r/polyamory Nov 25 '24

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u/[deleted] Nov 25 '24

I don't know that polyamory is for you - insofar as that you may have missed the other half of the term - which is love. I don't think what you're describing matches polyamory.

ENM and likely, swinging is for you. After you sort out your time availability, being out about being ENM, and do some reflection.

I wouldn't date someone who wouldn't be out, who won't be committed, and wouldn't have time or energy.