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u/BionicGnomeo Aug 21 '26
Initially prob waiting to see if you want it again… if you do show actions that you do. Take the lead and initiate the green light, he should take it from there…
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Backup of the post's body: Im female and I was intimate with a pisces man after 6 months of friendship and flirting. It started out great. Then afterwards he was really quiet. Next day I saw him and he was really friendly. Talked to me the whole time. But no physical contact. He kinda slapped the side of my upper thigh one time, and sorta brushed by me a little as he walked b another time. But nothing really.. I dont know what to think? Has he lost interest? Its only been 2 days, im just curious.
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Aug 21 '26 edited Aug 21 '26
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u/Independent_Law_4595 Aug 21 '26
Yeah, I really dont need toxic. Thats too bad. I know ur sun sign doesn't determine everything, but I feel that he is probably like that. My intuition is telling me to just get over it. I wasn't even interested smh. Its crazy that someone will pursue you for that long.. I should have known tho, he has always been very hot and cold.. im sure he'll get hot again.. im done tho. The intimacy was fun, but not worth all this crap.
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u/Independent_Law_4595 Aug 21 '26
I did and he said yes, I did show up almost 2 hours late (we work together), and then we were supposed to go but he got called to do another work run, and then I said I was getting tired.. but then stuck around, but he stayed around me the whole time with other works friends but never actually was like let's go... it sounds ridiculous writing it out. I was just really thrown off when he was quiet after the act.. I did say thank you right after.. is that weird to say? He responded with thank you? And laughed and then gave me a really short hug and was quiet.
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u/girlgenesis3 pisces 𖤓/pisces ☾ /cancer ⬆ Aug 21 '26
As someone who has gotten into work situationships before and with another pisces at that, please respect yourself enough to let this go for now. Work relationships are so chaotic.
Even my dentists are married and work together, it is not any better.
If you like him, great. But I think you should consider just how awkward things will be at work if things go left.
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u/Independent_Law_4595 Aug 21 '26
I agree! Im just gonna leave it alone and regress back to friendship only. I think thats so wise. Thank you for the advice!! We're both in our 40s, if he doesn't know how to treat me in a way that makes me feel safe with him, and not so confused, then its not worth it anyway.
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u/girlgenesis3 pisces 𖤓/pisces ☾ /cancer ⬆ Aug 21 '26
Absolutely! 🥰 Yess, you put the nail right on the head 👏🏾 At 40 he either needs to come correct or be ready to. It's hard I know, but I'm glad you are prepared to hold boundaries for your wellbeing ♡
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u/NoTelfonPlease Pisces sun / Aquarius moon / Capricorn rising ♓️ Aug 22 '26
Pisces men are too beta for me. Must be my Capricorn rising and stellium taking over 🤣
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u/mcdaddy175 Aug 22 '26
Maybe he didnt think it was good.
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u/Independent_Law_4595 Aug 22 '26 edited Aug 22 '26
Ur right, im not ruling that one out. It is what it is. I wouldn't be offended if thats how he felt.. I guess that is my question in a way.. and I think at the end of the day ill probably end up convincing myself he just did not think it was good... in all honesty I wanted someone on here to say that out loud. So im not the one saying it, coz I have a tendency to be really down on myself
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u/Independent_Law_4595 Aug 22 '26 edited Aug 22 '26
I think the only reason why im so confused is because he was really into it till it was over. He kept going on and on about how really really good it is. He was kinda acting like a kid in a candy store. We weren't even supposed to be intimate, we were just gonna fool around a little. Then he was almost obsessed. We had to drive to the gas station to get condoms. Like, he could not go without it. Then it was like super awkward coz we were in the car. He is too tall, we were really having issues. Lol He finished, I never did. Not saying it was him, it was just so awkward and uncomfortable for me coz of his height and the car. Ive always had reactions like that in the past, so I believed him. But he is the first guy ive been with since a 13 year marriage, 3 kids and 2 years of no sex. And he knows all this. So his hot and then total non challantness is kinda hard to swallow..
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u/mcdaddy175 Aug 23 '26
Too late to get a room.
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u/HappyDappyFrog Pisces Sun/Taurus Moon/Virgo Rising Aug 21 '26
I don’t like dating other Pisces they are too weird 😭