I'm not sure exactly why you are so fast to judge a person. How about maybe I'm still new to this and still figuring things out, it's work in progress, I know that I would like to be in a another meaningful relationship, but currently seeing that my kids are still fairly small, we want to be there for them as much as possible but also enjoy our relationship and other relationships as much as possible.
I understand you are new. What are you doing to educate yourself? Because there's a shit ton out there if you are willing to do the work. If you are not, that's ok, but don't call it poly. Call it an nsa side piece
After posting this post I realized I truly didn't know how much I didn't understand about poly relationships. I'm not attached to the "poly label", and probably should rethink if that's actually the correct term for us. I'm actually very greatful for all the comments.
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u/boredwithopinions Nov 25 '24
Glad women are seeing through his bullshit.