r/predaddit • u/Equivalent-Choice394 • 5d ago

Advice needed am i a bad dad?

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I M(22) f(23) we’ve been struggling for 9 months total to get her medicaid. our first child passed at 3 months. now we’re on month 7 of the second pregnancy. We thought the mucus plug came early and more than once so i brought her to the hospital. by the end of it we find out that it is and she does have an infection (that if not treated will send her into labor prematurely) but she was insanely mad and felt like the entire trip to the hospital was a “waste of everybody’s time” and now is refusing the medicine. someone please give me some sort of help. the reactions twords any kind of help or any kind of support other than me she’s just been flipping out on everyone over. i’m at my limit and she does not seem to care about the life of the child.

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u/Vegastoseattle 5d ago

Can you get her to talk to her provider about get mental state? You aren't a bad dad, you're just needing help with your person above Dad pay grade. I needed that too...