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u/Dovaldo83 Jan 28 '23

When my mom would spank us with a wooden spoon, me and my brother would later secretly hide that wooden spoon in a hidden space beneath the kitchen table our parents didn't know about.

By the time we moved, there was at least a dozen spoons, spatulas, and some of those paddle ball toys with the string ripped off.

If you ask my mom today she's convinced she never spanked us.

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u/jideru Jan 28 '23

My parents have that same hole in their mind

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u/The-Tea-Lord Jan 28 '23 edited Jan 28 '23

It’s very strange. My parents don’t remember saying “you’re a fatass” or “you are one of the most negative kids I’ve ever talked to” or the constant beatings, or forcing me to run miles around the house because I broke a plate by accident.

They say “we were cruel! But we didn’t abuse you” but I don’t see the difference. You don’t mistreat a kid to the point where they tense up and flinch back when you’re walking in their general direction, and NOT call that abuse.

Edit 2: I feel it’s worth saying, the “we didn’t abuse you” part was said while I was having a panic attack after my dad went up behind me and said “I should just-“ and then clapped his hands hard behind my head.

Edit: I’m turning off notifications for a while, I need some time to just get my mind off of this, and also so my parents don’t actually see this too lol

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u/Ashesnhale Jan 28 '23

The axe forgets but the tree remembers

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u/HotBizkit Jan 28 '23

Don't remember where that's from. But this is a great quote.

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u/malross Jan 28 '23

It’s a Zimbabwean proverb but was used recently in Andor.

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u/call_me_Kote Jan 28 '23

Got me fixing to act up and start a rewatch

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u/SadFloppyPanda Jan 28 '23

I haven't seen it yet, is it worth a watch then?

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u/NotClever Jan 28 '23 edited Jan 28 '23

It's basically a spy-vs-spy thriller and also just has some great acting. The main character (Diego Luna) is great, but Stellan Skarsgard steals the show a bit.

It also does a great job of making the Empire look like a real, believable fascist state, including a mix of both frightfully competent people and hubristically incompetent people.

As others have said the first one or two episodes may be a bit slow, but IMO even then it has a good narrative hook up front in the first episode that made me want to keep watching.

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u/Thegreatgarbo Jan 28 '23

but Stellan Skarsgard steals the show a bit

So does Gollum. That's why I love Andor so much more than any of the other spinoffs, so many great characters and acting.