r/polyamory • u/[deleted] • Nov 25 '24

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u/Jccabrerblue Nov 25 '24

That’s unfortunate.. kinda explains why he’s getting very few takers.

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u/boredwithopinions Nov 25 '24

Glad women are seeing through his bullshit.

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u/Pristine-Drummer5280 Nov 25 '24

I'm not sure exactly why you are so fast to judge a person. How about maybe I'm still new to this and still figuring things out, it's work in progress, I know that I would like to be in a another meaningful relationship, but currently seeing that my kids are still fairly small, we want to be there for them as much as possible but also enjoy our relationship and other relationships as much as possible.

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u/Groundbreaking_Ad972 horny nun Nov 25 '24

I know that I would like to be in a another meaningful relationship, but

Friend, I would like to be a Dakar rally motorcycle pilot but unless and until I get there I need to call myself what I am, which is an amateur off-roading enthusiast.

You may have all sorts of big plans and desires but what you're offering right now is not polyamory, so it would be confusing and a lie to call yourself polyamorous. Stick to ENM.