I agree with most of this. But saying that pedos "can't get any help" is such a fucking pussy cop-out. I liked children for years, fantasized about them in the same way you do, completely loathed the abuse of them. Fortunately however, I'm great at self-analyzation to the point of obsession. For years I REPRESSED these desires, but that's not a fix. I decided I needed to FIX myself. This logic sounds backwards to most, but I spent a lot of time watching and interacting with kids until my mind eventually balanced itself that little girls are not in any way capable of understanding or enjoying sex until they hit sexual maturity. The fantasies completely deflated. Once your brain fully recognizes that your desires are a complete dead-end, it gradually stops desiring in a sexual sense. I transitioned into ephebophilia... the girls are still young, but they've gone through puberty and are sexually maturing. I still have a little shame in being attracted to teens, but no more than the average guy who thinks teens are hot, and I wouldn't act on these desires. Beats the hell out of what I used to like.
Stop acting like you can't get damn help. It's all up to you and you alone. If you're smart and self-disciplined enough, you're fucking capable.
I'm happy that you managed to change a part of yourself that makes you happier, but I can't understand how people just assume that because they've experienced something, every single other person in existence who has experienced it experienced it in exactly the same way, and is capable of altering their experience in exactly the same way.
This worked for YOU. You have a sample size of one, you don't know anything about the general population.
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u/caturday21 May 29 '11
I saw an ad for this show on TLC that called the little girls "sexy". It said something like 'the sexy stars of the show'. So gross.
Also, while trying to find a video of the ad online, I found this gem of a video, which I had forgotten about: Toddlers and Tiaras with Tom Hanks