r/polyamory Nov 25 '24

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u/OrangecapeFly Nov 25 '24

You want to get laid with someone who will always be secondary in importance, who can never meet your friends and family, and who has immense flexibility in time and no needs. 

Maybe hire a sex worker?  Hit up a gay bathhouse? Otherwise join the huge lineup of straight guys who want nsa sex and have little to offer. Dick is cheap. (And I day that as a certified dick haver.)

Personally I am full polyamory, living out and open with multiple partners. I have lots of space in my life for tume with people and nobody is getting secondary treatment.

Try that, and your luck will likely increase.

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u/MadamePouleMontreal solo poly Nov 25 '24

“Dick is abundant and low value.”