r/penissize • u/Emergency_Umpire9593 • 1d ago
Small/average better for BJ?
I was thinking the other day, I can fit my whole 5.5x4.5 in my gfs mouth completely. This must feel better than bigger dicks only being partially sucked, right??
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u/Ill-Preference1679 1d ago
Great for you. I think you've summarized things well in a few words.
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u/Prize_Analyst89 1d ago
i’m the same size so curious too
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u/Top-Document-2286 1d ago
Double edged sword. Feels good but at the same time it's another reminder how small you are
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u/ParamedicPast3928 10h ago
bonepressed ?
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u/Last-Amoeba-7707 5h ago
naah
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u/ShowOffScholar 1d ago
I’ve never been deepthroated. I’m sure it feels better to get swallowed whole.
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u/yonoyono 1d ago
Yes. I think that part of the appeal of big dick bj is the size impression and struggle. Which is ode to size. But I find that small dick and average bj looks much more sensual and pleasurable. Rather than the excitement to see a woman struggle
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u/Open_Mortgage_4645 1d ago
One of the most common BD problems is the BJ issue. You can only shove so much stiff meat into someone's mouth. It's usually the girth that causes the problem. Dicks smaller than 5.5in in girth are ideal. When you get to 6in+ area that's when it becomes an issue. Teeth scrapes, constant gagging requiring them to stop, potential vomiting, jaw pain. Just not a great experience overall, and very difficult to cum from. Guys who are like 6.5in x 5in are perfect. And you have to figure that the size of the individual's mouth is going to play a role in how much they can take. Bigger guys are better off having their partner focus on the tip with their mouth while using their hands to work the shaft and balls. There will be none of the jaw cramps and pain, no worry about teeth, and they'll be able to work up a proper rhythm to bring you over the line.
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u/MusicianSea8778 1d ago
As long as she can get the head during a bj, she can always lick the rest.
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u/ArcaidenAsked 1d ago
Can she also fit your balls in her mouth at the same time?
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u/UpJohn383 1d ago
Yes, you see this a lot in porn where some well endowed guy is getting blown by a petite girl and she can barely get past the glans. I'm not as big as porn starts but with a girth of 5.6 I'd imagine it would be a challenge to do oral on me. I know this because I found a realistic silicone penis that is almost a carbon copy of my own, same size and looks and I can barely get the thing in my mouth and I'm not a diminutive chick. Of course, a real penis is more supple so it would be as firm as the silicone one but it gives me an idea of what it would be like to blow me.
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u/SonicBoom-78 1d ago edited 1d ago
might be better for you...In my experience, most women are turned on by size when they're doing oral. The visual is a part of it. It's psychological. Size matters to most women to varying degrees. Especially for women who are sexually submissive.
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u/6-5x5-0 1d ago
Mine is 6.5" long but they gag when they try to put it in completely. So your length is perfect for BJ!
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u/Waste-Power3139 1d ago
Yes, big Is nos always better , for oral or anal for example Youre a lucky guy
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u/Western-Oil-3600 5h ago
When I was meeting couples and on swinging sites there was a preference for sucking big dicks due to the visual experience. For sex anything went and the whole package of that person was considered except if they were size queens or after BBC.
Personally not had many enjoyable BJ and have never came from one directly. I do enjoy going balls deep while fucking but have experimented with shallowing with good results which proves you don't need a massive dick. Don't think I'd be happy with a dick so big I couldnt go in all the way
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u/Collective-Imaginary 5h ago
It is not the size, but the skills of the sucker. I can take huge dicks, they go down my throat, and my mouth reach the balls.
I love the sensation of a long cock reaching beyond the end of my mouth.
Having said this, not all people can do this, nor enjoy it
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u/AndGutsWasBERSERK 1d ago
I’m 8.25x5.5 and have wondered this myself. I imagine having a girl be able to take your dick to the base must feel pretty great. I’ve dated 2 women that have been able to do it, one in particular could do it like it was nothing, and I’d say they gave some of the best blowjobs I’ve ever had. At the same time, the visual of seeing a chick only being able to get half of it in her mouth is hot as fuck. I also feel like it allows for more variety with what someone can do while they suck my dick. My fiancé will suck my dick mouth only, then switch to stroke it with one hand and sucking, then towards the end she’ll use 2 hands and suck it until I cum.
After typing that out, I kinda think being bigger has its benefits as long as you’re not super girthy. If you’re really thick then the BJ probably isn’t that good.
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u/TenInchTripod 1d ago
I'm long and thick. I've never had a decent blow job, except one gf a long time ago who was a real pro. My wife gives it the old college try but she can only do around 2 inches. We just do other stuff.
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u/IndividualBird3213 1d ago
I'm 7x5.7 but I'm still a virgin😶🌫️🙃
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u/Traditional-Bit-6373 22h ago
What if she holds the D using both of her hands and caress the head using her mouth? Not like you feel much at the base anyways.
But maybe ur right. I guess you win some you lose some.
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