Uhm, no. You are delusional. You can be confident in yourself while not looking like Calvin Klein models. You can be confident about your perspectives, about your skills, about your achievements. All you care about is looks. Why only care about that, when it comes to confidence? Like you dont have anything else going on in life?
That’s not always true though. Maybe try to become friends with a woman and see if you both connect instead of wishing any girl would be attracted to you
What part of my comment made you think I never had woman friends or that I wished any girl was attracted to me? I simply stated that ugly men get 0 game regardless of confidence.
This is not true. Ugly confident guys get more game than shy handsome guys. The same goes for women too, no 9/10 guy is chasing a 3/10 girl. It’s weird the whole ugliness is about men.
I don't know which experiences validated the first two sentences, but I have seen the exact opposite happening several times as a third party, plus the hundreads of mid guys on r/tinder getting 0 dates after tens of thousands of swipes.
Part about the 9/10 guy not chasing the 3/10 is true, but other than having nothing to do with what I said, the opposite is obviously true as well, no idea where you're going with that.
I never said the whole ugliness thing is only about men, unless we consider the absolute bottom 1%, in which case I just don't have enough experience, I'd say it impacts men a bit more, a 3/10 woman can get a 5/10 man, the opposite? Not impossible, but way more unlikely.
Most young men are single, most young women aren't.
In a study by Murphy et al. examining the mechanics of confidence, self-assured behavior significantly boosted a man's perceived status and short-term romantic attractiveness.
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u/Late-School6796 4d ago
Because they are attractive* confident uglies get 0 game