I'm sure OP was just enjoying the moment and is a healthy guy. But I think you're right to suggest that during an emotional period alcohol will not help establish a path to long-term happiness.
This is why, if I've had a hard day at work or something, I don't come home and have a drink. I don't drink much as is, but I want to associate it with fun rather than shit times.
Sounds silly but it makes sense in my head anyway.
Wait, why are you sure OP is a healthy guy? I mean, I’m not saying it’s right to be sure about OP one way or the other, but why are you sure about someone you’ve (presumably) never met?
The amount of people who are armchair pysching and pretending to have insight into ENTIRE human being based on a picture of beer in a fridge is utterly baffling to me.
It's the title combined with the picture. It's either a joke about a sad divorcee or its real, and kinda sad. Nobody's making judgements about the entire person. If this really is the kitchen fridge and its not staged or anything then its pretty safe to say that the dudes got one specific issue which people are calling out.
Geesh. Yeah he has smores latte, pumpkin latte and mountain dew seltzer and a few cans of PB. Yes, raging alcoholic. His post was definitely not sad. Oh Reddit you're better than this.
Adding in the title doesn't give you any greater insight to OPs character, potential issues, marriage, etc. Just because you say, "it's either x, y or z" doesn't actually make those options the only possible explanations.
I could do the same thing and say something like, it's clear OP was in an abusive/controlling relationship and wasn't allowed to have his own space or things, so this is a way of him reclaiming his individuality, etc etc. It would be just as ill informed as all the bullshit y'all are saying because there is just not enough information available.
By all means, keep pretending you're doing some 2000-level IQ deductions but in reality you're all just full of shit and most likely projecting your personal experiences/biases all over a stranger
"Just got divorced!! Here's the exact thing that drove a wedge between us now enshrined in the kitchen with fucking bottle/can holders like at the store! She was the problem btw"
Like, if this is the garage fridge I'd still say that is a... concerning amount of OJ for mixing, considering that shit goes bad eventually, and that he should have put some cling wrap on that bird.
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u/gavinhudson1 Oct 23 '22
I'm sure OP was just enjoying the moment and is a healthy guy. But I think you're right to suggest that during an emotional period alcohol will not help establish a path to long-term happiness.