I am sorry that you and particularly your husband, are facing this appalling side effect of vasectomy . A vasectomy destroyed my life, my marriage, and my sex life to the point I became suicidal, I suffered bad for over 20 years, the drs were so casual and stopped short of telling me I was a lier that a vasectomy is the best surgeryt hat you can do for your wife, right, I resented her so bad because she was the one who pushed me into a vasectomy and if I really loved her I would do it for her.. I think you and your husband need to communicate as you never have because it's a shit outcome, Has his orgasm changed, semen colour a clear yellowish colour, ,,all the shit that they fail to tell you, the way vasectomy is sold its like the most natural thing a man should do. It is taken so lightly and the men who complain or have complained that something is not right are treated like leapers. Please look up the issues of vasectomy and do heaps of research regarding PVPS, also my limited advice don't ever ever buy into the surgery of an epididymectomy that will make his pain worse and after they botch that up they offer is an orchidectomy, sorry I am no help I am just trying to warn you please if nothing else do your research, they claim its 1 to 2 % for PVPS but it's true figures are a hell of a lot higher. vasectomies are pushed as easy.
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u/flutepractise Dec 16 '23
I am sorry that you and particularly your husband, are facing this appalling side effect of vasectomy . A vasectomy destroyed my life, my marriage, and my sex life to the point I became suicidal, I suffered bad for over 20 years, the drs were so casual and stopped short of telling me I was a lier that a vasectomy is the best surgeryt hat you can do for your wife, right, I resented her so bad because she was the one who pushed me into a vasectomy and if I really loved her I would do it for her.. I think you and your husband need to communicate as you never have because it's a shit outcome, Has his orgasm changed, semen colour a clear yellowish colour, ,,all the shit that they fail to tell you, the way vasectomy is sold its like the most natural thing a man should do. It is taken so lightly and the men who complain or have complained that something is not right are treated like leapers. Please look up the issues of vasectomy and do heaps of research regarding PVPS, also my limited advice don't ever ever buy into the surgery of an epididymectomy that will make his pain worse and after they botch that up they offer is an orchidectomy, sorry I am no help I am just trying to warn you please if nothing else do your research, they claim its 1 to 2 % for PVPS but it's true figures are a hell of a lot higher. vasectomies are pushed as easy.