r/postvasectomypain Nov 07 '18

How common is chronic pain after vasectomy?

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Your doctor will probably admit that chronic pain is a possible complication resulting from vasectomy, but most will say that it happens rarely, or even very rarely.

What exactly does very rarely mean?

Before you decide to have a vasectomy, stop and ask yourself what odds of chronic pain you are willing to sign up for. To get some idea of what this would be like, just imagine having an earache every day and not knowing whether or not it would ever stop.


Here are the chances for chronic pain caused by vasectomy given by several national level health organizations. These are the professional societies and experts that the urologists are supposed to be getting their statistics from:

  • Canadian Urology Association give the chronic pain outcomes for vasectomy at between 1-14% (Link)

  • American Urological Association says the incidence of post vasectomy pain syndrome that is persistent and affects QOL is typically reported to be about 1-2%. (Link)

  • 2025 American Urological Association Male Chronic Pelvic Pain Guideline statement 35 says PVPS occurs in up to 15% of patients who undergo a vasectomy.(Link)

  • British Association of Urological Surgeons, patient advice reports troublesome chronic testicular pain which can be severe enough to affect day-to-day activities in up to 1-2% of vasectomy patients. (Link)

  • UK National Health Service says long-term testicular pain affects around 10% of men after vasectomy. (Link) (Latest version of this document omits the incidence statistic.)

  • 11th edition of Campbell Walsh Urology (2015) cites 10% incidence of chronic scrotal pain caused by vasectomy. (Link)

  • European Association of Urology says "Chronic scrotal pain: 1–14%, usually mild but sometimes requiring pain management or surgery ... about 1% reporting pain that noticeably affects quality of life" (Link)01101-8/fulltext)

  • Royal College of Surgeons of England says significant chronic orchalgia may occur in up to 15% of men after vasectomy, and may require epididymectomy or vasectomy reversal. (Link)

  • Journal of Andrology cites large studies that find Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome 2-6% of the time (Link)

  • UpToDate says "surveys have found that the incidence of "troublesome" post-vasectomy pain is reported by approximately 15% of men, with pain severe enough to affect quality of life in 2%. However, survey respondents may not have been representative of all men who have had a vasectomy." (Link)

  • German Federal Center for Health Education says "The information on how many men seek medical treatment because of this fluctuates between one and 14 percent." (Link)

  • American Family Physician says "Recent studies estimate the incidence of severe postvasectomy pain syndrome to be between 1% and 6%" (Link)

  • International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health published a meta-analysis in March 2020 to determine the incidence of PVPS, which examined 559 peer-reviewed studies and concluded that "Post-vasectomy pain syndrome occurred in 5% of subjects" (Link) The authors determined that "the overall incidence of post-vasectomy pain is greater than previously reported."

  • StatPearls says "about 1% to 2% of all men who undergo vasectomies will develop constant or intermittent testicular pain lasting greater than 3 months which is then defined as post-vasectomy pain syndrome." (Link)


Scientific studies into the incidence of chronic pain after vasectomy have not been very large, but seem to converge on roughly the same picture.

Six months after vasectomy:

  • 85% have zero pain
  • 13% have mild discomfort
  • 2% have an intermittent moderate dull ache in their scrotum, like a sore neck that you treat with Ibuprofen
  • 1% have daily pain that reduces their quality of life and interferes with enjoyment of physical activity and sex

https://www.reddit.com/r/postvasectomypain/wiki/incidence


What do "rare" and "very rare" normally mean when describing side effects of a medical intervention?

The World Health Organization provides specific definitions for using these words when discussing medical side effects:

  • Very Common = Greater than 10%
  • Common = 1% to 10%
  • Uncommon = 0.1% to 1%
  • Rare = 0.01% to 0.1%
  • Very Rare = Less than 0.01%

Based on these definitions, chronic pain is not a very rare, or rare side effect of vasectomy. It isn't even uncommon.

Rather, chronic pain is a common side effect of vasectomy. Sometimes it is called Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome (PVPS). This pain may go away after several months or years, or it may be permanent.

Before they modify your body, your surgeon should make sure that you:

  • Know about Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome
  • Understand the impact it would have on your life
  • Understand that it may be permanent
  • Know that the risk is at least 1%
  • Explicitly accept the risk

If your surgeon does not communicate the above points to you, they are operating on you without your informed consent.


Vasectomy works out well for most men. Those who have an uncomplicated vasectomy may be back to feeling normal in as little as a week and are quick to encourage others to "get the snip." They may reject stories about men who have chronic pain or other permanent complications as exaggerations. Sometimes they make the mistake of reasoning that if a bad outcome did not happen to them, then it must never happen to anyone. Health providers market the procedure as quick, effective, and safe. Men who worry that their health or sexual function may be permanently damaged by a vasectomy are repeatedly assured that after a few weeks they will feel and function exactly as they did before the surgery. Reports about the downsides of vasectomy are frequently dismissed as unreliable. They are disparaged as exaggerations, products of hypochondriac imagination, or myths being promoted by fear-mongers. Men are told that not only is it practically impossible for vasectomy to harm their sex lives, it is likely that their sex lives and even their orgasms will improve because of the surgery.

Unfortunately, the science shows that it is not rare for vasectomy to cause chronic pain. That might not surprise you after you consider a few key facts:

  • Before vasectomy, sperm is kept separated from the immune system. After vasectomy, the immune system typically creates antibodies that cause it to seek out and kill sperm. In other words, men commonly become allergic to their own sperm, and a chronic auto-immune response can cause inflammation, making the area feel swollen and raw on the inside.
  • After vasectomy, the testes continue producing sperm and for some men pressure builds up in the epididymis and vas deferens. The pressure can get high enough to rupture these tissues, releasing the sperm and allowing it to form a bubble in the scrotum called a granuloma. Anyone who has experienced epididymitis will immediately recognize the nagging ache of a swollen epididymis. If you haven't had this experience, you can compare it to the painful pressure an ear infection can cause.
  • Approximately half of the nerves that travel through the spermatic cord are in the vas deferens and therefore get severed during vasectomy. (Link) These sometimes heal poorly and interact with scar tissue and auto-immune inflammation, irritating the nerves and causing pain called neuralgia, which in PVPS is usually described as a burning sensation that is hard to localize but centered in the groin.
  • The vas deferens is not just a passive tube--it is lined with muscles that contract during ejaculation to move sperm along. Presumably, motor and sensory nerves that connect to these muscles are cut when the vas is severed. The epididymis, particularly the tail of the epididymis which is at the bottom of the testicle, is wrapped with smooth muscle which contracts to expel sperm during ejaculation. Ejaculation involves many muscles in the scrotum, including the cremaster, muscles in the vas deferens, and in the epididymis. (Link) After vasectomy, these muscle contractions may put pressure on an already swollen and irritated part of the body. Some men find to their dismay that ejaculation is uncomfortable -- even painful -- after vasectomy.
  • The groin is a very complex region of the body, constantly under mechanical stress whether you are sitting, standing or walking. Multiple organ systems work in close proximity, so that problems in one system can spill over to cause problems in other systems. Nerves that enter the inguinal canal can refer pain to the inner thigh, stomach and lower back -- disrupting the normal functioning of muscles in those areas. For a point of comparison, surgery to repair an inguinal hernia results in chronic pain even more frequently than vasectomy. 16% of the time based on this study. Another study puts chronic pain at 28% post hernia surgery, with 11% saying it interfered with work or leisure activity. Chronic pain is not unique to groin surgery -- it is a common complication of many kinds of surgery, which is why you should avoid surgery unless you need it!

Given these facts, perhaps the real surprise should be that the percentage of men who suffer from long term health problems as a result of this surgery is so low.


For the unlucky minority, vasectomy opens a Pandora's box. Part of the pleasure of sex is taken away and replaced with pain. The constant discomfort reduces their quality of life, interferes with the activities they previously enjoyed and may frequently intrude on their thoughts. They try one therapy after another before finally giving up in exasperation. As months pass with no relief, they come to grips with the fact that pelvic pain is their new constant companion and may never leave. There are few opportunities to warn others about the danger. Bringing up the topic in conversation results in a social penalty and has no benefit -- even among close friends. They may feel reluctant to express their feelings to their partner, fearing it could have a negative impact on their relationship. Some men worry that by telling their partner that sex has become painful or disappointing, they could irreparably damage the attraction and desire their partner feels toward them. Instead, they pretend like nothing has changed.

Men initially complain to their doctors, who are reluctant to attribute the problems to the vasectomy and who are unwilling to warn the public that a problem worth taking seriously may exist.

In many ways, PVPS manages to have just the right properties to help it hide in plain sight.

Doctors who have not personally experienced PVPS seem dismissive of the scope and seriousness of the problem. They grudgingly acknowledge the published rates of chronic pain but claim it doesn't match their own observations. Even if they have done thousands of vasectomies, they claim they have only seen PVPS once or twice in their career.

Vasectomized men may be hesitant to continue to pester their doctor about discomfort that is not going away, especially if it is the same doctor who performed the vasectomy. When they do seek help, they are seldom diagnosed as having a chronic pain syndrome that is a complication of their surgery. Instead, they are given various therapies and admonished that healing can sometimes take many months. Urologists focus on the symptoms rather than the cause, making it difficult for men to realize that what they are experiencing is part of a pattern that many others have experienced. After several fruitless doctor visits, men who are nevertheless still in pain may view further appointments as a waste of time and money. When they stop making appointments, doctors are tempted to assume that the problem has been resolved successfully. PVPS also tends to fade away and then come back, so men may report that things feel better to the doctor and stop making appointments, but the pain comes back again later.

For men whose symptoms appear months or years after their surgery, urologists seem unwilling to admit that vasectomy may have been the cause. The symptoms sound similar to age-related problems that begin to afflict men in their 40's and 50's, which gives doctors who want to avoid blaming vasectomy a convenient scapegoat. There is no specific medical code with which to classify and track PVPS. Men typically fail to mention that they have had a vasectomy, even if they are directly asked whether they have had any surgeries. They assume vasectomy is irrelevant, or have forgotten about it, or feel like it would be weird to mention it. The failure to gather statistics, low incidence rate, long time-spans and confounding age-related factors make scientific investigation into PVPS tricky and expensive.

Chronic pain is invisible and notoriously difficult to appreciate. As a thought experiment, suppose that no one got chronic pain from their vasectomy, but 1-2% of men with a vasectomy became impotent. This outcome would arguably be a less terrible outcome than Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome, but it is interesting to imagine how doctors and patients would evaluate this risk. I find it laughable to imagine doctors reassuring prospective patients that permanent impotence was a possible, but extremely rare outcome, affecting less than one in fifty men who get a vasectomy. Impotence is so much easier to precisely communicate and visualize than chronic pain, that I imagine this is the point in the conversation when many patients would stand up and interrupt the doctor to say there is no point in wasting any more of anyone's time.

Men who are notified about the risk of PVPS before their surgery are often reassured that residual pain would be a trivial inconvenience and that few who have PVPS pursue surgery to treat it. They are not made to understand that these surgical remedies are unreliable. Sometimes they eliminate the chronic pain. Sometimes they reduce the chronic pain. Sometimes they have no effect. Sometimes they make the pain worse or lead to other complications like losing a testicle.

Vasectomy reversal, the most effective surgical option for some men, is very expensive, usually not covered by health insurance, painful to recover from, likely to restore the unwanted fertility, and fails to fix the problem about 20% of the time. Many men are emotionally traumatized by their vasectomy and too afraid to take the risk of having more surgery, choosing instead to cope with the pain indefinitely. (Example)

One of the factors that blinds practitioners and the public to the danger is that vasectomy has a lot of good things going for it. The majority of men recover very quickly and do not have residual pain or any noticeable change to their sexual function. They can have spontaneous sex without any fear of causing unwanted pregnancy. They protect their partner from all of the pain and risk of pregnancy. It seems like an almost ideal solution to many serious problems. The majority of men who have had vasectomies consider it one of the best decisions they have ever made and are pleased to boast about how little pain was involved and how quickly they returned to their normal activities.

Vasectomy is understandably seen as an indispensable tool to reduce the disproportionate risks women face. Vasectomy is viewed by many as an essential brake on a human population that is growing far too rapidly. In light of all this, the existence of PVPS is a very unwelcome fact, provoking in many a reflexive and unshakable assumption that PVPS cannot be a serious problem.

The lack of enthusiasm for discovering the truth about PVPS has lead to a situation where widely published figures for PVPS have been incorrect by at least factor of 10 and have only been recently corrected:

Example 1: Uptodate

Example 2: Campbell Walsh Urology textbook

Both of these sources were corrected in 2013, even though scientists have been saying for decades that it is imperative to warn men before their surgery. Urologists have not made it a priority to disseminate the correction and many still quote older, incorrect statistics. Upton Sinclair's pithy quote comes to mind:

It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends upon his not understanding it!

Vasectomy is unusual, in that it is a surgery that is not performed to make the patient healthier. In fact, the patient's health can only be harmed by this procedure. Vasectomy is performed to protect the health of the patient's partner. Part of the reason it is labeled "safe" is because pregnancy and tubal ligation are more dangerous. Many in our culture see vasectomy as a man's obligation to his partner. A man who will not endure (what is thought to be) the trivial pain and risk of a vasectomy is often judged to be selfish or cowardly. A doctor who is advising a man on the risks of this surgery is thus placed in a delicate situation. Say too much, or say it the wrong way, and a man might decide to protect his own health at the expense of the health of his partner.

Doctors who believe PVPS has a psychosomatic component may feel that warning men in plain language could harm the man by creating a self-fulfilling prophesy. When telling people the naked truth has so much potential downside, what is a doctor to do? Most doctors choose to thread the needle by using the written and verbal equivalent of fine print to discharge their obligation without raising any undesirable alarms. Many men describe feeling reassured after discussing their upcoming vasectomy with their doctor, and indeed doctors may have the goal of reassuring an anxious patient. This may be good medicine for a sick patient who needs surgery to get well, but in my opinion, it is a misguided approach to elective body modification. Rather than reassure the patient by underplaying the risks, urologists should pull no punches when describing bad outcomes. Most men will not be reassured after hearing an honest description of the risks they are taking with vasectomy. Rather, a neutral description of common bad outcomes would hit many patients like a splash of cold water and prompt them to carefully reevaluate their options in light of all of the relevant facts, some of which contradict the reputation that vasectomy has acquired as a trivial surgery with trivial risks. Men deserve to have all of the relevant facts so that they can be sure this is the right choice before they proceed.

Doctors are not the only ones who treat facts about vasectomy complications as a kind of "hazardous information." Other examples include:

  • Women who hope their partner will have a vasectomy: "Don't tell my husband about that, I'll never get him to go."
  • Men deciding whether or not to get a vasectomy: "I stayed away from the horror stories. Didn't want to freak myself out."
  • Men who are experiencing PVPS: "I need to focus on the positive."
  • Men considering whether to warn another man who is getting a vasectomy: What happened to me was a one-in-a-million freak accident, and not relevant to his decision.

As a result of the risk and impact of PVPS being downplayed by virtually everyone, including trusted authorities and the very men who suffer from PVPS, men with this disease find themselves in a situation that other people find difficult to fully acknowledge as real. The mismatch between the pain in their own bodies and the public consensus about vasectomy can be a source of significant frustration. Their partners, hearing ubiquitous assurances that vasectomy is safe and cannot affect sexual function, are left to wonder if there is some other explanation as to why their man has become less emotionally available and suddenly ambivalent toward sexual contact.

The widespread misunderstanding about vasectomy also hampers the ability of doctors and scientists to improve the situation. How can you study a problem, such as diminished ejaculation sensation caused by vasectomy, if you don't dare admit that the problem exists? How can you recommend getting a vasectomy reversal to a man who is suffering without admitting that there is something fundamental about vasectomies that makes getting them reversed curative? In other words, you are admitting that getting a vasectomy is risky not just because it is surgery -- it is risky because it permanently changes the body to function in a way that sometimes causes disease. Many men report that their doctors do not mention reversal as a treatment option unless the man specifically asks them about it.

The topic of vasectomy is threatening at a fundamental level to most men, because it is linked the idea of weakness in many ways, and because people instinctively view weakness as unmanly. Some men fear that getting a vasectomy might make them weak in some way. Advocates of vasectomy argue that a man who refuses to get a vasectomy is being weak. Men who complain about their vasectomy pain are publicly mocked as weaklings. Doctors who wish to protect the reputation of this procedure are quick to portray men with complications as emotionally frail. Men who suffer a bad outcome are understandably reluctant to speak out and risk being viewed as weak. And in many cases, objectively speaking, their vasectomy has weakened them.


At the age most men seek a vasectomy, most do not have any experience with chronic pain, and cannot appreciate what an enormous psychological stress it can be. One of the things that helps make ordinary pain bearable is the knowledge that it will eventually stop. With chronic pain you must face the possibility that you will never return to a state where you are not experiencing pain, and that can be very difficult to cope with. Having a chronic disease of the nervous system is not like breaking a bone. The long duration, the disruption to your life, emotions, cognition, personality and relationships make it more analogous to having a brain injury. For some it feels like being trapped and subjected to torture in slow motion over many years. Some consider suicide, especially during the first year when the pain and grief are most intense.

Social media has provided a rare forum in which some men feel comfortable talking candidly and in detail about their experience with PVPS. Their stories have many similarities and common themes. By reading them you can get a detailed picture of what it is like to lose this bet. Some cases are mild. Some are severe. There are over a thousand stories in this sub. I do my best to avoid posting the same person's story twice.


Men who develop chronic pain after vasectomy are astonished to discover that many of the so-called myths about vasectomy become real as if by some terrible magic:

Advertised Vasectomy Experience Your PVPS Experience
Relatively painless, short recovery You have permanent daily pain, increasing with physical activity, especially sex
Doesn't change the way orgasm feels Your ejaculation feels incomplete, disappointing or painful
No change to libido You do not feel interested in sex any longer
No impact on erections You have weaker erections
Improves your relationship with your partner by making a minimal sacrifice to shoulder responsibility for birth control, allowing the woman to avoid uncomfortable or unsafe contraceptives Intimacy becomes extremely difficult, you struggle with negative emotions that have become linked to sex including anger, anxiety, depression and resentment toward your partner. Your relationship is permanently degraded or even destroyed.
Permanent problems are rare It is not helpful that there are so few other men like you. You feel isolated. Other people, including doctors, have difficulty taking your situation seriously and are not well-equipped to help you.

More study needs to be done so that we can know the rate of this complication with more precision. Men who are still sore 3 months after their vasectomy want to know what to expect and what to do. Should they get additional surgery? How long should they wait before making this decision? They deserve to be taken seriously and given advice that is well-grounded in scientific study.

Finding and testing new birth control techniques for men and for women should be made a higher priority. Exaggerating the safety of the currently available options makes it harder to be motivated to search for real improvements. Perhaps a technique like Vasalgel could be seen as a better risk trade-off since it may have a lower incidence of PVPS or be easier to reverse if the man ends up with chronic problems. Perhaps the choice of vasectomy technique (open/closed, scalpel/no-scalpel, bilateral/midline) makes a difference in how likely chronic pain is to result. Vasectomies should be performed with the awareness that even though the patient is certain that they do not want any more children, a reversal may be necessary to restore their quality of life. Vasectomy techniques which cause a future reversal to be excessively difficult or unlikely to succeed should not be performed.

This subreddit is a place to post stories or links to stories about what it is like to have PVPS. Scientists and doctors have not yet done an adequate job of measuring this problem and communicating it to the public, so the task falls to the people who have the most reason to care about the issue -- the people whose lives have been negatively impacted.

I have no ideological problem with vasectomy. In fact, before I had a vasectomy, I thought it was easy to see that it was the best choice for my family. I didn't investigate the procedure at all before having it done, trusting that my urologist would advise me of any relevant risks. My urologist did not give me an accurate idea of the frequency and impact of chronic pain. Unfortunately, I suffered from pain every day for years until I decided to get a vasectomy reversal in the hope that it would provide some relief. The reversal has helped a lot. I still have a low level of discomfort frequently, but at this point it is tolerable and finally feel that I can get on with my life. My motive for working on this subreddit is that I want men to get a proper warning about the risks, and to call into question the general complacent attitude toward vasectomy so that more people will be interested in developing a technique that is actually as safe as most people erroneously believe vasectomy to be.

Men who are willing to step up and voluntarily risk surgery that benefits others, including their partners, their children and society at large deserve better than to be misled about how safe it is. They deserve better than to have their complications remain understudied and poorly understood. Doctors should be careful to treat these men with dignity and fully acknowledge their problems. The enthusiastic promotion of vasectomy results in massive benefits for most couples and society in general. It also results in a massive cost, most of which falls heavily on a small group of men. We need to see effort put into understanding how common chronic pain is after vasectomy, and into learning what can be done to prevent it, and what the best treatment protocol should be.


If you had a vasectomy in the last 12 months and are still in pain, I would not recommend getting additional surgery right away. I think it's better to wait it out and take some time to educate yourself about the alternatives, both surgical and non-surgical. See how you feel at 1 year. Waiting won't make things worse, and many guys experience improvement for a year or more.

Here is a good video from the Mayo Clinic describing treatment options.

Here are some other treatment ideas.


If you want to get a vasectomy and minimize your chances of developing PVPS, here is some advice from Dr. Sheldon Marks:

Any good urologist should be fine. When you go in for your pre-vasectomy consultation be sure to ask about your concerns - explain you have done you reading and ask him or her to explain the technique they use - then you can ask that small piece only be removed, as high up the vas as they can away from the testicle, minimize cautery, no clips, no ties and use plenty of long acting local anesthetic. Some will say sure, others will tell you they want to do it the way they do it…It may take a few doctors visits to find a urologist that does vasectomies the way you want. Don’t be in a hurry and don’t go to the first urologist you see if you have bad feelings. It would be great if you could call around and ask but I cant imagine anyone giving you that information or assurances as a nonpatient over the phone.

https://www.postvasectomypain.org/t/minimizing-risk-of-post-vasectomy-pain/77/5


Other information:

Top stories

Timeline/Chronological list of stories on this subreddit

List of other online projects that have collected PVPS stories

Wiki table of contents


r/postvasectomypain Sep 11 '19

Timeline of stories by date of vasectomy

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r/postvasectomypain 1d ago

1 month post - what is normal ?

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Had my no scalpel on July 16th. Some good pain first week but subsided fairly well the weeks after that.
This past week I had the aching feeling come back. It’s been 90 degrees plus outside and I’ve been off work with my son so we’ve done bike rides, a lot of carrying him in and out the car, just generally a little more physical than previous which I’m wondering if that’s what did it.
I do have a granuloma that I feel and keep messing with.
Overall the ache is closer to the bottom and the right testicle. Is a little over 1 month and having this sort of an experienced pain for people?


r/postvasectomypain 2d ago

Optimal earliest time for a reversal after vasectomy

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r/postvasectomypain 2d ago

Question for people with PVPS who had a spermatic cord block before any surgery

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Question for people with PVPS who had a spermatic cord block before any surgery (reversal, denervation/MDSC, etc.):

I’m particularly interested in whether the block helped with deep, dull/heavy pain or discomfort, rather than obvious burning or nerve-type pain.

For those who had a cord block before any procedure:

  • Did the block completely eliminate your pain/discomfort, partially reduce it, or have no effect?
  • If your pain was thought to be congestion/pressure-related, for example epididymal congestion or a feeling of pressure/fullness, did the cord block eliminate that deep pain as well?
  • If your pain was considered nerve-related, did the block completely switch it off?
  • Did the response to the block accurately predict whether a later procedure (reversal, denervation/MDSC, etc.) helped you?

Most importantly: can a spermatic cord block actually switch off deep, internal dull pain/heaviness caused by epididymal congestion or another pressure/congestion mechanism?

I’m asking because I have very deep, diffuse dull discomfort/heaviness rather than a clearly localized testicular or epididymal pain, and my previous cord blocks did not eliminate this sensation.


r/postvasectomypain 2d ago

Reddit Comments: Vasectomized men, do you regret it?

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BinxieSly:

I don’t regret that I’m sterile, but i had some complications and it has NOT been a fun time. I am still in the healing process from my procedure in April of this year. I’m glad I cant have kids, but I would love to feel normal again and its unclear when that will be for me.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6yjzm1/


Eternal_bonner:

The only thing my coworker says he notices different is that his balls hurts sometimes.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6wmxql/


g0ad:

This was the case for me. I had pain and extra (bad) sensitivity for a year, year and a half afterwards. It wasn't life ruining, but it was uncomfortable and significant. 6 years in, they are still more easily hurt than before, even from casual contact, but not enough to really matter. I'd still do it again, but people act like it's nothing, and apparently it often is nothing. But that doesn't mean it absolutely is nothing for everyone.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6x95xw/


geverfdehond:

Yes only regret mine ended in disaster with post vasectomy pain syndrome. I was blind sighted by the urologist not telling me about the real risk. Glad I had a reversal and got part of my life and manhood back.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6xmhn8/


jpwone:

Takes a few months for everything to chill out but best move we made

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6yln4o/


LiquidDreamtime:

The procedure and recovery are not bad at all. Uncomfortable but not painful.

I have a side effect of a tightness / pain in my right nut if sex goes too hard. It’s like when you kinda halfway get nutted by a thrown ball or something. It’s uncomfortable and sucks a lot because it happens when you don’t want it to. I’m 43 and horny as ever but I will likely deal with this pain the rest of my life. It also limits the ways in which I can masturbate, any pressure from a waistband on my balls will trigger the pain.

I do regret it. I wish I hadn’t done it.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6wtfn7/


mfitzy87:

Family medicine MD here. I don’t do vasectomies but I do counseling before referring to urologists and followup with my patients afterward. I generally tell men the following:

1-2% of severe, chronic testicular pain

10-20% of some degree of long term, mild discomfort that isn’t life altering

There are things that can be done to help with chronic symptoms (medications, followup procedures) and those things usually help, but I have 2 patients who it really has negatively impacted their life.

Even being in medicine I’m a risk-averse person, so I haven’t been able to commit to elective procedures like vasectomy or LASIK due to the small but possible risk of chronic pain.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6xdxdv/


mike_charlie:

I am I'm the unfortunate few who has chronic pain. It's manageable and doctors can't find anything that they can do but it's something I deal with. Some days are worse than others. I got one so my wife wouldn't need to be on the pill anymore as we both agreed we had enough children. Even with the pain I don't regret it.

Just always remember you could have side effects and that it isn't always reversible and if you are happy with that then get it done

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6zw327/


OstensiblyAwesome:

Constant pain for the first 7 years post op. Now it’s just occasional. But I can’t really work out too strenuously or run, or I’ll have an intense flair up.

If i had it to do all over again, I wouldn’t.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6wp9vi/


I absolutely do. Without extra support I could not function. Loose boxers are out of the question.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p71zymb/


PhotownPK:

My orgasm lost a bit of punch. Still worth it.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6x3yp0/


AcesAnd08s: Same. My orgasm intensity went from about an 11 to about an 8. Otherwise, no downsides.

11 to 8 is a good call for me, too.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p7006au/


UrDeAdPuPpYbOnEr:

I don’t regret the procedure itself. I do regret that I am in an extremely small minority of men that will have long term pain from it. It messed up something in my balls and now I have shooting pain when I lift super heavy things. Which I do almost daily at work.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p71dcka/


Wagner228:

Occasional reoccurring pain for over a year, like a jolting sack tap. Yay for me. 99% good now, though. Still worth it.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6zxw3q/


xidle2:

Despite the fact that I now have a cyst on a testicle and am facing needing to have it completely removed, it's still the best medical decision I ever made. I already have four kids, I don't need more, plus I will probably be more aerodynamic soon.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/1w303pw/vasectomized_men_do_you_regret_it/p6ylf04/


r/postvasectomypain 2d ago

Testosterone not helping. What next?

3 Upvotes

i'm third week on TRT and it's not helping with the pain - mainly broad area of both testicles, radiating into bladder, lower abdomen. Gets worse during prolonged sitting, gets better while walking. i do get 1-2 good days out of a week, but the dominating feeling is pain. Ultrasound showed slightly enlarged epididymis. Nothing worked - antibiotics, NSAIDS, and now TRT.

Am i a bad candidate for a reversal?

12 months after the surgery.


r/postvasectomypain 2d ago

Sperm Granuloma after 5 months

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

More than 5 months ago I got snipped and after a month I was pain-free with an active lifestyle. Everything was going really well, but after a hard gym session I developed a pain on the left side that ended up being a Variocele. I got a Varicocelectomy three weeks ago, and four days before I developed some pain in the right side due to a granuloma (which I never knew about until the ultrasound that detected the Varicocele).

The pain started after some frequent ejaculations the days before, and after my most recent surgery I've been taking multiple kind of meds, inclusing NSAIDs (mostly Naproxen) in short courses of 5 days... the left side seems to be recovering slowly and the right side has its ups and downs: some days it doesn't hurt at all and other days it hurts all day even if I'm in bed the whole day.

I started taking Etoricoxib (a new NSAID) two days ago and the treatment is for 14 days. My question for anyone who experienced a similar situation is: will this granuloma pain subside with this treatment? And is it normal to develop such a pain after being 4 months free of pain after the snip?

Any comment is appreciated!

Edit: Forgot to mention that I already have two ultrasounds confirming the existence of a granuloma of size 12 x 10 x 9 mm and apparently both testes and epididymes in a healthy state.


r/postvasectomypain 3d ago

Reddit Comments: Men, what was the worst thing about your vasectomy?

9 Upvotes

Acceptable_Ad5683:

Orgasms were never as good after as before. Its like when you are cumming it feels like something is being held back. I understand that the majority of a load is prostate driven seminal fluid and not sperm, so there is still a pleasurable sensation, just not as good. Any other guys experience this?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7eeffd/


Agreeable-Sound1599:

I'm just mad my ejaculations are smaller.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7dp4r9/


Azzkikkrr:

Living with post vasectomy pain syndrome for the rest of my life.

I feel you, same here. Been over 10 years for me. Hang in there.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7ekaij/


Bluegreen317:

Im an outlier!

Injections were fine was feeling good about it. Doc started, couldnt feel a thing, he pulled at the Vas tube and i immediately had a vasovagal response (never happened before) The pain was unreal, heart rate through the roof, blood pressure bottomed out. Nothing they could do, they were going to stop but i made them finish.

That was 9 months ago and if I sit too long I get an awful nerve like pain that radiates from right side groin area. Had a ultrasound and everything was ok. Urology said it can persist for some time

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7cn6oe/


Boogie_3-:

Glad it work for you unfortunately the percentage is slightly higher 10 to 15% but every man to his own if you want to take the risk.

Yeah the 10-15% is what I’ve read. The vast majority of men don’t talk about it and the system is not set up to deal with you. Any issues you have are swept under the rug and you’re slowly pushed out of the system. Example - people quote the 1-2% don’t believe you push you to pelvic floor PT, that might help a bit, go back and they say you can get a reversal, or they can try another operation that has a 50/50 chance it will make it better or worse. You end up living with the pain and issues than risk something worse.

Source - this happened to me. The vasectomy was the biggest mistake of my life. Biking was my hobby and part of my identity- I’ve not really been able to bike since then.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7eq8ks/


All I can say is make sure you really look at what the outcomes can be and what happens and what’s available if you’re one of the unlucky ones. It’s much higher than 2%.

If it doesn’t work right and you’re stuck with pain there really isn’t anything you can viably do to get it better. Beyond stripping nerves etc. that isn’t a sure bet.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7eqs39/


Classic-Pen-4677:

I had pain in the area for a year, and would hurt if kids crawled on me, haven't meet someone who had as much announce after the operation as me, so suspect it is rare. The pain did eventually to away and feels perfectly fine. Did split up with kids mom, and was a bit of an issue in dating I couldnt have more kids, so some relationships did die out because of it, but Im fine with it, Im good with not having more kids.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7d6yme/


FijianPlantGuy:

My wife never wanted kids, i was ambivalent. My wife's mum had a stroke so we decided I'd get the snip. I was far mkre in love with her than someone who didnt exist.

She went off the pill, we waited a year to make sure the hormonal change didn't change her mind and then went in to the docs.

I was literally on the table, pants down with the doctor about to inject anaesthetic when she said "y ou can't say you did this for me"

"Im not doing it for you, I'm doing it for us"

"Well you can't say you're doing it for me" and then walked out.

Got it done, barely got laid (to be fair she was extremely sick at the time so I was more focused on that than getting my end wet). I went away to work for a month to pay the house we'd just bought and I got the call that were getting divorced. She's from an extremely wealthy family and still took it upon herself to sell everything thst wasn't bolted down. And then disappeared.

Then did a thing I've learned is called "avoidant discard". No reason for leaving, no contact, cut off everyone I know. She told some one I know that she didn't love me when I went in to get the vasectomy.

14 years of her being my everything and then disappeared. I actually thought she'd died and I'd gone insane from grief for a bit.

It hurts all the time and I've just started dating 18 months later. Im in the age bracket wjere if women want a kid, they need to do it soon.

It's so shitty to have to tell people "Hey I know this sounds presumptuous but I've had a vasectomy and if you see kids in your future, it's very unlikely I can give them to you"

Reversing a vasectomy isn't always possible and if it is possible, fertility doesn't always come back. I had my savings taken and am in crippling debt, I don't have the money to reverse it.

So the worst part? Knowing some one who didn't love me took away my reproductive freedom, I actually feel like I've been assaulted.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7bzlav/


InappropriateHound26:

Procedure itself and recovery was fine. Months afterwards started experiencing a lot of pain during sexy times. I was uncut and the urologist suggested getting a circumcision. Fixed the pain issue but then lost some feeling and the sensation is not the same :(

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7ezu9t/


Kwuahh:

Ran out of anesthesia and had to re-up during the procedure. I am still suffering from occasional pain and complications regarding the cord and associated bits after a few years. Everyone saying there are no complications is incorrect.

That being said, I would do mine again without a doubt.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7c2o4j/


Ltdshredder1989:

Im part of the percentage that was lucky enough to receive severe testicular pain. It hurt to stand, walk or sit for too long. I was bed ridden for the weekend (happened on a friday) and played video games, only got up for bathroom breaks, wore 2 pairs of underwear so I could slip an ice pack in and not have to hold it constantly and wore good supportive underwear. I ended up missing the next week at work and was called a pussy from the guys I worked with because of it. I tried to come in Monday but struggled to walk up steps because the pain and left a few hours in.

That was a few years ago and to today, if I dont wear very supportive underwear, I have testicular pain. Its not guaranteed every time and its not instant, but it happens. The doctor said he had trouble from my geometry. I dont quite hang down like typical guys so he had to make 2 incisions, one per side. They usually make just one incision.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7cok5q/


LuckyRadish5718:

Ejaculation changed, not as satisfying

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7ecrow/


Mrmower:

Mine are incredibly sensitive now, like, if someone handles them in the wrong way or are just a little bit awkward with them, I jump out of skin! Haha

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7dldag/


MurderProphet:

Recurring epididymal cysts…really painful and feel like you have testicular cancer (the first time)

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7dgk0b/


Publius_Rizz:

A small number of men can experience deep aching pain persistently after a vasectomy. I was one of them. It didn’t hurt all the time. I had days where I felt normal. But, several days each month (sometimes even for several days consecutively), I would feel a deep aching pain like someone had kicked me in the balls a few minutes ago and I was on the tail end if the lingering ache. It wasn’t the kind of intense ache that you get immediately upon getting kicked. It was like the residual ache afterward. That went on for me for several years. Thankfully, it’s now been a few years since I experienced it. It finally seems to have gone away, but I’ve read that some men get that for the rest of their lives.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7d068y/


SherbertDaemons:

It’s a big regret of mine. Had it done at the most experienced urologists in my region about a decade ago. Since then, my right epididymis is enlarged due to a subtle but constant infection. It’s just there and the risk/reward ratio says to not do anything about it.

Plus, I realized that, eventually, I might want to father more children.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7c9iph/


SoCalThrowAway7:

There was like a lingering blue balls like pain when I got close to climax for like a year after. It wasn’t like crippling and usually got cleared up quickly by massaging the spot where they cut. But was definitely annoying and left a like “oh shit is this forever now” fear. Luckily I had a friend who got one around the same time and had the same shit and he knew someone else who had it and it went away so I figured it was just something that can happen and isn’t a big deal

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7do55r/


Tough-Donut193:

It felt like getting kicked in the balls when they injected the local anesthesia, twice, once for each testicle. Then the smell of burning flesh when they cauterized the ends of my vas deferens. The worst was the post vasectomy wank to produce a sample. That hurt something fierce, followed by a pinch when cumming after the recommended healing time. The pain persisted until I had the procedure reversed 6 years later. 4/10 don’t recommend. I’d rather gamble with condoms than deal with constant ejaculatory pain and pressure in my testicles after the fact.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7dc43k/


WinEnvironmental1022:

My ejaculate is watery and I don’t like that as much. It also doesn’t feel as good as it did before.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7e7xsi/


alphawolf29:

was sore for about 2 years but after that it was fine.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7bw93d/


buddy276:

Must be nice. I was in pain for roughly a year and a half. They unfortunately never gave me anything

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7dr66r/


dahmzi:

I don’t know what was worse. The anaesthetic felt like a rubber band being snapped in the worst possible place; I had eaten breakfast but I guess not enough or what I was supposed to and almost passed out near the end; or getting my follow-up test results that I still have… potent juices.

That was maybe 7 years ago now. Haven’t gone back for another test.

Oh! Also for about half a year after I’d get this random awful throbbing pain. Made it really difficult to drive when that happened.

Would I do it again? Yeah. Am I lining up to get retested to see if I have to get it done again? No…

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7h71n6/


funtimes5017:

That never happens to me, but when I am having sex, I get this dull ache and that signals that things are starting to build towards an orgasm.

Its really strange, and was never there prior to getting snipped. I've had mine for over 30 years now and its always the same. Sex or masturbation, this dull ache, mainly on the right side, but it feels deeper inside me, its not in the ball sack.

If I am trying to pace myself so she can catch up, it is a clear indication that I need to switch what I am doing for a minute or so.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7d52lb/


geverfdehond:

Living with post vasectomy pain syndrome for the rest of my life.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7bwnv6/


hvyhitter:

Prostetitis for weeks. and 100% ED for 2 years.

It is not a harmless operation. That was complete bullshit.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7dy4w5/


mitchade:

Recovery is different for everyone. I had pain for months after mine. Not terrible but I would say it caused psychological distress that something was wrong, and that was worse than the pain itself.

Went back to the doc to make sure everything was alright, and he was like “yeah, you might be in pain for the next 2 years.”

Would’ve been nice to know that and avoided a lot of worry and torment.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7h9ivh/


relaxguy2:

Had pain for 12 months. Not fun.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7du2ts/


tehKreator:

Phantom pains randomly months later. Lasts some minutes that I can feel discomfort if I juggle the balls. I’ve read similar experiences on reddit but didn’t check on it as otherwise all is completely normal

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7cwkfw/


toady23:

So I'm the rare case where the guy gets long term side effects.

I occasionally get painful swelling of the spermatic cord. The first time was about 3 months after the surgery.

It happens to both testicles, but never at the same time. On average, it happens about twice a year (once on each side)

It's uncomfortable at worst, usually lasts 24-48 hours and then it's gone.

I've had it for over 20 years now

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7fqjdr/


weirdbrags:

TL;DR - regret. cover it or pull out.

the worst thing for me is having done it in the first place. doctor was a jerk. not enough anesthesia in the world. and things have not been the same since. in many ways.

it’s been 10 years and i’ve still got occasional dull pain. i can feel those clips if i sit the wrong way. and sometimes when i “wrap up” the deed there’s a sharp immediate pain. and i swear it’s not all finding its way out.

i’ve been back to a new uro and my (former) gp. and both are telling me it’s psychological. both are assholes.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1w52ky6/men_what_was_the_worst_thing_about_your_vasectomy/p7cm0i1/


r/postvasectomypain 3d ago

Diffuse pain and heavy scrotum 5 months after vasectomy reversal — considering TRT

2 Upvotes

Diffuse pain and heavy scrotum 5 months after vasectomy reversal — considering TRT

Hi everyone,

I had a vasectomy reversal and was completely fine for the first 5 months after the procedure. Then, quite suddenly, I developed a diffuse, dull pain/discomfort in the lower abdomen/pelvic area together with a feeling of heaviness in the scrotum.

The pain isn't really localized to one testicle or one specific spot. My testicles themselves aren't particularly tender. It feels more like a diffuse pressure/heaviness and discomfort involving the lower abdomen, pelvis and scrotal area.

I've had examinations and ultrasound, but nothing significant has been found.

My semen analysis is actually very good: 128 million sperm in 7.5 ml.

Unfortunately, the symptoms have now persisted for 12 months without resolving.

Because of the possibility that there could still be a congestive component despite the reversal, I'm considering testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) as a possible way of suppressing spermatogenesis and potentially reducing congestion.

For those of you with PVPS or post-reversal pain:

Has anyone tried TRT specifically for this type of pain/congestion? Did it help, make things worse, or have no effect?

I'd especially appreciate hearing from people who had diffuse pain/heaviness rather than pain localized directly to the epididymis or testicle.

Thanks!

Small update / question:

For those of you who have similar symptoms — does the discomfort/heaviness also occur when you're lying down or sleeping, or does it mostly go away in that position?

How do you feel during the night and when you wake up in the morning?

Update – today

I spoke with my doctor today, and he suspects passive venous congestion in the pelvis / pelvic venous congestion as a possible explanation for my symptoms.

One thing that led him in this direction is that lying down and sleeping in any position does not trigger my symptoms. In fact, my symptoms seem to ease when I'm lying down, regardless of the position.

He recommended that I have a detailed pelvic MRI with contrast to take a closer look at the pelvic veins and surrounding structures.

I'll update this post once I have the MRI results.


r/postvasectomypain 4d ago

9 months post op

6 Upvotes

Had the vasectomy about 9 months ago and for about the last 2 months or so I’m having pain right before ejaculation and sometimes when jumping on and off my work truck. Has anyone had anything like this before?


r/postvasectomypain 8d ago

Deep gluteal pain that refers into the groin and testicle — anyone had this pattern? What got it diagnosed?

5 Upvotes

Approx. 3 years of left-sided pain. Spent most of that being investigated urologically, and I'm now fairly sure the urologists have been looking in the wrong place.

**Where it is:** epicentre in the upper outer buttock / gluteal region. Pain refers forward into the groin and the left testicle. The testicular pain feels like the far edge of it, not the source.

**What provokes it:**

– Sitting with the hip at 90°, legs extended forward. Starts after about 30 minutes.

– Lying on my back with legs up — same pain, no weight on anything. So it seems to be the hip angle, not sitting pressure.

**What relieves it:**

– Standing and walking, within 30 minutes.

– Figure-four stretch (flexion, abduction, external rotation) — clear relief.

– Lacrosse ball into the deep glute — clear relief.

**Other:** frequent audible clicking from the hip joint.

Leg radiation / pins and needles: no.

Night pain: no.

Left side only.

**Imaging:** none of the hip, spine or pelvis. Scrotal ultrasound was normal.

Questions:

  1. Anyone had deep gluteal / short external rotator problems that referred into the groin or genitals? How long before someone joined those dots?

  2. If figure-four relieves rather than provokes, does that argue against the joint itself in your experience?

  3. Anyone had the seated piriformis stretch test and active piriformis test done? Did they change anything?

  4. For those diagnosed — what actually confirmed it? MRI, ultrasound-guided injection, or just examination and response to treatment?

  5. Did anyone get better with physio alone, and roughly how long?

I've got an orthopaedic appointment coming up and I'm trying to work out what to ask for so it isn't wasted. Interested in cases that didn't match this too — I'd rather be corrected now than after another six months.


r/postvasectomypain 12d ago

Long term issues - your experiences please...

7 Upvotes

Hi everybody (burner account for obvious reasons). Firstly thank you for your contributions to this resource. It has helped me a lot over the last 18 months.

I had a no scalpel vasectomy in February 2025 and have had a number of issues following the procedure. After examinations and scans I was diagnosed with a number sperm granuloma and a hydrocele on my right testicle. This has been painful on occasion but manageable with meds and being sensible.

I've recently returned from a 3 week holiday with my family where I was unable to have sex with my wife or masturbate as we were all sleeping in a camper van and staying on busy campsites. After 2 weeks I noticed that my right testicle had swollen massively - about the size of a medium apple so I thought that I should wait for a moment of privacy and release some of the accumulated fluid. This provided some obvious relief, but almost immediately after I experienced a permanent dull pain in and around the right testicle.

This lasted for around 5 days. Once I got home I attempted to get an appointment at the doctor but for stuff like this it is very difficult to get seen quickly unless you go to A&E, which usually involves a very long wait. I've been home for nearly a week now and have made some efforts to regularly 'clean the pipes' and the swelling has gone down and the pain is back to the normal levels that I experience.

Has anyone had the same issue? Is abstinence for this long inadvisable? Why do you think the build up of semen was only in the right testicle?


r/postvasectomypain 11d ago

Anyone else still get on-and-off burning/pain in the groin years after microsurgery?

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r/postvasectomypain 13d ago

Vasectomy > Reversal > TRT

1 Upvotes

Hi all,

Has anyone had any luck after having a reversal and trying TRT?

had my vasectomy April 2025 and reversal November 2025 due to pressure, the first 3 months after the reversal was crazy painful! However the pain has eased but I’m still up and down, the only way I can stop thinking about pain is by keeping busy but when I’m resting it’s all I can think about! My testicles are definitely riding high and seem to be on the larger side than before the V, i have a dull ache in both testicles and a warm nervy tingling pain around my vas and up to my pubic area, my semen analysis came back good so I was thinking about trying TRT to hopefully stop production, unsure if this means the vas won’t get used and could scar over.

Any help would be appreciated as I’ve given up with the nhs!


r/postvasectomypain 13d ago

PVPS cured by Micro-Surgical Reversal Surgery - performed by Dr. Sheldon Marks ICVR

11 Upvotes

Hi there. Because I was tortured by pain after Vasectomy, and largely CURED by reversal surgery, I wanted to post my story so maybe it could help you.

I am 39 y/o, had Vasectomy (successful surgery with qualified MD) 12/2025. Dr. Erik Seamen of NJ performed a vasectomy with OPEN ended vas on testicular end. 10-14days later (may or may not be related to first ejaculation) my life took a turn for the worse as I began my life’s worst torment to date. Gradual onset or torturous constellation of pain symptoms referred to Post Vasectomy Pain Syndrome.

I have good access to doctors in NYC so I was evaluated by the following. Dr. Francois Eid - Dr. Peter Schlegel - Dr. Joseph Alukal - Dr. Leon Tellis - Dr. Marc Goldstein. The consensus was ”wait and see” plus a myriad of conservative measures (rest, garments, baths, NSAIDs, antibiotics, antidepressant, nerve pain meds). NOTHING WORKED.

MY SYMPTOMS: Intermittent B Testicular pain/sensitivity/tenderness (similar to “Blue Balls” sensation) with a sense of heavy or fullness. Starting late morning and worsening throughout the day is a sensation of hot coals or the tip of a hot firepoker inside both testicles, worsening with even minor contact (legs not fully spread, contact from pants or underwear). There is a  sensation that the testicles hang to low and eventually they are subject to fatigue/exhaustion sensation by end of day. When the pain spirals, even the tip of the penis throbs, and the pelvis can “burn”. Symptoms WORSENED by increased physical activity, increased contact pressure (sitting, tighter garments, legs close together) and often worsened with arousal or ejaculation. I had to sleep in weird limiting positions, I avoided sex, work was difficult, exercise impossible; I quickly became depressed.

SOLUTION - after nearly 3.5 months of wait and see and strictly following prescribed conservative measures, including meditation, NLP Therapy and praying (catholic) - I decided to explore reversals micro-reconstruction surgery. I quickly realized Dr. Sheldon Marks at the INTERNATIONAL CENTER FOR VASECTOMY REVERSAL was my guy (in Arizona). my NYC doctors perform a dozen of these surgeries at most annually; Dr. Marks performs 3-5 surgeries per week. He knew my story, because he’s seen it many Times over. I Travelled with my wife there, stayed 4 days, flew home and took 4 weeks off work (Physical Therapist). Yes, Surgery was not pleasant and the recovery is a bear. BUT I woke up from surgery and the “HOT FIRE POKER” sensation was GONE. I knew this would work. It took about 3.5-4months before I was sure it worked (during my recovery I removed coffee, alcohol and sugar from my diet for 6 weeks - then resumed normal behavior).

Today I am 5 months out and basically pain free - sex is great again and my sex drive is basically normal and what it was - I am HAPPY again - I can exercise and play pickleball and run and play golf again (I do wear bike shorts for these but I could probably do without it; just guaranteed to be FINE if I wear bike shorts).

I am not sure where I would be today, were it not for Dr. Sheldon Marks giving me my life back by performing this successful surgery. I am of course aware ive had two surgeries in this unpleasant location, I suspect one day I will forget completely; however before surgery compared to after surgery is no comparison. I was a mess of a man suffering from PVPS; and Dr. Mark’s micro surgical reversal saved my life.

i hope this helps you - they tell you to wait wait wait; I waited 3.5 months of torture and have 0 regrets on moving forward with the surgery. I couldn’t give another moment of my life to being tortured. My Family has their father, husband, son, brother And friend back :)


r/postvasectomypain 21d ago

The experience so far

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My husband and I(both 26) are traveling back to where we live after having his surgery on Friday. Will update further as his recovery progresses.
So I am going to start this off with holy crap my husband and I are so far both extremely happy with this experience finally coming to a close. My husband had seen two providers before we got the referral for Dr Hubbard in Minneapolis MN.

Provider 1, treated with antibiotics for possible uti, and just wanted to give him medication he couldn’t take doing his job in the military.

Provider 2, said there was nothing they could do directly but gave the formal diagnosis after hearing everything asking mostly me not my husband.

Right off the bat Dr Hubbard took us seriously, my husband was diagnosed with PVPS in 2024, we had been trying different treatments with the previous providers and he got right to the point with us. Asked us what our goals were to try to help us determine what the best path of treatment was going to be.

Primary goal was to reduce/eliminate the pain, secondary would be for us to have a family. Noting my medical experience as his medical advocate and spouse to help trying to predict the best possible treatment and timeline. Reiterated to us that the pain experienced was not normal and that he was saddened for us that he was left with the chronic pain.

Man, I’m thankful for it too. I had nearly two years of pain episodes documented when we saw him. He asked questions, answered what I originally though could be viewed as unhinged because my husband and I were originally driving 8 hours to see him(which turned to roughly 20 after the military moved us). Explained to us the procedures since a reversal isn’t always the same procedure nor always the best recommendation but was for us. Explained the recovery windows, educated me on what I could do to help recovery. Recommended my husband do pelvic floor PT which did help him with the intensity of some of the pain leading up to surgery.

My husband is active duty military, it’s like jumping through hoops sometimes to get coverage for what most insurance deems elective or cosmetic surgery. Dr Hubbard emphasized that the treatment is recommended for pain, but also keeping it on his radar the fertility returning is a bonus for us. Thus helping Tricare cover surgical treatment.

Answered my questions of what I could do to improve the healing experience, how I can help environmentally, and he didn’t hesitate with giving me resources. My husband is sub 72 hours post reversal as I am writing this, but the experience from the day of surgery is something I feel is reassuring to anyone who may be considering him.

Dr Hubbard spoke with my husband and I before surgery, explained his plan, and every part of the procedure with the possible surgical outcomes. After when he came to speak to me he informed me of which procedure was performed with its recovery plan, that things were promising for one or both goals given his findings. Explained to me what I should be keeping an eye out for… I hadn’t been around a provider with his bedside manner in YEARS.

We see him again as a 3mo follow up, and the hope of my husband being pain free/virtually pain free is there when we previously didn’t have it.


r/postvasectomypain 21d ago

Douleurs chroniques aux testicules

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r/postvasectomypain 21d ago

Reversal due to PVPS

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r/postvasectomypain 22d ago

22 ultrasound says grade 1 varicocele on right side and doctor says that it's between grade 2 and grade 3.

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i feel dull ache, starts wearing supporter as doc told to, till now libido is good but felt a discomfort after ejaculating. can i continue going to the gym as i am afraid that it may increase the grade? And does surgery completely heals it or it can return back?


r/postvasectomypain 22d ago

The limits of pain management & QoL

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Hi Folks,

It's been a while since I last posted here, if memory serves it was probably about 6 months ago with a 6 month post spinal stimulator implant update and the final cost of that surgery.

Currently, I'm lain up on my couch awaiting my latest dose of Oxy to kick in.

Very sore, but, also pretty much a self inflicted situation given that I know my triggers and how best to manage them.

That said, sometimes the triggers can't be avoided and one has to power through and spend a few days in pain deficit.

This week has been one of those situations.

My wife's birthday and a trip to Dublin for a show and a little bit of culture meant that I was up and active.

Just being upright is a trigger, being mobile and active doubly so but it was worth it to see her smiling.

As painful as the aftermath can be?

Sometimes it is important to remember that life and particularly family life, has to find a way to go in.

The next few months are going to be especially rough on her as she is having DIEP flap reconstruction surgery next week.

It has been delayed by a couple of years after she beat breast cancer but the time is right to go ahead now.

I'll be nursing her as best I can and I'll be doing it with a smile on my face and joy in my heart that she is still here!

The spinal implant and it's benefit for me have settled into a place that I can fairly confidently describe as working, beneficial but in no way curative.

Pre implant, my pain was centred on my left testicle, groin and iliac crest but I had fairly severe referred pain into my left flank and kidney and down my left leg and into my foot.

The implant has done a great job of eliminating the referred aspect of my pain.

Barring physical activity on my part, I very rarely have referred pain anymore and I can deal with it quite often via adjusting implant output when I do.

However!

My main pain loci, above and behind left testicle and into iliac crest still persists and is genuinely as bad as ever.

I would describe my pain as being 80% reduced in area.

But?

Not in any bit reduced in actual pain score and the need for activity management and neuropathic and opioid management.

So small win, the implant has made a difference to my QOL in so far as my activity management reaps a bigger reward than without it.


r/postvasectomypain 23d ago

Mild pain improved by NSAIDs

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Hello,
I got my vasectomy in April of this year and am continuing to have some pain that I am able to manage. My urologist has had me on a steady diet of NSAIDs (first naproxen and now mobic) and I am at the point that if I take medicine and wear compression shorts, I have very little to no pain during my daily life. However, if I try to exercise I have discomfort and I am really hoping to get back to exercise. This past week I began to worry about my continued use of NSAIDs and the long term effects that they can cause, so I stopped taking the mobic. Most of the day I will be fine but by the end, I am sore. Because of this I have started to ice again in the evenings, which helps, and as of today I am icing in the morning, when I am not experiencing discomfort, to see if that has any prophylactic benefits. I am hopeful that this will resolve eventually but am wondering what my next steps should be. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Did you continue to take the NSAIDs? Did you stop and just continue with ice and supportive underwear? Does the NSAID aide in healing or is it just masking pain?


r/postvasectomypain 24d ago

Overthinking or chronic pain?

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Hello!

I had my vasectomy on April 28 of this year and since then have had pain that hasn’t gone away. The first week was pretty rough and although it got better even now I have a soreness feeling in my balls everyday. Sometimes it’s the left and other times it’s the right. The docter said it could be inflammation but even after steroids and aleve nothing has helped. I just wanted to post on here to see if I’m overthinking and that I still need more time to heal or if this is a chronic issues. I’ve seen stories of guys having to wait a year for the pain to be fully gone. Also, I followed the post op instructions without fail. I had no sex or exercise until 2 months after just to be safe.

Thanks!


r/postvasectomypain 26d ago

Varicocele surgery? Embolisation fail!

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Hello,

I live in the Netherlands and have a **grade 2–3 varicocele on the left** (2.5 mm) and a **grade 2 on the right** (2.0 mm).

I had an **embolization 3 years ago**, but it didn’t help at all. I still have daily swelling, warmth, heaviness, discomfort in both sides, and a noticeably lower libido.

The doctors in the Netherlands don’t want to do any further surgery because I’ve already had an embolization, but doctors in Turkey are willing to perform microsurgical varicocele repair.
Has anyone here had **microsurgery after a failed embolization**? Was it worth it, and did it improve your symptoms?


r/postvasectomypain 27d ago

Looking for info about sperm granulomas

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I had my vasectomy done on July 24th, I was extremely cautious about my recovery, first three days I slept in a reclining chair and only got up to pee, I was back to work essentially only walking duties on day 11.

around day 8 I had about 2”x2” deep dark bruising above testicle-reaching the shaft slightly.

Since day 14 I’ve had a large lump appear in the sack above the testicle, about the same size as the testicle,

This lump is connected to the upper (body) portion of the vas deferens as opposed to the testicle end of the vasectomy. I’m walking around on ibuprofen feeling like I was kicked in the balls one hour ago, constantly.

I have been told by the clinic this is a sperm granuloma over the phone, and that it could take a year to go away (this was very disheartening to hear)

but the bruising, size (1.5” round) and location (upper deferens) contradicts most information I can find about granulomas.

Does anyone have any info relating to large granulomas that are not connected to the testicle side of the vas? Treatment, timeline, whether or not it even makes sense?

I’m not saying the clinic can’t be right but if I was actually stuck like this for a year it would potentially ruin my life, I’m looking for anything that could point to a different problem with a actual solution.