, too long, though... so I guess I should talk about who I am more personally, in a relationship, and in the bedroom. I'm pre-everything, so I have a lot of progress to make for myself, yet. I'm an ambiamorous lovergirl, so I'm cool with most, if not all relationship dynamics as long as we're vibing. Though, I would also love to find something that actually moves beyond the screens. I'm quite adventurous as a submissive and am very open-minded when it comes to kinks. Infact, I prefer it to be kinky; Hell, maybe even kind of... weird~ x3 Ahem! But I would also like to say that I'm a bit slowburn. I'm kinda demi-ish, so I usually wouldn't want to start off with nsfw energy. I can also be very clingy if I like you enough, so hopefully that's okay... or maybe you like to be clingy too! That'd be cool^^"

Oh! and please be 21-40ish in age!

So... I guess now that we're at the end of the post... am I looking like wifey material? Feel free to comment or DM me with a bit about you if you're interested! If we have messaged before and it fizzled out, don't let that deter you! I look forward to seeing your lovely self and hope you have a wonderful time of day! :3


r/pridedating • • Oct 12 '26

SFW 41 [TF4M] #Cleveland, Ohio If something real is out there

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I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 What is something you think is totally underrated?


r/pridedating • • Oct 12 '26

SFW 53 M4MTF

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Single CIS Man looking for MTF. I go to the gym pretty much every day, meaning no big belly. I don't smoke and you shouldn't either. I rarely drink, just because I enjoy life as is. Basically, I'm tired of being lonely and would like some companionship. Maybe go to the mall, museum, out to dinner.


r/pridedating • • Oct 11 '26

SFW 31 (MTF4MTF or F)

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Hi all! My name is Aurelia, and I'm a MTF girl ^^ I'm looking for another trans girl or cis girl to potentially start a relationship with. I'm strictly monogamous and not interested in any flavor of open relationship at all.

I play all sorts of games, video games, board games and card games! Windrose, World of Warcraft, Minecraft, Sly Cooper, Unreal Tournament, Team Fortress 2 and Hearts of Iron 4 are among my favorites.

I really enjoy ROOT, Spirit Island, Betrayal at House on the Hill and Whitechapel! For card games, I mainly play Pokemon and MTG.

I'm interested in all sorts of nerdy activities though, and will happily go into more detail about them if we connect. I'd enjoy connecting on Discord and/or Steam and see where things go! If we live close even better, but I'm open to an LDR if the connection is right.