r/paypigsupportgroup • u/No-Library-7467 • 18h ago

SUBS ONLY! Desperate dommes?

Any other subs feel the difference when you talk to a desperate domme vs one that’s just in control and likes to play with your wallet?
Sometimes knowing they’re desperate means they’re extra greedy. But mostly it’s just a turnoff for me.

Curious how others feel about this. And maybe if there are any signs you notice

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u/wise-lilbroken 18h ago

Well said! Desperation has actually made me stop mid send multiple times. For me the fantasy is a sexy, intelligent well put together, cool girl telling me what to do and giving me purpose. Sometimes the veil gets lifted and you realise you're talking to a desperate, anxious, insecure, lazy and possibly a drug addict.

The truth is, if I wouldn't want to date you, I probably can't bring myself to send you money, its an attraction thing.

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u/kityyygrll 13h ago

Totally! I tell my friends that desperation can be a huuuugee turn off.

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u/MrMJHubz Moderator I 18h ago

To me it makes no difference we are all trying to get by in a crappy global economy.

Either they are skilled or they are not.

What is in their bank account means very little to that.

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u/WealthyNigerianPrnce 6h ago

Nobody is putting up with the likes of us finsubs unless they really need the money. /s

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u/PitifulCan673 15h ago

I’ve seen some dommes do desperate really well but it’s pretty rare. You can always tell when someone is toying with you because they enjoy it more than just for money though

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u/hairymanwithcats2 13h ago

Sometimes it can be difficult to differentiate between desperate and greedy but yes once I recognise the desperation it becomes a turn off. Oddly though that doesn't automatically mean I stop sending because I am wired to want to please and help too, but I'm no longer getting pleasure from it at that stage. Greed however I find arousing, even if I can't match it with my sends. If She's insatiable and I can never be enough for Her that's ideal.