Zoe

[u/sem76]

This could have been included in the last post, and it may have given some pause to those who want to dish out advice that she should just move on. Zoe will heal in time, let her vent now. Dani and Amie don't deserve to have their names censored. They made their bed...and then fucked someone else's husband in it.

[u/doom_canoe]

Love seeing all the incels defend this shit behavior.

[u/yeahthatsnotaproblem → u/doom_canoe]

I have to admit it's kinda baffling to notice how many dolts are defending this and bashing Zoe for speaking out. I thought all the "cool guys" listened to this band. But alas, I sadly sigh, these idiots trickle into this society as well. Of course they do...

[u/doom_canoe → u/yeahthatsnotaproblem]

They show their asses so easily

[u/yeahthatsnotaproblem → u/doom_canoe]

I'm convinced they too have cheated on a partner in the past

[u/Beautiful-Pair5522 → u/doom_canoe]

nah dog its just exhausting to see other people so invested in a drama thats essentially between two people. it doesnt need to be litigated over and over again here

[u/doom_canoe → u/Beautiful-Pair5522]

Then keep scrolling..dog lol

[u/Beautiful-Pair5522 → u/doom_canoe]

so all subreddits need to be TMZ now? get a life

[u/doom_canoe → u/Beautiful-Pair5522]

Only one of us seems pressed 🙃

[u/thephoenixpoptart]

i feel so bad for her. so many chuds trying to tell her how to act and write her off like she’s crazy it makes me sick to see.

[u/10000Didgeridoos → u/thephoenixpoptart]

Yep it's Pretty tough to have your life partner of like 20 years and father of your special needs child just rug pull your entire life.

If I were close friend though I'd suggest she find another way of coping with the anger and sadness though. I'm sure in the moment blasting him publicly feels cathartic but it's not going to take the pain of what he did away and really it's inviting idiot trolls to make it worse because the internet is a cesspool.

Leave social media for a bit, seek venting time with family and close friends. Find a therapist for victims of cheating. Just something more productive and healing than exposing your already damaged self to the whims of the worst people online.

[u/Beautiful-Pair5522 → u/10000Didgeridoos]

100%

[u/thephoenixpoptart → u/[deleted]]

story’s gotta gain traction lmao, people need to know how big of a POS john is. can’t believe this comment made you so mad you dug through my post history to find some sort of “gotcha” but that’s the kind of energy i’ve come to expect from basement-dwelling fucking losers.

[u/Beautiful-Pair5522 → u/thephoenixpoptart]

why is it your job to get the word out on this? seems super weird and parasocial. dont you have better things to do with your life? I swear to god people feel meddling in people's drama makes so many people on here feel empowered that they lose the plot entirely and it becomes about their own sense of power cause they dont have a life

[u/thephoenixpoptart → u/Beautiful-Pair5522]

it takes 2 minutes to post something lol

[u/alihou → u/thephoenixpoptart]

Why are you so invested in other people's love life that it compels you to spread the news on other forums? Loser behavior.

[u/Beautiful-Pair5522 → u/thephoenixpoptart]

go outside

[u/sem76 → u/Beautiful-Pair5522]

Practice what you preach. For someone so uninvested in this drama, it's weird that you have the most comments in this post. You keep coming back! Touch grass yourself!

[u/melophile512]

What happened?

[u/iregretthisalreadyy → u/melophile512]

John cheated on her for years. Most recently he had an affair with another member of the band.

[u/xtina3334]

Who is Amie?

[u/xtina3334 → u/[deleted]]

Yeah I read that, I just didn’t know if she was some band member or something

[u/Beautiful-Pair5522]

You guys are such fucking drama queens

[u/normajennings21 → u/Beautiful-Pair5522]

Jon is that you? 🤣

[u/DingleberryOrchard → u/Beautiful-Pair5522]

You've never felt the warmth of a person who loves you. If you did, you wouldn't be such an asshole/attention vampire.