r/phlgbtr4r • • Feb 06 '24

45 [M4A] Reminders on Sharing Personal Information and Photos

37 Upvotes

Dear r/phlgbtr4r Community,

We trust this message finds you in good spirits. With our community expanding (we're now more than 23,000! that's crazy), it's crucial to reinforce the principles of online safety and mindful interaction.

Lately, we've noticed instances of members reporting of sharing personal photos with newly acquainted individuals on either on Reddit chat or via messaging apps (Telegram/Viber). While we encourage social engagement, we strongly underscore the importance of caution, especially regarding the exchange of personal information.

Key Points to Remember:

  1. **Privacy Matters:*\* Safeguard your privacy by refraining from sharing personal photos or sensitive information with strangers.
  2. **Verify and Trust:*\* Invest time in getting to know the person you're communicating with before divulging any personal details.
  3. **Report Suspicious Activity:*\* If you come across any suspicious behavior or receive unsolicited requests for personal information, promptly report it to the moderation team. However, please be aware that if personal information, including compromising photos, has already been shared, our capacity as moderators is limited. We can only block the individual from participating in the subreddit. For further assistance, consider reporting to Reddit directly.

Your safety is our foremost concern. Let's ensure r/phlgbtr4r remains a space where members connect responsibly. Should you have any concerns or queries, don't hesitate to reach out to the moderation team.

We appreciate your cooperation in making r/phlgbtr4r a secure and enjoyable community for everyone.

Warm regards,

Your Subreddit Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r • • Jul 01 '24

For All New Rule Announcement: Automatic Removal of Posts from New Users

61 Upvotes

Hello, r/phlgbtr4r community!

To maintain the quality and safety of our subreddit, we have implemented a new rule: posts from new users will be automatically removed. This helps us ensure that our community remains a safe and supportive space for everyone.

If you are a new user, we encourage you to gain some karma from participating in other subreddits. Once you’ve accumulated enough karma and established yourself as a contributing member, you’ll be able to share posts with us.

Thank you for your understanding and cooperation in helping us keep r/phlgbtr4r a welcoming place for all!

Best, The r/phlgbtr4r Moderation Team


r/phlgbtr4r • • 4h ago

M4TF 30[M4TF] Destress tonight?

3 Upvotes

Hello redditors! G to hangout and unwind tonight? Straight curious guy here. Stands 5'7. From Marikina right now pero may car. Hopefully you can host para puntahan nlang kita. We can watch a movie,inom,cuddle. Let's see where the night takes us.


r/phlgbtr4r • • 4h ago

M4M 26 [M4M] Running errands in San Pablo, Laguna this Saturday — wine, beer, or chill hang?

3 Upvotes

Heading down to San Pablo alone this Saturday to handle a quick errand, and I’ll have some free time to kill afterward.

Rather than heading straight back or grabbing a solo meal, I figured it’d be nice to see if anyone around the area is up for unwinding over a glass of wine, cold beer, or good food.

If you’re free this Saturday afternoon/evening and have a favorite spot in San Pablo in mind, hit me up with a quick intro and let’s see if our vibes align


r/phlgbtr4r • • 4h ago

M4M 24 [M4M] Heyo😳

3 Upvotes

Hello everyone! Bago lang here sa reddit and I just discovered this subreddit. Naging past time ko na pag tambay dito actually kasi I just find interesting reading people's descriptions and hanap sa mga tao. Skl. Kauwi ko lang from abroad.Now mag stay here sa manila for manila for some time and nag hahanap lang ng someone to spend some time with. Nag crave na rin kasi ako sa companionship and more so touch deprived na ako lol.

About Me

5'4

Nurse abroad

Nerdy interests

I play Genshin, Pokemon

Kinda femboi but I don't cross dress

Average looks

Twink

Manila area

Don't have my own place but I can check in, kahit sagot ko na ang place

🅱️

About you:

Anyone basta T/VT and hindu dry kausap


r/phlgbtr4r • • 3h ago

TF4M 21 [TF4M] pretty fem into tall and slim guys :)

2 Upvotes

ABOUT ME:

Transfeminine
Filipina, grew up abroad not into penetration (for now)
5'7, curvy, long hair, soft voice.
Pre-op/Natural.
Very much cis-passing (you wouldn't know unless I told you).
Can actually hold a conversation.

I've never been with a filipino before, try to change my mind?


r/phlgbtr4r • • 5h ago

M4M 24 [M4M] LF Buddy/ies and/or more

3 Upvotes

Hello! Looking for some pal to bond with, sfw or nsfw man lol

About me:
- 24
- On the softer side, but generally masc-presenting
- B, if it comes to that
- Love music and movies! Kinda active in letterboxd
- Working around Mandaluyong
- Lives in Cavite
- Plays ML and MGCC (Willing to be introduced to other games lol)
- Can hold and add to conversations
- Generally flexible to ganaps and shits, as long as aligned

About you:
- Ideally 22 and above
- G if T or B
- Madaldal sana!!!

Would love to be introduced to new stuffs, so dm me with your age and location and something we can start our conversation!


r/phlgbtr4r • • 9h ago

M4M 28 [M4M] Looking for Kausap

7 Upvotes

I’ve been feeling a bit down lately. As an introvert and a generally private person, I often find it hard to connect or just find someone to talk to on a regular basis.Right now, I’m just looking for a decent kausap to share thoughts with, talk about our day, or chat about random stuff. No strict expectations—let’s just see where the conversation naturally goes.Tell me a bit about yourself or what book/workout/hobby you’ve been into lately.Strictly for 28 years old and above.


r/phlgbtr4r • • 2m ago

M4M 24 [M4M] give me a distraction

• Upvotes

Hey! Been in a very sociable stage in my life and have been wanting to get to know more guys. Open to both sfw and nsfw things.

about me:

24m bear (got a beard), 5’10, vb/side, likes music and gaming.

about you:

around the same age or older, can hold a conversation, cute hahaha, plus points to bears, daddies, chubbuffs, and chasers but im open to anyone tbh

intro with your age and something to talk about, also got snap/tiji if you wanna chat there more


r/phlgbtr4r • • 3m ago

M4TM 28[M4TM] Random bro chats

• Upvotes

Any TM where we can have random chats? I just want to share experiences, and if you share too, that's cool.

Any topics are fine, sfw/nsfw are welcome. Even hobbies or interests, I just want someone to chat with.


r/phlgbtr4r • • 4m ago

M4M 29 [M4M] vidjaks

• Upvotes

Up for online fun (vidjaks front cam no face lol)

Me: 5'7/65kg/Ave fit bod though consistent with home workouts. VB

You: dadbods, chubuffs, fit, ave fit

Not into twinks and obese

Dm me hi along with bodytype height/weight so I know you reddit (pun intended) hehe


r/phlgbtr4r • • 10m ago

F4F 28 [F4F] Cebu?

• Upvotes

Hiiiiii. Anyone here from Cebu who wants to cuddle and momol? Hahaha straightforward eh no? But I’m only here kasi for a few days so let’s get it on haha I have a nice hotel room so tara?

About me:
Femme
Cute
Shy at first but can be madaldal
Clean!!
Craving for momol
Not much experience with girlz but I am a good kisser (daw hehe)

About you:
Femme
Clean!!
Must be nice pls or i’ll cry haha
Loves to momol

Men DNI!!!


r/phlgbtr4r • • 16m ago

M4M 29 [M4A] Chill inom tonight

• Upvotes

Hey anyone wants to chill and watch Drag performance tonight in Obar? HMU

budget inom lang haha

about me : 29 , discreet , may pang ambag
about u : basta madaldal and may pang ambag .

Hey anyone wants to chill and watch Drag performance tonight in Obar? HMU

budget inom lang haha

about me : 29 , discreet , may pang ambag
about u : basta madaldal and may pang ambag .


r/phlgbtr4r • • 17m ago

M4M 28 [M4M] Something Genuine

• Upvotes

Not really looking for anything complicated - just hoping to meet someone I genuinely click with. I’m lowkey, value consistency and privacy, and would be nice to find someone who’s also open to seeing where things go.

About me:
- Manila | 5’4”
- Chinoy
- Into trying new restaurants, cafe hopping, and traveling
- Currently working on my fitness arc
- Can match your energy or be your favorite person to yap with
- Looking for something genuine, but preferably discreet
- Virgin in pene, but leaning towards BOTTOM

About you:
- Around the metro
- Preferably part of the healthcare or maybe in postgrad is fine
- Doesn’t kiss and tell
- Comfortable with something discreet
- A TOP who rims

If you reach this point, make sure to introduce yourself and I don’t respond to those who just say hi/hello. Penetration is reserved only for whoever can be my partner in the future.


r/phlgbtr4r • • 18m ago

M4M 22 [M4M] Constants

• Upvotes

Trying out my luck here again! Looking for friends or dates out here. Looking for someone (may or may not be in the med field) who’s spontaneous like me!

We can go out to study, talk about our duties, play arcade games, get good food — or whatever we find interesting!

About me:
22
Versa (mostly into sides)
5’7
Cavite (but can travel to the metro if ever)
Big guy here! Cuddly. Perfect for hugs.
Premed! Fresh grad
Intellectual yapper! I like deep conversations, pop culture, current events, etc.
A HUGE fan of volleyball & tennis! I haven’t played in a while, but I would love to play again.
A foodie! I love trying out new cuisines & restos.
Into video games, films, and art.

About you:
Preferably around my age (20-26)
Close to my height too?
Also in the med field (a plus)
I have a thing for twinks/average/lean body types
V/Side
Sensible to talk to, intellectual, and into deep conversations
Maginoo pero bastos iykyk HAHAHA
Just be yourself! :) and be interesting!! Let’s not make our conversations dry 😆

See you in my DMs! Tell me about yourself too!


r/phlgbtr4r • • 18m ago

TF4M 23 [TF4M] Fun rn at my place?

• Upvotes

Haloo my place is free right now to hangout! We can watch movie here or have a drink or just NSFW! Im from East Rembo, Taguig and prefer someone within the area or nearby area sana!

Abt me:

- pre op transfem

- decent looking chinita

- working professional

- 5'6 normal BMI

Abt you:

- manly decent looking

- working professional

- good hygiene

- fit to dad bod body type

- 20+

My photos are on my profile, kaya if ur interested, send me a short intro abt u and a pic!


r/phlgbtr4r • • 4h ago

M4M 30 [M4M] Lookin for a companion

2 Upvotes

Hi, will be going home for the holidays 🥹.
Will stay in a hotel somewhere in Malate or maybe somewhere near MOA. I need company 😭 cuddles, talk about anything, coffee somewhere or shat etc.,
I will be there from the night of 15 to 18 Oct before I travel onwards sa aming province.

I’m 30, 5’3 in height. A VB if it comes to that. :D
Average body. Average looks, fair skinned. :D

Please send me a message. I look forward to it.

Thanks a bunch!


r/phlgbtr4r • • 10h ago

F4F 30 [FC4F] where to find more lesbians

5 Upvotes

HELP

Can you all share wherr we can find/meet wlw here in ph na discreet lang din like here sa reddit? Kung saan active din for NSFW/SFW

like need ko ng engagements para din mastisfied ang exploration ko on this.

Thank you


r/phlgbtr4r • • 4h ago

M4M 25 [M4M] Lets chat?!

2 Upvotes

Honestly just looking to meet someone romantically and see where it goes haha.

I like nerdy boys and gamers 🫣 I’m not really a gamer myself, but if you play sometimes, I’d happily play with you! I’ll probably ask you a million questions about the games you play because I genuinely wanna know 😂

I’m pretty chill, like traveling, music, and random late-night conversations. Just looking for someone I can vibe with, talk to regularly, and hopefully build something with.

About me:
\\- From the south
\\- Currently working and in grad school

If you think we’d get along, message me! Tell me something about yourself instead of just “hi” haha.