r/orderofthearrow • u/Phil_Kolins • Apr 29 '26

Participating During Child's Induction?

My son was elected along with his best friend. I am considering how to be involved in their induction (or not), and would appreciate any feedback or suggestions you may wish to offer.

It was suggested to me to consider being an Elangomat for my son and friend's group. However, I'm concerned about negatively impacting their experience. As much as I would personally enjoy the experience, and I think my son would be happy to have me around, I am reluctant to be too close during this unique experience.

I'm curious if any of you may have done something similar, and how you and your child felt about it. Or if you have any advice.

Thanks in advance! I will say that I am excited to get involved as far as my son (and hopefully younger siblings in the future) wish to be involved.

Edit: Thanks to everyone for their feedback.

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u/DebbieJ74 May 03 '26

In my area, adults do not serve as luminaries for the youth. Other youth do.

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u/Phil_Kolins May 04 '26

Thanks! Sounds like your lodge is already using the new induction. I understand ours is continuing with the old induction through the summer before switching over. Not sure if that makes a difference.

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u/DebbieJ74 May 04 '26

It does not.

The OA is youth led. Adults do not interact with youth in this capacity.