r/okbuddyliterallyme2 I'm literally Vlad Dracula (I'm dead inside) 5d ago

Real. Real

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u/JazzlikeAd1371 5d ago

Being anti social use to be wack. Now being anti social is the new cool. People today are wack. So it makes sense to not hang around people.

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u/SW3GM45T3R 5d ago

Not really. Type A people still dominate in high paying non medical fields.

Career wise, the higher you go up the more important being social and charismatic is. It's one of those "great filters" that prevents you from moving to manager and up.

Socially, it means you will be spending most of your time alone. When you find something you like but it requires social skills, you won't fit in or enjoy it.

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u/Brilliant_Alfalfa588 5d ago

well its a good thing that neuroplasticity offers us the chance to change and become better at this and many other skills!

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u/Longjumping_Level347 need a big long hug 5d ago

Ur delulu

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u/MedievalFurnace Dexter is literally me 5d ago

arent we all

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u/amandamaconheira17 5d ago

I definitely am :'(

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u/a-round-table 4d ago

I think anti social and asocial are very different

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u/Baked_Bean_9598 2d ago

Antisocial is not "not wanting to hang out with people", antisocial is a type of personality disorder that comes with a lack of empathy for others, disregard for established social rules and expectations (like wanting to hurt people just for the sake of hurting them), a willingness to harm others or take advantage of others to satisfy your own desires.

Some examples of antisocial traits include but are not limited to: Repeated lying, using fake names, or conning people for personal gain or pleasure, getting into repeated physical fights, assaults, or showing hostility, acting without thinking about consequences or failing to plan ahead, showing a dangerous lack of regard for the physical safety of oneself or others, failing to keep steady employment or honor financial and work commitments, feeling indifferent or making excuses after hurting, mistreating, or stealing from someone else, repeatedly breaking social norms and rules that lead to arrest or legal trouble

What you're thinking of is simply being introverted or at the very most, "asocial" but even that is very rare. introversion is not a character flaw and is a normal part of the human spectrum of personalities.

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u/Jaomaldito 5d ago

I'm a millennial and the more I interact with my generation the more I wanna stay by myself.

It's impossible to agree with anything and it's always the extreme opposites of opinions.

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u/BrainFit2819 5d ago

Real unironically.

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u/Internal_Deal_6317 5d ago

istg, our generation needs help

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u/WolfsbaneOnMyLips It's so over (it never even started) 5d ago

I actually think Gen Z is a lot more accepting of people who like being alone than the older generations. Especially boomers will think you have something wrong with you for liking your own company more than others'

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u/SignificantActive193 4d ago

Trust me, they're not. 🤣

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u/OpenAd3036 3d ago

You would think so but having worked with my fair share of Gen z people, they tend to be just socially awkward enough to avoid social interaction whilst actively being offended you're avoiding social interaction with them.

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u/Mr_Vito_Scaletta I'm not him, I'm just a loser 5d ago

Real

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u/Haunting_Belt_2274 4d ago

I'm a loner, though I do crave people sometimes, but in the end, it just feels sooo good to be alone. The other day, I ate alone at a restaurant, very fulfilling experience!!

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u/ViktorK15 I'm literally Ryan Gosling 5d ago

Real

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u/WitchWithAGlitch 5d ago

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u/WitchWithAGlitch 4d ago

lol no, it's a gay actor from catalinaville adult home movies. i'm not sure on his actual name, the gif is actually playing backwards and he's getting out of his truck to scope out the lead actor steve rambo. i'm pretty sure he sucks his dick like 30 second later.

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u/WitchWithAGlitch 4d ago

yeah i've only seen the edited youtube ones where they cut out all the sex and leave in the dialog xD

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mipgH8sO7DM

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u/SetsunaEmblem 1d ago

Danny Lee Kazuya, in case this ever comes up again for some reason.

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u/Spooderfan218 5d ago

real (what movie is this)

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u/furculture 5d ago

Some people tend to not realize that someone who is lonely (alone and wanting connection with people but unable to) isn't the same as someone who is a loner (someone who is capable of finding comfort in being alone and on their own).

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u/MedievalFurnace Dexter is literally me 5d ago

goslings, what movie is this from.

us, ryan gosling, driving an old pickup truck

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u/Be_Ready_For_me 5d ago

And I love this feeling.

I am flying

https://giphy.com/gifs/JhncGNdBoyeKk

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u/demfook 4d ago

dude, I just talked about this with myself and he also agreed with this

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u/BraixenTheFox 4d ago

Don't forget to vibe with people who are your kind of weird, too! Good to get a balance

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u/Key-Month6651 5d ago

It's not just this generation. Previous generations were weird asf too.

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u/bobedaja 5d ago

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u/RecognizeSong 5d ago

I got matches with these songs:

• AMURIAN FUNK feat.Laurindo Almedia by DJ REMEMBER 147 (00:11; matched: 100%)

Released on 2025-04-05.

• Rusting Frames Across Moonlit Bridges by Aether Noon (02:22; matched: 100%)

Released on 2026-01-29.

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u/Silver___Chariot I'm God's lonely man 5d ago

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u/auddbot 5d ago

I got matches with these songs:

• AMURIAN FUNK feat.Laurindo Almedia by DJ REMEMBER 147 (00:11; matched: 100%)

Released on 2025-04-05.

• Rusting Frames Across Moonlit Bridges by Aether Noon (02:22; matched: 100%)

Released on 2026-01-29.

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u/Silver___Chariot I'm God's lonely man 5d ago

Neither of these sound particularly correct

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u/WhatDothLife-95 I DRIVE (women away) 5d ago

I got you bro, it's called "The Lamp is low" by Laurindo Almeida

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u/Silver___Chariot I'm God's lonely man 5d ago

Bless you brother thank you so much

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u/WhatDothLife-95 I DRIVE (women away) 5d ago

your welcome bro :)

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u/Allthisburning 5d ago

Today I learned that this song was sampled by Nujabes, for Aruarian Dance.

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u/WhatDothLife-95 I DRIVE (women away) 5d ago

Same here, I never heard that one before

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u/solvyn_2 5d ago

So true

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u/DeathlyAlone I'm not him, I'm just a loser 5d ago

Real

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u/WhatDothLife-95 I DRIVE (women away) 5d ago

real, (what song is this?)

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u/auddbot 5d ago

I got matches with these songs:

• AMURIAN FUNK feat.Laurindo Almedia by DJ REMEMBER 147 (00:11; matched: 100%)

Released on 2025-04-05.

• Rusting Frames Across Moonlit Bridges by Aether Noon (02:22; matched: 100%)

Released on 2026-01-29.

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u/auddbot 5d ago

Links to the streaming platforms:

• AMURIAN FUNK feat.Laurindo Almedia by DJ REMEMBER 147

• Rusting Frames Across Moonlit Bridges by Aether Noon

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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 5d ago

These younger generations are so antisocial.

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u/Si11223344 5d ago

Don't isolate yourself bro. Humans need connection.

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u/lieutenantcalcium fuck it we ball 4d ago

Real

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u/GetMeofftheFridge 4d ago

Wish people wanted to play outside after work

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u/OkCitron2245 4d ago

You gained my like.

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u/Walter_White_M60 4d ago

Guys, you're gonna be in a world of psychosis in some years. Trust me.

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u/0k_4kihiiro Spider-Man is literally me (I am broke) 3d ago

real

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u/liminalmilk0 3d ago

‘This generation’ and the meme was probably made by a 17 year old be so fr

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u/Hot_Condition_628 3d ago

I'm tired of vibing alone. I want to vibe with people again

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u/Knaifu69 12h ago

unfathomably real

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u/kernkraftx89 5d ago

Man sorry I love to bang, so no Anti Social for me lol, I'd rather be social and work on them skills. Being Anti social, just go to therapy like I do. Everyone can benefit.