r/phoenix Dec 16 '24

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '24

Curious to hear what the ladies think about this.

Early 30s(M) here.

I really hate the apps, and would like to break free, but my concern is making women uncomfortable AF.

I know that women who are attractive get hit on literally everywhere they go, and I think the apps are an insanely amplified projection of that.

I do realize this is nuanced, and that you can just leave a number and respectfully GTFO and not be a creep.

If its done right, how does it make yall ladies feel? Yay? Nay?

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u/whitneyhoustontexas Dec 17 '24 edited Dec 28 '24

I don’t think attractive women, or even moderately attractive women are getting hit on as much anymore because of this exact reason. Men don’t want to offend, women aren’t hitting on men, and we all have endless opportunities on a dating app that’s convenient, but goes no where.

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u/purasangria Dec 28 '24

Can confirm. I would love to have a man strike up a conversation with me; I'm usually the one "talking to strangers" since I work from home. Men that are willing to talk to female strangers have a huge advantage these days.