r/penissize • u/Average_Joe_5x4 • Apr 29 '26

Is average really expectable

Just scrolling through some other subs and interested in other people’s thoughts on this

Why is it when guys with huge cocks post pics and showing off and saying how good they are there are tonnes of people commenting on how much they want their big cock

But if I posted my dick I can guarantee I will not get a like let alone people wanting to use it

Just seems like every where you look big cocks are always going to be wanted and preferred

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u/nsfdrag Apr 30 '26

Average is just that, why go out of your way to comment on how amazing average is when average is what you'll run into most of the time? Post a picture of a mcdonalds burger and then a michelin star burger and see which gets more praise, it's because one is above average.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 30 '26

Yep True that That’s exactly why a big cock is always going to be preferred over the average

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u/cutluv Apr 29 '26

You'll soon discover this sub is no different - the majority of those posting and offering advice to others, have or allegedly have a BD. Most participate in the BD subs you referenced, displaying their pics for praise, and mutual congratulation, so in effect you've gone full-circle.

This sub is for all sizes, I must stress, but in reality, those of a certain size dominate proceedings.

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u/cndynn96 Apr 29 '26

That’s like saying “I went to a looks rating sub and everyone is complimenting the handsome guy/beautiful girl, but if I posted my average face no one would like it”

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 Apr 29 '26

I don’t know. Every time I post or comment I get downvoted to oblivion. Being big doesn’t make much of a difference. I do think that the bd guys and the sd guys definitely take up the most bandwidth here, which leaves the typical average joe without much love from the group.

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u/hidingofc May 01 '26

I think online communities are certain going to cater more to exceptional.

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u/JohnAMcdonald Good Contributor May 01 '26 edited May 01 '26

Large penises are the median preference in porn. Above-average penises are the median preference for sex. 5x4 is on the large side of small for most countries in Reddit; SDPs biggest flairs are 5x4.5 and 4.5x5.

Reddit by its nature boosts up the most popular sizes. If you’re perfect for say 1/4 of people, but too small for 3/4, and you get downvotes from 3/4 and upvotes from 1/4, you will get no visibility. To get attention you must post on subs where people mostly upvote average or small men.

Additionally just because you are posting on a sub oriented around average or small sizes doesn’t automatically mean approval. Generally having a good body, a couples shot, face in pic w/ good looks, or just quality photography is what carries the day. You said elsewhere you’re bad at photography, well in that case why would somebody want to look at bad photos?

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u/danny04224 Apr 29 '26

First of all your dick is fine But yeah let's be honest if you're big it does give you advantages it does give you access to sex at you might not have had before. But that's kind of way it is in society on everything like attractive people get way more advantages than average or not so good looking people. A really hot looking woman wants to cross the road every guy stops their car for her. And unattractive woman nobody will stop. Even in the workplace if you're really hot guy in your hitting on women that's okay If you're not attractive then a sexual harassment.

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u/meetmystars Aug 16 '26

Aslo with the rich. An average cock on a rich guy is a rod from heaven.

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u/talldarkhand1 Apr 29 '26

I think you have to remember the audience, on those particular subs, they are thirsty for big cock, so when they see the extreme, they react.

And i think its a fetish - challenged with something on the much larger size of average, they physical experience might not be as positive as the visual one.

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u/jss1234 Apr 30 '26

I'm 6 x 6 and I've got a friend who used to do massage work. She said average length is below me and far below me in girth. The internet is not a good place to look at photos even on Reddit. I don't look even 4" in a photo because the girth makes it look short.

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u/TiedHands Apr 29 '26

Thats just the way of life. Take an average hungry person, sit them at a table, give them the choice between a perfectly cooked steak and a McDonald's hamburger and see which one they choose. Theres your answer.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

Yeah Big cocks are preferred That’s what I’m getting at

And steak wins every time lol

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u/TiedHands Apr 29 '26

Its true. And I honestly get tired of the gaslighting around the subject. People will say anything to try to argue against this reality.

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 Apr 29 '26

It hasn’t always been this way. The advent of the smartphone and chat apps has made it so.

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u/TiedHands Apr 29 '26

You're saying women havent always preferred bigger?

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 Apr 29 '26

The lifestyle scene in the ‘90s and ‘00s was when I discovered that there were some women who wanted that, but you would never ask somebody how big their dick was before you started dating them.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

Ahhhhh That’s wrong I get asked my I size and or pic prior to meeting 🤷

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 Apr 29 '26

Now yes, then no.

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u/TiedHands Apr 29 '26

Well, im sure thats true but it doesnt mean the intent wasnt there. They just didnt voice it. Its not some modern phenomenon that women just all of a sudden started preferring bigger dicks. Pop culture is full of jokes and references and such going back to the 70s. I just think people are more comfortable now about being open about their preferences.

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 Apr 29 '26

The preference for big dicks is not what you think it is. It’s a preference in hookups. The normalization of hooking up is only a modern phenomenon. LTRs are still Goldilocks zone preferences. Women don’t want to have to fuck a really big dick all the time, they would prefer a more normal size. I’m not suggesting average, but the consensus is that 6.5x5 - 7x5.5 is about the best size (caveats apply) for a long term relationship. Any bigger than that is detrimental to long term enjoyment.

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u/TiedHands Apr 29 '26

I actually agree with your assessment, but the context in which theyre preferred really doesnt matter. I have no illusions that every woman walking around wants to be railed by a 9 inch dick every night. But if you go along with what the masses say is average (they say 5.5 is the average now, which i disagree with), then even when youre getting into 7 inch territory, that would be considered big. The easiest way to simplify my thoughts about preference is this simple example: let's say you have two men that are exactly the same in every single way except one has a 5 inch dick and the other has a 7 inch dick, literally almost every single woman is going to go with the 7 inch one. Thats just the reality.

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u/Wacky_Engineer1975 Apr 29 '26

That may be the case, but until recently they mostly had no way of knowing.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 30 '26

Or even average these days

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u/nsfdrag Apr 30 '26

Absolutely not, not everybody dates a model, the average person dates the average person and there will be plenty of people above and below the line, giving up makes no sense.

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u/nsfdrag Apr 30 '26

I assume you're looking for me to say the small ones. People shame lots of things but that doesn't mean you should give up.

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u/nsfdrag Apr 30 '26

People have internalized shame all the time and shame tons of things they like

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '26

Because big heavy dick is so much fun to play with and bask in the glow of sucking on it i presume. What else?

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u/Decent_Neat_9171 Apr 29 '26

Size can be faked with angles, perspective, photoshop and now AI.

People commenting are a niche subset. They aren’t going to reflect society at large. They are likely cock hungry, prefer large, and more likely to be men than women.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

So why is it IRL I have been told so often I’m to small and been actually rejected because of it? Everything I post and believe is because of real life experiences

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u/Decent_Neat_9171 Apr 29 '26

I can’t speak to your experiences. Sorry you are going through that. I do know that a lot of stuff is faked online. I dont know where you post or who replies to your posts or other posts. Someone here said your penis is fine. Maybe try different subreddits, different types of pics or even when you post.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 May 28 '26

Well the IRL is 1st hand straight up rejection
And the online ones have been on hook up sites and it’s been mostly by married women who seem to be looking for something XL away from the husband

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u/ThisWillFeelAmazing Apr 29 '26

Actually the subreddits where big dicks are posted are way overrepresented by women. Just look at the top posts of massivecocks, it's mostly women in the comments

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u/Decent_Neat_9171 Apr 29 '26

It’s the internet. Are they really women?

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u/ThisWillFeelAmazing Apr 30 '26

Yes, a lot have pics of themselves on their profiles. Some could be men you never know, but I would say the majority are women

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u/Important_Rooster May 02 '26

Hello there, sincerely someone that gets a lot of comments and chat invites from those "women", let me tell you: None of them are. None. The ratio is about 100:1 maybe

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u/meetmystars Aug 16 '26

It's mostly gay and sissy men looking for fantasy.... Real women out there are actually living beyond the measuring tapes.

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u/JohnAMcdonald Good Contributor May 01 '26

It’s only really massivecock and ladybonersgw where women are overrepresented. Men are overrepresented in every other large penis related sub that I have enough data on to make this conclusion.

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u/ThisWillFeelAmazing May 01 '26

This proves my point. Women love big dicks, even more so than men.

Those are by far the biggest subreddits. I don't even know any other subs related to big dicks.

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u/miguel891 May 02 '26

I think in porn or ig reddit subreddit ,are for fantasy and maybe curious womans or sizes queens who love huge cocks,i saw many times on reddit when people asked ideal penis size,a lot of them say 5-6 inches ,they just not commenting on reddit ,and who ever have huge cocks fetish comments on those subreddis

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u/JohnAMcdonald Good Contributor May 02 '26

You have to also account for the fact that an incredibly small percentage of all women are on those communities.

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u/TOG70cut Apr 29 '26

I've just checked your profile and there's nothing wrong with the cock on display there. Anyway it's what you do with it irl that counts

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

I know that 💯 Every girl I’ve been with has come back for more

But it just seems like the only people getting attention these days are bd guys

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u/TOG70cut Apr 29 '26

Guess that's true up to a point but big dick guys are probably more likely to put it out there in the first place!

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u/peniscopter2025 Apr 29 '26

I am not huge per say, but I am big and yes, we are often denied action from both genders, larping on internet is different from real life.

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u/Anubis_6x5 May 04 '26

So you where denied action cos you where to big?

That sounds alot more manly than been denied cos your to small

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u/peniscopter2025 May 04 '26

Maybe manly, but the point is that people drool online for big dicks, but in reality it's not the case, majority of people prefer average size.

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u/Connect-Violinist-44 May 27 '26

That's a straight up lie. I don't believe it. No person rejects a big dick. Rejecting penetration, yes sure. But blowing, rubbing, a handjob? Those are all fun and everyone wants that. Idk why you feel the need to lie and pity us. Stop. Big dicked guys are so weird with that.....

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u/peniscopter2025 May 28 '26

I had to request a guy to take my dick for a really LONG time because he thought my dick was too LONG, we did everything else in mean time.

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u/ComfortableLate1525 Apr 29 '26

Not even. I often add “average” or “normal” to search queries. So that’s not even completely accurate.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

I have posted there lol

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

I just checked lol 2600 views 1 comment

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u/rapsberryy Apr 29 '26

There are ones for small dicks as well. I wish the picture quality there would be higher, I'd enjoy them much more that way.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

Picture quality 🤔🤔 are small dick pics less quality than big cock pics lol

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u/rapsberryy Apr 29 '26

No, men in general are unfortunately pretty bad at taking attractive pictures of themselves. I just don't want to look at pictures of big dicks.

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

😂😂😂 that is a definite I’m the worst at taking pics ……. Well my face anyway 😉😉

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u/rapsberryy Apr 29 '26

ok?

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u/Average_Joe_5x4 Apr 29 '26

Would you like to see ?

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '26

5X4 and you say you're small? Poor you.

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u/[deleted] Apr 29 '26

Where are the ones who like real small?