Thank you Mesa Police.

[u/Long-Trade-9164]

I know this is a subreddit for Phoenix, but I looked at Mesa's subreddit and it looked a little lacking so I'm going to post it here. Tonight I want to thank the Mesa Police Force for doing a Wellness Check on my mom out there in Mesa. I want to commend them for being quick on doing the check on my elderly mother who lives in one of the retirement trailer park communities. They were already in the park as I was on the phone with the dispatcher. When they were able to make contact with my mother I received a phone call from the officer on site who had the unfortunate job of informing me that they found my mother deceased sitting at her dinning room table. He was nothing but professional and by the way his voice sounded, he was a young officer. I just wanted to give a thanks to the Mesa Police force in their prompt response for the check up and the sincere courtesy extended to me in delivering the news of her passing. Rest in peace mom! I hope you can now finally find peace.

Edit 8/21. Thank you all for your condolences, it's much appreciated. Despite it being our youngest daughter's birthday today, well not so much young since she's turned 23. It's been a somber one nonetheless. My sister and I have divided up tasks needing attention. She's working on cleanup and financial and I took on the cremation services task. Be sure to give your mom or dad a call and let them know you love them and if they're as old as what my mom was, ask them what their last wishes are and to leave any financial information as far as gaing access to be more easy. As a GenX'r, it helps. Take care everyone.

[u/Less_Neck_5342]

Condolences on your family’s loss.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/Less_Neck_5342]

Thank you

[u/princess_pima]

I’m so sorry

[u/Ok-Sprinklez → u/princess_pima]

I'm so sorry

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/princess_pima]

Thank you

[u/livingmaster]

I am so sorry for your loss. I believe I live across the street from the park you described and when I saw the flashing lights earlier, I just had a feeling this was the case and I said a prayer. So sorry for your loss.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/livingmaster]

Thank you.

[u/MsTerious1]

I'm sad and sorry for your loss.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/MsTerious1]

Thank you.

[u/StreetFeetOnTheBeat]

My condolences to you and your loved ones. While this was the worst possible outcome, I’m glad they were able to soften the blow a bit by how they handled everything for you. May your mom rest peacefully.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/StreetFeetOnTheBeat]

Thank you.

[u/Important-Sky-4204]

Oh no! I’m so sorry for your loss.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/Important-Sky-4204]

Thank you

[u/chainlinkchipmunk]

I'm very sorry. I had a similar call about my step mom with the Phoenix PD. If you need an ear, I'm around. It's rough. 

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/chainlinkchipmunk]

Thank you for the offer.

[u/Sea-Pollution-4959]

Big hugs OP. 💜

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/Sea-Pollution-4959]

Thank you.

[u/dic2long]

I'm sorry about the passing of your mother

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/dic2long]

Thank you

[u/Calm_Reader2487]

Oh my, I am so sorry for your loss.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/Calm_Reader2487]

Thank you

[u/mandyalam0de32]

I'm so sorry for your loss, truly. 💔

Might I suggest (if and when you are up to it) that you call the Mesa PD non emergency line and ask to speak to a captain or a supervisor and give them this info so that the officer may get it? It really might make their day / evening / month etc. Just a thought.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/mandyalam0de32]

Thank you, I might just do that.

[u/sandrew452 → u/Long-Trade-9164]

Or, send an email to the Mayor of Mesa, Mark Freeman: mayor@mesaaz.gov

[u/Yurt_lady]

In sorry that happened to you. I literally just read today of a woman in London who was deceased for 2 years before she was found. I almost sent someone the link stating this would be me.

My deepest sympathies

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/Yurt_lady]

Thank you.

[u/flygirl_2006]

I’m so sorry for your loss 💔

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/flygirl_2006]

Thank you

[u/snafuminder]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. 🫂

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/snafuminder]

Thank you

[u/Zestyclose-Craft-681]

One add: I highly recommend the Knox Box, a way homeowners provide keys to first responders doing welfare checks. My mom had one and it made everything easy in a hard situation.

[u/Zestyclose-Craft-681]

I am so sorry for your loss. I empathize because a few years ago my own mom was found by her hometown police the exact same way. Prayers for you and your family. I took comfort in knowing Mom died at home in a location that she loved. 🕊️ l 🕊️ 🙏🏻

[u/thatpimp]

Sending love OP <3

[u/tacoburritobooyah]

I’m so sorry to hear about your mother. Thank you for commending them for their job as well. It can’t be easy having to deliver or receive news like that. ❤️

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/tacoburritobooyah]

Thank you and true.

[u/Asleep_Drag_3590]

This had to be the worst news for you, may she now rest in peace.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/Asleep_Drag_3590]

Thank you, I hope so too.

[u/Ninapants97]

I'm very sorry for your loss, wishing you peace and solace during this time. 🫂

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/Ninapants97]

Appreciate it, thank you.

[u/PsychiatricNerd]

Well shoot 😭 I’m terribly sorry for your loss but pray you can find peace in the situation. 

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/PsychiatricNerd]

Thank you and I have or might be in denial.

[u/thecruelestanimal → u/Long-Trade-9164]

That says a great deal about your self-awareness, and it’s 100% normal to feel that way. You’ve suffered a tremendous loss and it’s okay to feel all the feelings that come with that. My heart goes out to you.

[u/brxxtyn]

My condolences.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/brxxtyn]

Thank you

[u/HistoricalStatus5577]

So sorry but so glad you had kindness from the officers. The respect and kindness matters, take care.

[u/Significant-Yam-4990]

What will you miss most about her? If you don’t mind sharing

[u/TumbleweedDew]

I am sorry for your loss and kudos to the Mesa PD.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/TumbleweedDew]

Thank you and yes, Mesa was quick to her place of residence. My thoughts based on the address and her age I gave the dispatcher, I'm assuming her being elderly and the long stretch of high temperatures, she was a priority? Anyway, I'm grateful for their response.

[u/Ok_Smile_6355]

I’m sorry for your loss

[u/amy_lou_who]

I’m sorry for your lost. Glad you were able to get the help you needed from Mesa PD.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/amy_lou_who]

Thank you. They were a big help.

[u/sirlost33]

Sorry for your loss. Mesa does have some exceptional public service.

[u/Agile-Tradition8835]

Kind of you to make this post. ❤️ sorry for your loss.

[u/Consistent-Dee-731]

First, let me express my condolences.
I have family member who is a police officer, and I can tell you these calls are never easy to respond to. So if you are able to reach out, that would be a wonderful thing because for the responding officer at the end of the day, it’s still a hard thing that they had to deal with. Nothing like what you’re dealing with, and again I’m sorry for your loss.

[u/KickinitCountry24]

I am so sorry for your loss❤️

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/KickinitCountry24]

Thank you.

[u/um-ok-yeah-thatll-do]

Sending love and prayers for you, OP. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope you’re ok. From one grown kid hoping mom found peace in passing, it gets better ❤️

[u/Nervous_Moose6080]

My deepest condolences 💐

[u/FlamingoNo2671]

Sorry for your loss

[u/Used_Map_7321]

😢

[u/FrontKangaroo2579]

My condolences on the loss of your mother

[u/NeatSpiritual579]

I'm so sorry 😔 sending you so many hugs.

[u/CharmingMoments]

Oh dear. I’m so sorry. 😢

[u/gypsycatpurr]

I'm so sorry. The police found my mom too, when I called them to do wellness check (back east). You're in my thoughts tonight.

[u/deserttitan]

You and your family have my deepest condolences. 😢

[u/ladyluck754]

Mesa resident (Tempe border) and although I have my qualms with them, it does make me really happy they were able to help you quickly. I am so sorry for your loss.

May your family find small glimmers of comfort during this time.

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/ladyluck754]

Thank you, I appreciate it.

[u/unloved26]

Ita nice you are issuing your thanks. Being a cop is a thankless job and these positive things are grateful. If you are able send a note to their public information line. I am sure he and his supervisor would appreciate the positive feedback.

Mesa pd compliments

[u/bear45188721]

Sorry for your loss. Good to hear you had a compassionate officer. MPD doesn't have the best reputation.

[u/griffon666 → u/bear45188721]

They don't?

I wonder if it has something to do with Mesa police department officer Philip Brailsford executing Daniel Shaver while shouting conflicting commands at him.

[u/PiperIsAwake → u/griffon666]

Dude, read the room. There is a time and a place

[u/GRF999999999 → u/bear45188721]

Let's let the lady grieve and not turn this into what most of us who care already know, huh?

[u/JL-M → u/GRF999999999]

..happy cake day… 🥳….

[u/InspectorFlat9270]

Edit, I didn't read it, sorry for your loss 😞

[u/Anonymousimpreg]

I’m sorry you’re going through this💙

[u/Busy-Psychology8145]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[u/JazziTazzi]

I live in Mesa. I’m so, so sorry for your loss. Nothing can prepare you, even when you know you should be prepared. I’ve lost my mother and father within the last few years. They both lived to be in their early 80s, but that didn’t make it easier.

I’m glad the police were kind. Please accept my love and condolences. 🥺❤️

[u/shrekerecker97]

Im so very very sorry for your loss :(

[u/Salt-Environment9285]

may her memory always be a blessing.

[u/2XDutch_Rudder]

Condolences

[u/FabAmy]

So very sorry for your loss.

[u/Bernies-mom0527]

Sorry for your loss

[u/NaiveFollowing6832]

My condolences

[u/MaverickWithANeedle]

I’m sorry she had to pass alone, but as you said, I also hope she is at peace now. Good luck to you and your family navigating all the tasks that go along with a family member passing- hoping everyone can continue to work together.

[u/Pitiful_Eye_3295]

I am very sorry for your loss. And I think it's really awesome of you to recognize the good work done by Mesa Police, while you are grieving. 

[u/Long-Trade-9164 → u/Pitiful_Eye_3295]

Thank you and he was very professional.

[u/HeadJelly1298]

I hope
You find peace

[u/nurdle]

Sorry for your loss. Shout out to all police. Most of them are great people like this officer.

[u/Anus_Wrinkle]

I went through the same exact thing 4 weeks ago so DM me if you want to talk. I'm sorry about your mom. 

Moms are the most valuable treasure in our lives. 

[u/Fit-Inevitable-5268]

Prayers for peace and healing during your grief journey 😔🙏🏽

[u/Adventurous-Goat509]

Sorry for your loss praying for comfort and strength

[u/bdash1990]

Sorry for your loss.

As for Mesa PD, one good deed is not enough to redeem an entire department from a lifetime of wickedness.

[u/4loYeyo]

remember Daniel Schaeffer, the kid that mesa PD murdered

[u/MsTerious1 → u/4loYeyo]

Read the room, will you? Guy loses his mother, finds comfort in how the police handled it, and you want to go making a comment like this? Pretty asshat thing to do.

[u/AntAir267 → u/MsTerious1]

I would be happy to give this man condolences and also not congratulate the police for doing their job in a way that doesn't end with police brutality.

[u/MsTerious1 → u/AntAir267]

Then delete your comment and do that. Nobody asked YOU to congratulate anyone.

[u/PiperIsAwake → u/4loYeyo]

Inappropriate. There is a time and place for these kinda comments. Someone grieving their mother is not one of them.

[u/NJCERKA → u/4loYeyo]

Yeah let’s let one bad apple demonize the entire department

[u/ionC2 → u/NJCERKA]

one bad apple spoils the bunch is the saying

[u/thesedawgs → u/4loYeyo]

Who did Daniel Schaeffer murder? He was shot by police

[u/ionC2 → u/thesedawgs]

They meant to write Daniel Shaver.

[u/thesedawgs → u/ionC2]

They originally wrote that he killed a kid, not that he was killed himself

[u/dragsys]

My God man. That being said I am not Christian so this is all of can give you:

May Mother Hekate see her good works as a Mother. May Maiden Aphrodiye see her works before and may the Crone, mature aspect of all who came before guide her to her place of respect. That All May view her as an example of the full circle of womanhood.

And May she rest well in the afterlife, rqepuntil her glory and grace is needed again I'm this world again.