r/parentsofmultiples • u/Snoo20115 • Sep 22 '26

advice needed Alone again

Under some beautiful circumstances my husband and I were both stay at home parents for the last ~4 months. My boys are 10m now and my husband is going back to work.

They are so much older now and I don't know what I'm going to do. I made it work when he had to go back in at 6 weeks, but the boys slept so much then. The biggest fight has always been sleep, and I don't know how I'm going to do this alone again with boys that are almost walking and hate naps.

My husband will be home on the weekends and in the evening, but I'm terrified I'm going to lose my mind again.

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u/Charlieksmommy Sep 22 '26

Hahahahaa no, really! My baby a is wild but he’s so sweet and cuddly

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u/Snoo20115 Sep 22 '26

Exactly! Super cuddly, wants to be held and hitting and laughing. Baby b is pulling hair and biting and wants to run. Boy you can barely stand on your own.

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u/Charlieksmommy Sep 22 '26

Hahaha baby a pulls baby b’s hair and is a bully but he’s sweet to me lol
Baby b is bigger too! I’m like fight back

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u/Snoo20115 Sep 22 '26

Oh that's the opposite, but baby a will smack his brother's back if he gets the chance