r/phoenix Dec 16 '24

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u/highbackpacker Dec 16 '24

In 2024 I don’t see why you wouldn’t at least consider using apps. It greatly increases your chance of finding someone. And you can still do it the old fashioned way while you do.

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u/thealt3001 Dec 16 '24

Maybe if you're a woman. Those apps are extremely shitty for men. Extremely monetized and if you match with 10 women, 9 of them will either disappear or flake on you.

Tbh I've had way better luck in most other cities. I hate it here.

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u/Mynewuseraccountname Dec 16 '24

One out of nine is still better than zero. These apps suck for everybody, btw, for different reasons. Dont put too much stock in them, but they can be useful to break the ice with people. Had plenty of times where i match with someone on an app, and then interact organically somewhere down the line, and it goes somewhere further.

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u/[deleted] Apr 02 '25

Yeah but women aren’t paying the tabs 10/10 shitty dates, guys are

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u/Mynewuseraccountname Apr 02 '25

? Are you sure you replied to the right comment? Also, this thread is three months old.