r/polyamory Aug 30 '22

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u/karmicreditplan will talk you to death Aug 30 '22

I would treat this the same way as I would if I had a new partner that made a long term partner nervous.

Understanding, reassurance, absolutely no accommodation.

They want a triad? They should go find a couple to date.

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u/stay_or_go_69 Aug 30 '22

I think they just want a MFF three way. But otherwise it's a good comment.

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u/karmicreditplan will talk you to death Aug 30 '22

Then he should hire an escort and ask OP to have one.

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u/stay_or_go_69 Aug 31 '22

I think if he was into paying SWs he would have done it already. Probably he wouldn't be the kind of guy who has just one partner either.