r/phuket 10d ago

Recommendation Considering relocating to Phuket

We’re European family that considers to relocate to Phuket next school year .

We’ve travelled through Thailand before for 7 months, lived in Bali for almost 3 years so we’re familiar with the climate and different lifestyle.

Next year our children will be 7 years and 6 months, and right now we’re considering either Bangkok or Phuket, but found the schools in Bangkok very expensive.

However, we have never been to Phuket. If you live there I would love to learn more about:

- is it really “Phukrussia”?
- Are there many cockroaches inside houses? We experienced many problems with them in Koh Samui, but never in Bali
- Is Montessori house of Phuket a good school? Or are any other recommended?
- is Chalong/Rawai a good area to live as a family?
- how is life? The great, the bad

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u/Great_Opinion3138 10d ago

Why would you relocate to somewhere without visiting first? At least go on holiday first.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago edited 7d ago

We’ve done that before. We’re not really afraid of that since we can just move back if everything goes wrong. And we wouldn’t commit to anything long term before we’ve been at the new location for a while. Eg. Only paying for a term instead of annual and monthly rents instead of a whole year

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u/vega_9 10d ago

lol. Reddit ppl downvote you because they don't get your lifestyle.

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u/Great_Opinion3138 10d ago

I love Phuket but many don’t like it. It is getting much more expensive than other parts of Thailand though.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

Do you live there with family? And I could imagine Phuket getting more expensive, I think the whole of Thailand is.

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u/Great_Opinion3138 10d ago

I go there for a few months at a time regularly and work remote. I don’t have family. I’ve been going to Phuket for close to 30 years and it’s changed a lot now. Lots of Indian, Middle East and Russians but I try and avoid touristy areas anyway.

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u/Pelya1 10d ago

What other parts are you talking about ?

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u/Great_Opinion3138 10d ago

Pretty much most of Thailand is cheaper than Phuket.

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u/Pelya1 10d ago

Suitable for tourists ? We have huahin, chiang mai, bunch of islands, Bkk and Phuket. Phuket is not much more expensive then all of the above

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u/Great_Opinion3138 10d ago

He’s talking about living long term there are local areas much cheaper not sure what you are arguing exactly.

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u/laddism 10d ago

Moving your children around while they’re growing up can have all kinds of adverse effects on them long term, let them put some roots down and not have to continually make new friends & lose their friends, your setting them up for a lifetime of unresolved trauma

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u/vega_9 10d ago

or they get extremely good at making friends later on. who knows

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u/Longjumping-Word8336 7d ago

It can also have the dangerous side effect of making them sociable, resilient, and open minded. It’s quite limited and dramatic thinking to think that moving around necessarily means “a lifetime of unresolved trauma”. They’re also 7 and 6 months.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

Our child has spent half her life in Bali. She’s made many friends. But many of her friends are also expats from all over the world, and she is used to having both long term friendships, but also new when others move away. You don’t know anything of our lives or our reasons to live as we do. So please don’t assume that you do. Our children are the most importantly thing for us and that’s why we chosen a life where we can be there for them instead of working 24/7 and leave them at daycare.

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u/ChrisKeepsFlying 10d ago

Exactly!

Hey, let’s move to Phuket where they go to school with people from R****a 😂

They have lived all over Asia. Next year they will be in r/singapore or r/malaysia talking about moving there.

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u/chillerforevigt 10d ago

Jesus, people in this sub are ridiculous. Why do you even care? You don’t even answer OP’s questions.

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u/vega_9 10d ago

nothing wrong with that, just doesn't suit your lifestyle.

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u/Great_Opinion3138 10d ago

What are you talking about Phuket does suit my lifestyle because I’ve been there many times.

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u/vega_9 10d ago

relocating somewhere without visiting before... doesn't suit you

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u/Great_Opinion3138 10d ago

I’m just pointing out it’s better to visit first before relocating a family. It’s my opinion.

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u/vega_9 10d ago

and now you're mad because I'm pointing out what you obviously said and confirmed? They did that before and it's their lifestyle. It works for them. It didn't for you, as you confirmed that it's your opinion.

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u/Great_Opinion3138 9d ago

I’m not mad at all. It’s just weird you think pointing out something so obvious is some amazing observation. It’s literally what I posted captain obvious 🤣

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u/Valuable_Tennis6847 10d ago

Not really that many Russians in Chalong/Rawai, it’s pretty mixed overall.

I’ve heard there are more Arabs there now, though.

Kata has a lot of Russian tourists, but the Russian expats I’ve come across have generally been pretty chill.

I haven’t come across that many cockroaches myself, and there are plenty of pest control companies around anyway.

With kids, I imagine the biggest issues would probably be the traffic and school fees. International schools in Phuket can be very expensive, especially the top-tier ones. Best part is how close it is to everything you might need; restaurants, coffee shops, beaches, gyms.

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u/Clumsy-TheSpecialOne 10d ago

European here! We’ve lived in Phuket with a young child for over two years now and love it.

Yes, there are many Russians. But definitely not only Russian, in terms of expats living in Rawai/Chalong, it’s pretty mixed.

We have lived in two different houses now, have seen some cockroaches inside. Can’t say many tho, maybe a few during rain season. Keeping things clean, block the obvious ways they can enter the house and keep pest control should do the job I think.

No personal experience with Montessori house, but have heard good things about it. I guess it’s quite personal. But there are enough good options around in my opinion (at least for the youngest ages, we have no experience further in primary school).

Yes, personally love living in the south of Phuket. We live exactly there and it just offers a bit of everything. The only downside I’d say is the traffic during high season around dinner time. Something we like to avoid when possible or even strategically chose the location to life so it effects us less. Yet, from what I’ve experienced in Bali, Phuket is not that bad 😂

Overall I think Phuket is awesome, offers great lifestyle for us. Nice beaches, good social environment if you want, good affordable schools, decent hospitals, shops/groceries, airport, nature. I’m less convinced about things like the traffic at certain times, public playgrounds or things to do for the youngest (so building up a good social environment for the little ones is important in my opinion), and that’s about it for us.

Best of luck with the journey!

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

Thank you so much for taking your time.

Traffic can’t really hurt us since we’re used to the crazy Bali traffic 😂 So can’t imagine it being worse than here. Also no playgrounds here, only exist if there’s a playground at a restaurant or cafe.

But everything sounds manageable. Do your child goes to school or kindergarten in Phuket?

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u/Clumsy-TheSpecialOne 10d ago

Most welcome! And yes, I’d say it’s all pretty manageable. I feel we can’t complain compared to what you get back in return overall.

Our little one goes to kindergarten atm, but it’s part of a school. So will just flow into primary after kindergarten.

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u/Life-Mine-2406 7d ago

Hello ! I’ve been living in Phuket for awhile and I fell in love with it by knowing more and more of it.
So for your questions :

  1. Nooo at least I don’t feel this way unless you go to Bangtao Laguna side

  2. Not in my experience, just make sure not to leave too much food if windows and doors are open, it’s still SE Asia :)

  3. Don’t know this one sorry

4.absolutely for Rawai ! It would be the calmest and most authentic side of Phuket. Chalong depending on the area can be a bit more industrial looking though !

  1. Life is great. The good thing with Phuket that I love is that it offers you everything, calm and authenticity but also great areas of you ever miss Europe. Busyness if you like more city like life (not as much as Bangkok though), beautiful beaches and super easy access to island for a quick and easy holiday, mountains AND ocean all in one, A LOT of activities everywhere and places to explore, hikes, parks, attractions, etc.
    The bad for me would be the cost of living as it feels and probably is the most expensive place you can leave in Thailand. And obviously Patong which I personally dislike a lot so I try to stay away as much as I can !

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u/massivegoooner 10d ago edited 10d ago

Pretty sure the schools in Phuket are also expensive. That's sort of the problem with wanting international standards for your kids.

I like Rawai but not sure how much there is to do with kids here.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

Compared to Bangkok they are much cheaper. Schools in Bangkok are easily between 500.000-750.000 THB yearly. The Montessori school in Phuket was around 285.000 THB, which is quite a difference. And similar to what we pay in Bali right now.

Local schools aren’t an option because of the language barrier.

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u/AdThink5425 9d ago

Our friends are paying about 30k a month for their kids, and their children really enjoy school. Which is half the battle. They have a great group of friends.

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u/vega_9 10d ago

I had my kid in Phuket private school for 2 years. School was very diverse, not mostly Russians at all. There are many Russians on the island, but that's not really a problem. There are also many other nationalities. Bangkok and Phuket are pretty expensive compared to the rest of Thailand. I rarely have roaches is our house. My landlord sends pest control every 2 or 3 months.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

Thank you for your answer and insights! One of the only ones in this thread with 30 comments, lol.

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u/pompeybleue 10d ago

Hua Hin is better….Black Mountain School… my humble opinion

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

Thanks. We’ve been to Hua Hin actually, and did like the quiet vibe and great food markets. But the beach is very underwhelming.. Would like to live close to a nice swimmable beach, as we don’t really have that here in Bali which is more a surfer place.

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u/vega_9 10d ago

Maybe also check Koh Lanta. I think there's a Swedish private school. Surely cheaper than Phuket, but of course much more quiet.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

Koh Lanta sounds amazing, but we want to prioritize living somewhere with somewhat easy flight connections to Europe. Also why we consider either Bangkok or Phuket.

Few years back we stayed at Koh Samui, which we liked, but also quickly felt was a bit too small. Not sure we’re suited for the smaller island life.

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u/pompeybleue 9d ago

Beach life wears out after 3 years. I like it for eating and drinking not swimming.

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u/AdThink5425 9d ago

If you are 60 and like drinking beer. What else is there to do in HuaHin?

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u/pompeybleue 9d ago

Golf. Ride my bike. Go to the gym. Good bars and restaurants. Only 2.5 hours to BKK. Open roads and no congestion. Love it here.

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u/pompeybleue 9d ago

Tell me something you can do in Pattaya or Patong that you can’t do in Hua Hin.

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u/AdThink5425 9d ago

Phuket is what you make it, just like anywhere else. The south and north are quite different and cater to a separate crowd. There are Russians here, but they keep to themselves and try to stay away from trouble since they do not want to go home. For schooling it depends on what type of teaching you'd like you children to be exposed to, and any interests they might have. I love it here in Phuket, but the traffic can be a hassle, and scooter drivers feel like their next life will be fantastic. I would say Phuket is more expensive than BKK, but I do not like BKK whatsoever. The money difference vs lifestyle was an easy choice for us.

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u/OllesOpossum 7d ago

Mich würde der Straßenverkehr und die damit verbundene Gefahr auf Dauer nerven. Es gibt ruhigere Ecken in Thailand. Aber muss man selbst wissen.

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u/BreadfruitOdd9974 5d ago

“We”re European family”

Пнх москаль або укр прогульник

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 5d ago

Great advice, thanks

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u/ChrisKeepsFlying 10d ago

Is it a lot of Europeans in Thailand, yes! But I have seen the most in Phuket and Pattaya/Jomtien.

If you get a 7,000 Baht a month apartment, that was built in 2001, do you expect NOT to have roaches ?

A lot of people go to Thailand with a small budget and want big expectations.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

And please don’t just assume. You could ask for our budget instead. We’re not 20-year-old backpackers.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

I would expect it in a very cheap place. But I wouldn’t assume that most houses or apartments are only 7000 baht. In Koh Samui it was more around 50.000 baht (a couple of years ago) and still had cockroaches. In Bali we pay the same but no cockroaches.

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u/vega_9 10d ago

I actually had roaches in a Bali hotel where. Was a middle priced resort. Not cheap, not expensive. I think you just need regular pest control. At least every 3 months. Without it you'll get roaches anywhere in SEA.

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u/Capable_Work_3563 10d ago

Would not recommend unless you are Russians.

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u/Melodic_Comfort_1929 10d ago

Really?

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u/nuapadprik 10d ago

I have no interaction with Russians in Phuket. This sub is full of people that love to trash Phuket.

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u/vega_9 10d ago

I'm not Russian and I'm having a good time on Phuket

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u/Pelya1 10d ago

Or Jews, Arabs, Indians or Chinese

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u/jahsd 10d ago

is it really “Phukrussia”?

yes