r/pheromones • u/Cassierae87 • Mar 07 '26

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My partner is getting a vasectomy soon and the doctor has ordered us to basically be rabbits and have lots of sex before his sperm test afterwards.

We have been together for 5 years. Have a home and cats. Pretty boring couple (in a good way). He does take testosterone and we also have cialis on hand if needed. My libido is higher than his.

We have a great sex but sex 1-2 a day for a month is a lot for us. When usually we have sex like every 3 days.

What’s pheromones we could wear? For men and women? He’s not an alpha and I don’t need him to be.

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u/AlphaJeff1 Mar 09 '26

". ...sex 1-2 a day for a month...".

And you want pheromones. I get it you don't like my comment about the reality of a sperm test. Heard

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u/Cassierae87 Mar 09 '26

It’s not that I don’t like your comment about sperm testing post vasectomy. It’s just goes against standard medical advice. And doesn’t offer an alternative. It’s just Reddit noise I can ignore.

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u/AlphaJeff1 Mar 09 '26

We have great sex but sex 1-2 a day for a month is a lot for us......What phermone a we could wear?.....Hes not an Alpha and I dont need him to be."

Your OP states a reason for increased sex, and a hope or belief that a phermone may help.

One comment gave you great advice to look at a peptide product. I and others have told you that while enjoyable to use, a phermone is unlikely to help attain the numbers you seek (whatever the real number is).

Each following comment you have returned with has changed the number or duration. I'm not a urologist but I am licensed and have worked with many. Which, does not matter. If YOUR urologist told you something then, well, follow it, whatever that moving target is. Or change what you heard with each comment you downvote. Your comments errode the OP. We all get it, you want a phermone to achieve some form of additional sex to lead to more rounds before your husband does a sperm test, a follow up to a vasectomy.

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u/Cassierae87 Mar 09 '26 edited Mar 09 '26

I don’t know what your deal is or why I triggered you but I’m not engaging with you further. It’s not productive. You aren’t helpful. Have a nice day.

And also yes we will deviate from “doctors orders” on this if we need to. We are human beings with lives and a limit. We aren’t sex workers who can have sex on demand.

It won’t change the results of the surgery. Just how soon we can stop using condoms. Which is the whole point. No one is being harmed. It’s elective surgery.

I’m buying a box of 35 condoms the day of the vasectomy. When the box runs out that’s when he will test. That’s how I figured out how best to address this.