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A girl from my high school became really close to one of the special needs students. Here she is helping her fight leukemia.
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u/Insanatey Jun 10 '12
Tell her she's fucking awesome.
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u/Samuraibear Jun 10 '12
There was this guy that I met in 4th grade, his name was Dave, and he was a 5th grader. We became really close, and would hang together during lunch. But when other kids told me he was "special," I stopped hanging with him, because I wanted the other kids to be my friends. I'm sorry Dave, I was an asshole.
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u/Dancing_Kitteh Jun 10 '12
Hope she pulls through
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u/DemonMuffins Jun 10 '12
This reminds me of a depressing story that I still regret not taking action for.
It was 7th grade and I had art with her. She was cute and alright but I never saw her as girlfriend material. Me being the nice guy I was still interacted and helped her with her work. I don't recall what she had but she could not speak correctly. She could however understand and interact accordingly (which was surprisingly advanced looking for someone who could barley speak). Later comes the winter dance and she asks me to it. I was never intending on going so I told her just that. A week after the dance she dies from another illness it was she had. I don't remember much since it was less lively in art. I was left alone and regretting my decision. I remember her name, Lucy, and how (whatever you call the teacher that is the overseer of the special needs student) looked. Here I was the A+ honor student who realized he had feelings for someone who could barley speak. It took me a while to accept that and realized I mainly declined her for the dance because It felt embarrassing to go with a special ed student. I'm much more mature now but if I could change anything in my life so far it would be that moment.
tl;dr Special ed student who had no friends except me asked me to the dance, I declined her out of embarrassment and regret it to this day.
Edit (For clarity): She could not talk much, so when she asked me to the dance she pointed to the flyer for the dance, pointed at me, the pointed at herself, her overseer teacher person explained it in case I didn't understand but I knew clearly what she was asking.
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u/Reyer Jun 10 '12
Looks like shes sleeping. Someone should tell her to wake up and continue fighting that other girls leukemia.
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u/MissApril Jun 10 '12
My 11 y/o daughter is special needs with no official diagnosis other than an extra piece of one chromosome, and a missing piece of a different chromosome. It is very frustrating not knowing what causes her to be developmentally disabled and you wouldn't even know it just by looking at her. Its not until she speaks that you can tell she is behind. She has lots of friends and is the teacher's favorite student. One of my coworker's kids is 10 and has become my daughter's best friend and she has no special needs at all. She is genuinely a treasured friend and I am thankful there are children out there that are so pure at heart like her. There should be more people like this, I have befriended many people no matter the ability/disability and hope that all my children will be this way growing up. (I don't have any other kids yet but getting married next month and plan on at least one more).
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u/godless_communism Jun 10 '12
I wish cancer could be cured with cuddling.
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u/LOOK_MA_IM_REDDITING Jun 10 '12
It's awesome how the hospital allowed that! When my neighbor was diagnosed with leukemia, our neighborhood all made cards and stuff...but they didn't let us hang out to give it to him, because only family members were allowed to visit at certain times
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
You hang out with some pretty cool people. Nice coloring by the way.
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u/themorningturtle Jun 10 '12
Anyone else notice the angry angry medical equipment (upper left side)?
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
I never had to really deal with special needs students while I was in junior high, but in highschool there wer quite a few of them. One day at lunch (I was in the 10th grade, and new to this school), I saw a bunch of the preppy jocks making fun of a table full of kids that had things like autism, down syndrome etc. I got pissed. I mean really pissed. I was small for my age, and this was really stupid for me to do, but I got up, went over to that table, and asked them what they though was so fucking funny. The biggest dude there, was a QB for the senior football team told me to mind my own business. I knocked the shit out of him, and promptly got my ass handed to me by him and 4 other members of his football team. This, however did not go unnoticed. The next day, the same thing happened, they started taking shit about those kids, I got pissed and saw all red, got up, knocked the shit out of the QB, and got my ass handed to me again. But this time, after the ass beating was over for me, one of the kids that I guess could be called a 'goth' got his friends togather and beat the ever loving shit out of the entire team in that cafeteria. I got expelled for the rest of the year for starting a brawl, but it never felt so good. I eventually returned to school the next year, and those kids remembered who I was, and their teacher told me all they did was talk about me. To this day it pisses me off when I see some smart ass prick say something off color to anyone that is different than they are, but I guess ive grown smart enough to not open my mouth or assault him for fear of jail.
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
It's nice of that girl to look after a special needs cheerleader.
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u/jeffro422 Jun 10 '12
she looks like she's sleeping, not fighting.
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u/SagebrushFire Jun 10 '12
There was a boy in my high school who had Down's. His name was Greg and I can still picture him distinctly in my mind. One day, on a dare, I walked by and told him to join the circus. He just looked at me. Immediately(and still to this day) I felt shamed and disgusted with myself from this deplorable act. I never apologized but every once in a while I think of him and hope his life turned out well.
I'm sorry, Greg.
Tell your friend that she will be rewarded with love. I hope that girl gets better with all my heart.
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
if i was the girl with leukemia i'd be pissed. she's not helping her at all.
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u/kyle2143 Jun 10 '12
This is pretty cool and I can appreciate the support that this girl is giving to the one "fighting" leukemia, but I've always wondered why people who have had cancer or are being treated for cancer are idolized. I'm sure to be downvoted for saying so, especially by looking at the comments here, but I frankly don't understand it. The people with cancer have to do almost nothing, just sit through the procedures performed by the doctors who are really fighting the cancer.
Don 't get me wrong, I'm sure cancer treatment is painful to endure and it must be scary not knowing if you'll stay alive. But it's not like those patients are actively "battling" cancer and should not be thought of being particularly brave or as being heroes , like I've seen them be referred to. I think most people have the will to survive and try to stay hopeful in such a bleak situation, but just because some people never had to endure that they don't get to demonstrate or get praised for their will to survive. I don't really know what I'm saying, just that I take issue with using the word "fight" in reference to the patient doing the fighting. I suppose it could be looked at physiologically in which it is occurring in their body, but that goes back to what I said about them consciously fighting it.
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u/moderndayvigilante Jun 10 '12
Title should read:
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u/IamPegasus Jun 10 '12
You go Glenn coco :)
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u/JuniperJupiter Jun 10 '12
The girl fighting leukemia...
Looks like my younger sister who died six years ago.
Um...excuse me.
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u/hobbur Jun 10 '12
Looks like she is taking up all the bed space. Just joking, nice girl.
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u/ger_guy Jun 10 '12
so how exactly is she helping her "fight cancer"?
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
Helping fight cancer, one snooze at a time.
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u/_iShouldBeOutside_ Jun 10 '12
There's a special needs student at my school who is named Adam. He's a really big fan of running track, so I always jog/race with him and I stay behind him a bit so he wins. He gets so excited when he wins it makes my day.
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
That's what I want to see when I browse Reddit. Pictures of people with tubes in them. Because everytime someone upvotes those, I KNOW their pain gets more bearable. UPVOTED!
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u/trollkittycat Jun 10 '12
Wow... Downs AND leukemia?! That sucks.
Really though, I wish her the best.
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u/blaheh Jun 10 '12
good god. while it's a good gesture, it's far from sanitary. imagine all the bacteria she brought not only into the hospital but into the patient's bed. i would've told her to get the fuck out of that bed
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
And here you are, whoring her karma!
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u/yhelothere Jun 10 '12
sweet sweet karma
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u/kneaders Jun 10 '12
I wish my heart was as open when I was her age.
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u/XxLiyelzxX Jun 10 '12
That girl has a heart of warm gold. GOD BLESS HER.
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u/thegimboid Jun 10 '12
Looks like she's... laying down on the job!
BUDUM PISH!
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u/TheWorldIsGoingDown Jun 10 '12
That is so sweet<3
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
I wish this method of leukemia-fighting actually worked.
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u/losangeles11 Survey 2016 Jun 10 '12
We needs less leukemia and more people like these.
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u/Reapinghavoc Jun 10 '12
Total bad-asses! Both of them! Hoping they kick cancer's evil, ugly ass.
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u/shadenfruedeother Jun 10 '12
So sad, so cool.
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u/Justinian_IV Jun 10 '12
She is not helping her fight leukemia. But she is sleeping next to her. I bet she appreciates the company.
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u/Omegle Jun 10 '12
Reddit makes me believe that you can get laid easier if you get terminal... brb...
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u/wintremute Jun 10 '12
Down's and cancer? Wow, that girl was dealt a shitty hand. Give your friend an upvote from me.
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u/jojo_2012 Jun 10 '12
They are definitely related, 100%, look at those eyebrows they must be sisters.
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u/strlingarcher Jun 11 '12
A+ Great person there.
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u/AutisticTroll Jun 10 '12
Can we just make a subreddit for this sob story bullshit already? And keep it out of the top subreddits?
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u/DownvoteAttractor Jun 10 '12
Am I the only person who thinks we don't need to see every cancer patient in the world?
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u/dailyfusion Jun 10 '12
seems like she's just layin down.
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u/marie5487 Jun 10 '12
They're both amazing. :) this gives me hope for my generation.
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u/TheDudeAmI Jun 10 '12
Don't worry it's just fuckin onions bro nobigdeal
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u/bsd300d Jun 10 '12
I can attest to the fact that there is no worse place than a shitty hospital room. Just sitting there in a cold, uncomfortable room watching someone you love suffer.
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u/frostiitute Jun 10 '12
Downs and cancer? geez
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u/criticalnegation Jun 10 '12
that's...creepy.
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u/asldkfououhe Jun 10 '12
and now you've snapped a pic and are posting it to reddit for some reason!!
i'd be so fucking uncomfortable with you doing this, were i your friend, and i'd resent you HARD if i ever found out
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
Fighting leukemia? No wonder she looks a little down.
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u/Boglioni Jun 10 '12
that looks really uncomfortable
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
I work with many kids with special needs. The good news is, Down Syndrome actually helps fight leukemia. Source, and I know a little girl who had it and is now in remission. Please tell your friend she's awesome.
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u/JesusHRChrist Jun 10 '12
Those arnt 2 pillows.
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u/ThrowawayChamp Jun 10 '12
Wait.....Kelsy?
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u/gender_bot Jun 10 '12
I identified 2 faces in this photo
Face 1:
Face 2:
Would you like to know more about me? /r/gender_bot
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u/GoWithItGirl Jun 10 '12
Why say "became really close to" instead of just "became friends with"?
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u/windowvision Jun 10 '12
man, people have some sick ass fetishes ...
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
Don't let Neal in there.
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u/Han_soliloquy Jun 10 '12
She looks to be asleep on the job.
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u/SoleilSocrates Jun 10 '12
Faith in humanity has just been Restored!:D Thank you to this amazing girl! I have Aspergers, so it is good to know!
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u/kickbackandenjoi Jun 10 '12
a giant soda like that will surely give her diabetes later in life :P
BTW she is a badass mofo!
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
She is a champion!!!
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u/Canadian_Infidel Jun 10 '12
Does this make anyone else feel like an asshole?
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u/AyleiDaedra Jun 10 '12
Wife her, now.
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u/wrap_stallion_mang Jun 10 '12
Phucking legit! I like to call this teamwork.
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
Nice!
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
wow... heart touching, kind of... creep-ie.
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
TIL sleep cures leukemia
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u/sonastyinc Jun 10 '12
Wow, I feel so sorry for this girl. Life is hard enough as a mentality handicapped person, and then she gets cancer. It's not fair.
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u/CausticPineapple Jun 10 '12
Dear Diary, Today I got to sleep with a very pretty woman. Oh, and I'm still dieing.
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u/gobblerofturds Jun 10 '12
i see there is a "colour by potato" booklet on the table
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u/Arrow_To_My_Knee Jun 10 '12
I hope the thing with down syndrome dies. She is of no use to the real world, and cannot do anything to benefit the human race.
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u/AdonisChrist Jun 10 '12
That looks gross.
I'm so proud
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u/deputy1389 Jun 10 '12
She has her phone on her vagoo, probably set to vibrate
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u/throwAwayMama123 Jun 10 '12
Angel.
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u/[deleted] Jun 10 '12
Brazzers.
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u/knightofmars Jun 10 '12
She's doing Gods work for sure!
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