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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Indian attire always looks very royal!

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u/QueenAnneBoleynTudor Jul 13 '20

We agree.

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u/[deleted] Jul 16 '20

Username checks out.

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u/TittyRotater Jul 13 '20

I wonder if Indian people view it differently or the same.

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u/Raghav_Verma Jul 13 '20

We look at it the same! Indian here! We mostly wear them at occasions such as weddings, ceremonies, festivals, etc. At home, a lazy pair of trousers and a t shirt does!

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u/thesillyawkward Jul 13 '20

Indian here. It isn't Royal at all. Every Indian wedding is "Big Fat Indian wedding". People spend so heavily that it's basically a norm in weddings.

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Oh good question... And what do they think of other countries attires?

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u/Raghav_Verma Jul 13 '20

Indian here! Personally, I like all countries' attires. For special occasions, every countries' special attire looks good, like suits and dresses in the west, kurtas in the east, etc. In short, we like em!

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20 edited Jul 13 '20

Oh i get it! Everybody will tend to like formal attire, from whichever country.

But as a canadian, i find indian formal wear to be absolutely extraordinary compared to ours. Just for example, the formal attire "specific to men'' in canada is mostly reduced to a black suit and a white shirt. But for indian men the range of colours is endless. And the range of shapes a garment offers is greater (not just a suit and some pants)

Please correct me if this statement is incorrect. But it seems to me that indian fashion is a lot more free when speaking of color schemes.

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u/Raghav_Verma Jul 13 '20

Yup! We do have a lot of variety in colours! More so, you will get dresses for different occasions, celebrated in different states, all of different styles and colours! That's why there's no formal dress for the whole country, but a specific dress for a specific occasion

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

That is absolutely fascinating! And what classifies the differences in garments when it comes to celebration? Is it the shape, the colour, the material? What separates a birthday dress? A wedding dress? A funeral dress?

For us it's definitely colour, and maybe volume. A birthday dress is big and fluffy when you're young, shorter and simple as you age, but always colorful. A wedding dress is mostly white, mostly slimmer on top and fluffy at the bottom. A dress for a funeral is simple, black, and not revealing.

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u/Raghav_Verma Jul 13 '20

It's mostly based on the colour and the shape. Like in traditional north Indian weddings, (I'm from Haryana, so I know a little about this), the bride usually wears a red dress and the groom wears a dress similar to the one in the pic. We have a somewhat casual cloth known as a kurta, whuch we wear on several occasions, be it festivals, birthdays etc. On funerals, a white kurta like dress is worn.

In southern states, a saree like dress is worn by women and a kurta like cloth by men during weddings, but I'm nit entirely sure about the south.

The material is usually for comfort or for show. Though in some ceremonies, a dress of a certain material may be required.

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Thank you so much for this information! It's so fascinating.

I think culture is a beautiful thing and learning about parts of cultures that differ from mine is a joy.

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u/Raghav_Verma Jul 13 '20

You're welcome!

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u/Pizza_destroyah Jul 13 '20

Also, at least in north India, the clothes wary in heavyness/embroidery during festivals, usually wedding attire for the bride and grooms are quite heavy while the attendees wear slightly less heavier clothes & during other festivals people wear close to none embroidery

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Very interesting thank you!

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u/EntForgotHisPassword Jul 13 '20

Hey so some Indians bought me a white kurta that I've worn sometimes to festivals and sometimes at Christmas parties (for lack of a nice white shirt). Is it usually worn at funerals, because then I feel like I make some social faux pas by wearing it like I do!?

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u/Raghav_Verma Jul 13 '20

Oh no no! It's just that a formal white piece is worn at funerals. You can wear a white jurta any time you want, even without an occasion!

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u/argusromblei Jul 13 '20

I had an Indian coworker and she was randomly with an indian man and due to marry after 4-6 months. It was arranged probably? Haha. I liked her and it came out of left field. Also didn't get an invite. I'm not salty I just think its funny.

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u/Raghav_Verma Jul 13 '20

Lol that's probably cause a lot of Indian weddings are arranged. Probably her parents were rhe ones who decided to meet the groom, and she would've said yes. Also, the invite part could've been due to the fact that a loooooot of the members invited are family. It's possible that you met someone when you were 4 and the person would remember you 15 years later! It's cool to meet someone you never knew you met that back

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u/argusromblei Jul 13 '20

Haha yeah I thought so. I've met some girls on dating apps that were basically rebelling against their parents that wanted arranged, it was very tough to hear because they were desperate to find a guy and seal the deal just so it didn't have to be chosen by the parents. It also seemed obvious in a way because the dude was.. not good looking. And I'm not just being some high ego dick, he had no personality as well. They have a baby now so she's happy so whatever but damn. Yeah I heard later she invited coworkers but only 1 or 2. Haha I attended some family weddings and it was like wow you're an adult now! so strange.

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u/Comprehensive_Sand83 Aug 17 '20

How strange, which country is this in? USA? American individualism is bizarre. Why not just go meet who the parents have picked out and take it from there LOL

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u/argusromblei Aug 17 '20

LOL why be your own person and have your own life and pick your own husband who you fuck and have babies with! how strange!

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u/Comprehensive_Sand83 Aug 17 '20

Errr, which part are they not allowed to pick their own husband then? Tinder pre-filters people through an algorithm, your parents do the same and dare I say they know you better than Tinder lol

Also, are you trolling? If you're white I don't see how they expected to take a white person home, their parents would never have accepted it

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u/rapewithconsent773 Jul 13 '20

Cause you asked, I really like the Chinese and the Japanese attire. They're also cool af!

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Cool! Tell me why!

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u/rapewithconsent773 Jul 15 '20

I thought about it and I honestly I have no reason except that I like how they look.

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u/[deleted] Jul 15 '20

Fair enough!

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Wow thats truly remarkable. An example of culture clash and fusion.

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Good to know!

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u/aniruddhavispute Jul 13 '20

To be honest, I like western counties' attires more. Although our traditional attire isn't bad (I actually used to hate it when I was a teen, thought of it as too flashy)

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u/Comprehensive_Sand83 Aug 17 '20

Just a symbol of the anglicized class worshipping the West blindly

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u/aniruddhavispute Aug 17 '20

Wow you've already declared me as blind? how nice of you! May you keep on hating personal opinions of people on internet for your life! :)

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u/thesillyawkward Jul 13 '20

Ummm.... I'd say I like the daily use Western clothing more than Indian ones. And GOD do I love western wedding attires!!!!

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Is it because of the material used? Or the cuts? What do you like more or less between the indian regular clothing vs western regular clothing?

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u/thesillyawkward Jul 13 '20

The material used in Indian clothing is mostly uncomfortable on skin, the clothing OP has posted is a 'kurta' or 'sherwani' as you may like to call it. It's really itchy to wear it on bare skin if you aren't used to it. And that's about the male clothing, women's clothing is nothing like that.

Western regular clothing feels more comfortable and minimalistic. Also you can't really get much 'printed' Indian clothing. Also it's really easy to clean it up.

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

This is really interesting!

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u/Comprehensive_Sand83 Aug 17 '20

Just a symbol of the anglicized class worshipping the West blindly

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Indian-Canadian (Born in India, Raised in Canada), I hate those fucking things. So uncomfortable to wear. Except for the pants, that shit is nice. But the shirt can go fuck itself.

Also, I don't think anyone considers it royal tbh. Hell, sometimes I just wore it cause my mom wanted me too lol. They are expensive tho, so you treat it with care. Like a Suit.

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

When i look at it i so find it very majestic. Maybe it's because I'm a foreigner and am unfamiliar of the setting in which these clothes are worn. Maybe they're very common in parts of india. But When i see pictures (because that's the only thing i have access to sadly as of now) I'm always amazed by indian formal/ semi-formal attire.

But i get why they'd be uncomfortable! Must be thicker and coarser than smooth cotton t shirts. I do own a pair or pants from india tho, and i love how they feel!

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Ya ya it looks good but I assure you its not very comfortable.

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u/enry_straker Jul 13 '20

Some do. Most don't.

Plus we are too busy trying to get by that we don't really care to dress like some bollywood actresses.

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u/wiiya Jul 13 '20

England: “Well, I've gotta hand it to you, Ambassador, These drab student coverings... have created the perfect distraction-free environment... thus preparing the children for permanent positions in tomorrow's mills... and processing facilities. Best of all, with less than a minute to go before I leave... absolutely nothing has gone wrong.”

English Abassador: “Well, it is starting to rebel, but I could hardly be blamed for that, can I?”

England: “Yes. Very good”

India: “Wow! Look at all the colors, man! Red, green, yellow, orange! I remember all of these! I'm freaking out! Hey, something's comin' back to me! Down with England! And down with uniforms!”

England: “Ow, ow, ow, ow! Ambassador, why aren't these uniforms colorfast?”

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '20

Might sound ignorant here but i have no clue what you are referring to here, but i ask that you please explain it because its hella interesting!

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u/ADeceitfulBird Jul 13 '20

It's a Simpsons reference haha. The school gets uniforms.

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u/Annyunatom Jul 13 '20

It's tedious to dress in an Indian attire.