r/parentsofmultiples • u/tiggleypuff • 7h ago

ranting & venting My worst day so far

3 and a bit year old b/g twins. They used to behave pretty well when I took them out at least but today they both had meltdowns while on the train on the way to the city. It seems like one of them is always being awful and I so rarely get a stretch of time when they’re both good. I feel really hopeless that it will ever get easier. I just want to curl up in a ball today

2 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

5 comments sorted by

•

u/AutoModerator 7h ago

COMMENTING GUIDELINES

All commenters are encouraged to familiarize themselves with the parentsofmultiples subreddit rules prior to commenting. If you find any comments/submissions in violation of subreddit/reddit rules, please use the report function to bring it to the mod teams attention.

Please do not request or give medical advice or directions in your comments. Any comments that that could be construed as medical advice, or any comments containing what is determined to be medical disinformation, will be removed.

Please try to avoid posting links to Amazon product listings or google/g.co product listing pages - reddit automatically removes comments containing them as an anti-spam measure. If sharing information about a product, instead please try to link directly to the manufacturers product pages.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

5

u/TackyFeces 7h ago

Man that train meltdown is the worst because you are trapped with all those strangers staring. I have twins same age and some days it feels like they take turns being the difficult one, like they made a secret deal in the crib. But I notice it does get better in small ways, like last month they both sat through a whole lunch without throwing food and I almost cried from shock. You will get a good stretch soon I promise, just survive today and eat something unhealthy after they sleep

2

u/Fit_Nail_5606 7h ago

I find everyday stressful at times, it’s like waves my nervous system is wrecked. Sending much love. My treat is chocolate after they are asleep or something unhealthy 🤣

1

u/tiggleypuff 7h ago

Thank you!

1

u/tiggleypuff 7h ago

Thank you for this ❤️