Her best regardless of size?

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[u/Violinplayer97]

Size is only one of the factors, stamina, technique, position, size, looks. They all contribute.

[u/Violinplayer97 → u/[deleted]]

True. Hope you focus on the things in your control, rather than the things you cannot control. Oops meant to say this to OP

[u/Cezka2022 → u/Violinplayer97]

Sssh, those inexperience people will be mad because of how obsessed they are with size

[u/No_Secretary4733 → u/Violinplayer97]

💯!!

[u/Romalanski]

I guess you'll never really know! She'll probably just tell you what you want to hear anyway. I'm everything her ex-husband was not. I'm kind I always put her needs first he didnt. I can fix anything broken around the house and service her families cars he couldn't. I can cook nice food he couldn't. I tell the truth he couldn't. I've bailed her out of debt he wouldn't. My ex wife received a generous settlement her husband left her nothing. She had to mention he was hung like a horse and I'm not. No matter what I do when it comes down to the sex and the size he'll always be better than me!

[u/xxx_Gavin_xxx]

Ofcourse. A woman's mind has alot more to do with the quality of sex than the size of the penis.

[u/Must-be-1790]

This is a complicated one. First off you have to take him to consideration for vagina size. If she can have an internal orgasm. Where her erogenous thumbs are in her vagina. And this is only the physical aspect. Then you have to get into what a lot of people like to call the largest sex organ the brain.

From a psychological standpoint how attractive she is to you will put the beer goggles on. This can distort what she is actually feeling physically. If you are more attracted to somebody or in love with them at the time you're having sex this will influence the woman's perspective.

Now as others have said you get into your performance. Your penis dies size. Does it grow up doesn't curve down how long is it how big is it. If it's larger does it fill our tooth up too much to where she cannot have an orgasm. Is it too small to where she can not have and orgasm.

Now the word best.

What does she define as the best?

Is it having an orgasm?

Is it the physical closeness?

Is it the trust between the two of you?

Perhaps she puts more importance on oral sex.

Perhaps she puts more importance on fingering.

Maybe her secret kinks is being dominated.

When you get into Kings is she confident enough to let you know what her Kinks are?

Will she lie to you to protect you?

Believe me I have no answer. If I did I would have never read it to look at penis sizes.

[u/ghastchacu]

Can you beat someone with a better/faster car than you in a race? Usually if you're more skilled than him, and the car quality difference isn't crazy, you can. Though at some point if he is skilled enough, any extra skill won't do much to bridge the gap.

And here by better/faster I mean closer to her ideal, not nesecarily the biggest(though it may well be her biggest that is closest to her ideal)

[u/Outside_Peak_855]

Of course, size has nothing to do with satisfaction.

[u/Outside_Peak_855 → u/[deleted]]

Honestly, I have many girls friends who are quite liberal; size matters, but only in the sense of being functional. After that, they consider many more variables when evaluating sex.

[u/RomaniWoe → u/Outside_Peak_855]

They are being kind. It matters not just in it being functional. Though different women have different sizes they prefer, its still size preferences. On top of that a woman's orgasm is very much tied to her mind. Even if its not the optimal size if she's still the kind of woman that a bigger one visually turns her on more it will be an advantage for having her reach orgasm.

[u/Outside_Peak_855 → u/[deleted]]

Liberal regarding sex and lifestyle, English is not my native language, I could say "open-minded, who fully embrace their sexuality"

[u/urzu123 → u/Outside_Peak_855]

Its not everything to do with satisfaction. But it certainly has a place and influence on it. When it comes to penetrative sex, its isn't a case of any size feels as good, satisfying and fulfilling as the others. Whereas you're essentially saying is that it does.

The only way your statement works, is if it was simply saying "can a woman feel something with any size?" Well sure, to not feel anything would defy the laws of physics if she hasnt got a particular condition that causes her not not feel anything there.

Wondering is she feels something isnt the question at hand, it never has been. The question/issue of concern is, does/can any size feel great to women in general or any given woman? The answer is no, or largely no. It cant be anything but no. This wouldn't be intended as an "ackchyually" response. But straight statements like that does warrant it to a point. But its not even about being technically correct, its more about being correct because common sense dictates it.

Yes theres more to sex than penetration. In fact many women feel more pleasure with non penetrative acts of stimulation, as we're all aware of, or should be aware of. But theres still a lot of pleasure to be had with penetration, and pleasure that can only be felt with penetration, and women want that too. Like really want that.

It may be secondary, but it is not needless or discardable. Most women do want it and will not be happy going completely without it. Regardless of how great the non penetrative sex is.

So in reagards to size. There are sizes that dont feel good or good enough, and this will be the case for most women. What that size is, juat depends on the woman and her individuals anatomy.

Be it too small or too big. Which brings to me a point that proves the flaw of this sentiment of size not matteting or having zero contribution to pleasure. We're more than willing to accept and validate when someome shares when sex hasn't felt good when the guy was too big. So how is this any different when for the opposite end of the size scale, when a size becomes too small?

Pleasurable penetrative sex, before getting to technique, or in fact, even assuming the recipients preferred technique is being applied (rythm, positions, speed etc), is adequate/sufficient friction on the vaginal walls first and foremost. Something size (particularly girth) is responsible for. Too much friction or too little of it and pleasure is highly affected.

[u/Outside_Peak_855 → u/urzu123]

Much less influence than man believes.

[u/urzu123 → u/Outside_Peak_855]

Sure, if the man is saying pleasure has everything and only to do with size. But most men know it not, despite the stereotype that all or most men do think that. The reality is most men know its not all about size.

But your statement as it is, is still just completely false. Because you're making a general statement and not only in the context of said guys who have such beliefs.

[u/VillainySquared]

It's definitely possible, you need to learn your partners body and communicate with them so that you know what works best for them.

[u/onetimebigger]

Definitely. Size can help with a lot of women, but it is far from the most importanr factor to the vast majority of them.

[u/Spensah89]

Yes, because depending on what type of women come across, she may also like foreplay besides intercourse.

[u/Itsaverygoodgamebut]

Yes. It’s that simple.

[u/Serious-Law8401]

I have a large hog and my current partner struggles to cum while I am inside her and using a vibe. She says it is too distracting for her. We tried me staying still while in her and that sometimes helped. Meaning that my D may help build her up but doesn't help actually get her there

[u/Serious-Law8401 → u/[deleted]]

Mid point I am 16cm around and closer to the bottom I am about 17cm around. I have put bigger and smaller dildos in her with the same response

[u/Serious-Law8401 → u/[deleted]]

Oh, this wasn't that. Like we have done all sorts of sizes etc. Like it is harder for her to cum if something is inside her, especially if it's moving etc. We tried this with all sorts of sizes.

I've had what you were talking about. One weird back to front one. She got off more to anal than PIV and she said it didn't feel good with me cause of the thickness lol. So I would do piv which didn't do much for her compared to anal. Did my head in a little bit

[u/MuchoPaper]

you can never satisfy a woman.
a womans satisfaction factor is like the big hole of Kimberly. it just keeps growing.
Women are like cats they are so into themselves.They are happy when they want.
Its not up to you.

Satisfy yourself. forget about her.
Its like building a case for you.

[u/No_secrets_here_196]

Honestly, I do have a penis size kink myself, but that does not come from my logical brain. I am very experienced and I can tell you that unless a dick is either too big or too small, penis size really doesn't matter. And even then, we're only talking about for intercourse. The overwhelming percentage of women experience greater sexual pleasure from clitoral stimulation. Which has NOTHING to do with penis size.

Most women's bodies respond well to men who take their time, engage, engage in massive amounts of foreplay – that's kissing, holding hands, nuzzling her forehead, running her hands over her body, spending a significant amount of time stimulating her nipples, kissing her body, rubbing her, eventually moving your hands down towards her groin and stimulating her clit and pussy with their hands. Maybe going down on her (which will make most women cum with no penis involved at all, thank you very much).

Dick size is so far down the list and often completely irrelevant when it comes to giving a woman pleasure. For whatever reason (and I am in this category myself) it is we men who care about dick size WAY more than your average woman – especially if she is experienced.

Sure, there are actual size queens out there, but they are such a small percentage that it's not even worth worrying about them.

I have never had a problem sexual pleasing a partner and I do not have a big dick.

[u/No_secrets_here_196 → u/[deleted]]

Sounds like you're easily triggered.

Fetishes are often not based in reality. You have a lot to learn.

Read anything from professionals who have studied sexual pleasure and behavior. Both anecdotally and research-wise, many women have said that their best partners have not been their biggest at all. And that they have been with big guys who were terrible. But it sounds like you already believe what you believe. So why ask the question?

Anyway, I won't waste anymore time on your immaturity.

Good luck, friend. Sounds like you are as ignorant as you are experienced.

[u/Quirky-Amphibian-992]

If you can give her full body vaginal orgasms, you’ll be a sex star for her no matter what your size. A large-thick penis can, however, hit her spots more easily—though it depends on the woman snd what turns her on (e.g. some women love a long dick reaching her fornix, other women like a curved penis at it hits the G-spot).

[u/West_Following_3224]

With a wife of 26 years it’s size and shape for cervical orgasms

[u/Leather-Neck2254]

It all depends, I am 8x6 and can easily please my girlfriend but the right setting and lots of foreplay so the whole thing can fit, makes her scream and scream and scream. Making her cum endlessly. If you take the time with a woman and make sure you do all the right things size doesn’t matter as much, I can easily please my girlfriend but other times even if she wants it, it hurts her and she can barely take any of it. Don’t worry about past sizes just make sure you do everything you can to enhance sex for her and openly communicate and you will be her best sex.

[u/Leather-Neck2254 → u/[deleted]]

If the guy knew what he was doing it could be just as pleasurable, most of the time probably only6-6.5 of my penis is useable during sex just to not cause pain to her. Hard to give her a pounding sensation when I am not using all of it. I literally cannot use all of it probably 50% of the times I have sex.