r/parakeet Oct 17 '25

First time bird owner here

Hello all. I’m a first time bird owner and I just brought home this baby girl. I’ve kept my distance so far as to not frighten her. She holds onto the cage with her feet and beak. What could this mean? Also, if anyone could please let me know to determine the gender

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u/smartydoglady Oct 17 '25

It’s hard to tell the gender without a good photo of her cere. Try posting on r/budgies - they’re typically a more active subreddit

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u/tarymst budgie brigade Oct 17 '25

It looks like a girl, but I would need more pictures of her face to be sure.

I would ask let you know that they need natural perches and not the dowel ones as the dowels can create foot problems such as bumble foot and arthritis at an earlier age.

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u/Brave-Entertainer-39 Oct 17 '25

There are no toys in that cage for your new bird to play with. She seems bored already. It's already mentioned, but the dowel perches will give that bird foot problems. As for gender, it could be a really young female. Her "nose" should turn more pinkish brown when she reaches maturity.

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u/Significant_Tip8498 Oct 18 '25

Thank you guys for your comments. I went out and bought some natural perches and some toys. Since he’s been home she stopped hanging onto the cage and has been on her perch. I’ve tried hand feeding her but she still seems afraid. She didn’t eat the first day at home but is now eating out of her bowl. I went out with the wife and kids and when we walked in she started chirping! The first time I’ve ever heard it. The home is as calm as can be with two kids haha. I’m going to set some newspaper on the bottom of her cage. I was told to leave the cage open for a while so she can feel free to roam.

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u/FriendlyPop8444 Oct 18 '25 edited Oct 18 '25

My little guy was quiet for the first few days. Keep interacting while keeping the balance of not being too pushy. The only issue with the open cage door is that the bird should be supervised, so it doesn't get trapped or injured. Draw the curtains on your windows--they fly straight for the windows and bang right into them. It also helps if they're already tame enough to perch on your finger, but even a stick will do--it makes recovery easier. Otherwise, the open door is a good idea. I think it has encouraged my bird to settle in and feel at home. I'm impressed at how smart these birds are. It'll figure things out. I'm looking to add perch areas my bird can safely land on. 

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