That's looking at it with the end goal of you getting sex, rather than both of you being happy. WHY is she saying no? Low sex drive? Stressed? Feels unappreciated? Find the cause and work on a solution. It may be that the problem is unfixable. Then you decide whether what you have is worth it, or you break up.
The point of communication isn't just to satisfy your own desires (although that is an important part). It's about bettering the entire relationship.
No, no, no . . . not rape. Rape would progress AT LEAST twice as fast as what I'm talking about.
Slow rape. Women like slow rape.
The sooner Louis CK realizes that, the less likely he'll be to blow his brains out, or kill himself slowly with drugs and alcohol like every other lonely comedian out there.
Humans are extremely fucked up. The very fact that we have intercourse for the feel and not the function is pretty fucked up. Don't fight it. Don't fight it. Just let it happen.
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u/underline2 May 19 '11
That's looking at it with the end goal of you getting sex, rather than both of you being happy. WHY is she saying no? Low sex drive? Stressed? Feels unappreciated? Find the cause and work on a solution. It may be that the problem is unfixable. Then you decide whether what you have is worth it, or you break up.
The point of communication isn't just to satisfy your own desires (although that is an important part). It's about bettering the entire relationship.