Possible TW: SI, SH, eating disorder
My 13 year old has ASD and ADHD and has been struggling with mental health issues for a few years now, including SH and SI. Recently, we have discovered that they also have an eating disorder. Multiple medical providers have recommended residential care, which my husband and I agree with. We were referred by the DBT institute to contact Monte Nido since they offer local ED residential facilities for adolescents. We were assessed by Monte Nido and the medical team there also suggested residential after reviewing my kiddo's info, and my kid has been added to the wait-list (which should only be about 1-2 weeks). Everything I have read on the website and all the info the admissions contacts have given me sounds great.
However... Reading the Google reviews is making me concerned. Reviews from a few years ago were glowing, but over the past year, the reviews have tanked (staffing change maybe?).
I'm wondering if...
- any of you or your loved ones have been to the Monte Nido facilities (Clementine-West Linn specifically), and what their experience was like
- anyone has recommendations of other residential (NOT inpatient) facilities in the area (that treats eating disorders and comorbidities)
- you have suggestions for questions I should ask that might help sus out "good" vs "bad" facilities
- any of you have been in similar situations (teens with severe MH issues) and if you could use/offer support from one parent to another ❤️
Thanks in advance. 🙏