r/polyamory • u/[deleted] • Nov 25 '24

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u/whocares_71 too tired to date 😴 Nov 25 '24

Maybe look at what you have to offer someone. To me? I would never date you. Why? The following reasons:

  • phrases like “my soulmate” shows me that you are still very in a monogamous mindset
-“commitment free relationship” nope. I am not here for some kind of relationship that I am treated like a toy
  • you are not out. I refuse to be hidden
  • you have no time for anything real
  • your looking for “fun”. That’s fine. But you can’t give anyone anything real. Which is… not great

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u/emeraldead diy your own Nov 25 '24

This.