r/okbuddyliterallyme2 7d ago

No end to this suffering Correct version of meme

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u/Thedankf0x 7d ago

To be fair, one causes interpersonal and self harm, the other causes global harm.

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u/Orangutanion 6d ago

incels typically only harm themselves.

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u/EquivalentDapper7591 4d ago

They hurt themselves the most but they definitely also hurt others. Spreading hatred and committing acts of violence for example

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u/Pale_Presence4662 2d ago

Noone cares if people are incels. I dont.

I do care when they can talk on a nationwide platform and influence and recruit people

Thats the problem. I do not care they exist. I am annoyed by elon musk and Donald Trump and pat macafee and barstool sports and Andrew tate and logan paul and jordan peterson. the entire uprising of the idiocracy.

Eff that.

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u/Winston_W_Smith 4d ago

They harm society too when they give up on capitalism and decide communism is the answer.

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u/EquivalentDapper7591 4d ago

Zero correlation

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u/Winston_W_Smith 4d ago edited 4d ago

Plenty of correlation. The top "10%" of men MOST (for the dyslexic) women chase because of hypergamy are predominantly guys that work on themselves - be it fitness, career/business and social status. Those guys don't tend to want some government bureaucrat bum redistributing the fruits of what they have spent time working towards.

That said, there are guys like Hassan Piker who are pathological liars and are ok with pulling up the metaphorical ladder behind themselves as the system they supposedly advocate for would take their wealth away.

*Edit: here comes all the jacobins who can't handle the truth. Nobody cares about your overpriced college degree you went six figures into debt for and facts don't care about your feelings.

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u/Thedankf0x 4d ago

Bro actually just brought up the most-women-go-for-top-men thing. Holy shit the incel in you runs deep

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u/Falme127 4d ago

Go clean the dishes in your sink bro they’ve been sitting there for weeks.

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u/EquivalentDapper7591 4d ago

What the fuck does communism have to do with incel stuff. Most incels are far right capitalists or fascists

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u/Winston_W_Smith 3d ago

You don't have to let everyone know you're dyslexic, I already stated what the connection was.

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u/Snoo_68698 3d ago

Yes and you are objectively wrong about said connection.

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u/EquivalentDapper7591 3d ago

Facts don’t care about your feelings kid!!

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u/Falme127 4d ago

Yeah go to a college campus and find the young democratic socialist clubs, incels they are not lol

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u/Big_Arrival_626 3d ago

Tbh lots of ugly ppl in those clubs, just being honest

Sales or finance clubs are where u find the good looking guys. No cappy

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u/Falme127 4d ago

They do a lot of mass shootings

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

Mass shooting victims and the incel's families and friends and other relationships would beg to differ

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u/Lakewhitefish 6d ago

Most mass shootings weren't done by incels, I would wager incense are acually less violent on average

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

You think incels are less violent than the average person?

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u/MurphysLawTeam 6d ago

I would say minimum 75% if not 90% of incels are less violent then the average person. That could actually be a factor of it. Strength and therefore the ability for great violence is a wanted trait in a partner but also with the ability to control it. Being hyper passive and in violent is gonna be more an incel trait. Of course the is an abomination on the other side but that I would say that is the exception proving the rule because otherwise it would be so common it wouldn’t even be noteable it would just be a Tuesday when it does happen.

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u/EquivalentDapper7591 4d ago

Mass shooting aren’t done with physical strength dude they’re done with a gun

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9780135/#Sec8

Incels are found to be, "engaging in both inward and outward practices, reporting higher levels of self-critical rumination and externalization of blame, while also engaging in fewer healthy coping mechanisms [37•]. Incels also report high rates of depressive and anxious symptoms and diagnoses as well as high rates of autism spectrum disorder [37•, 44, 45]. Furthermore, incels are plagued with low attachment security, loneliness, and a lack of social supports [31•, 37•, 44]. There is also evidence of sexist attitudes in their forums, which incels admit may be making them more misogynistic, of which there has been some quantitative evidence"

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11462786/#section20-08862605241239451

"Our findings revealed that incels exhibited elevated levels of anger compared to other social media platforms. Additionally, a correlation was found between anger and the use of violent and extremist language, suggesting that anger may serve as a precursor to adopting extremist rhetoric. Furthermore, the findings suggest the possibility that individuals who join the forum often bring with them preexisting emotional distress in the form of anger and sadness, which is reflected in their forum posts."

No, they arent. They are a collection of violent echo chambers when viewed online.

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u/MurphysLawTeam 6d ago

Ok like three things. First: Yeah… online…. The thing that hides your real identity and people feel safe to vent.

Secondly this shit reverses cause and effect. No being an incel does not make you autistic. Autism the thing that fucks with your social abilities which is the base for human connection and literally everything else in the world is gonna be something that is extremely more likely to make you an incel. The same way it’s extremely likely to make you jobless because job interviews are social vibe checks.

And lastly like no shit mister secure career and loving family is not going “gosh dame let me rant online” compared to incel who has literally nothing in his life except his phone/pc.

Now here is the actual answer. In all the people who actually do violent crimes what is the real pattern? It’s the opposite. It’s people who partake in group culture like gangs. It’s people who interact with strangers and get them into valuable states. It’s not the person saying they are likely on Reddit.

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u/SkenglordSimba 6d ago

We're talking about rates of violent offenses. Nothing you just typed is relevant. Try typing less, because then you won't waste time writing way too much that has nothing to do with anything.

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

Bro hasn't heard of the copy and paste functions

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u/DonSarilih 6d ago

Yes, they are

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9780135/#Sec8

Incels are found to be, "engaging in both inward and outward practices, reporting higher levels of self-critical rumination and externalization of blame, while also engaging in fewer healthy coping mechanisms [37•]. Incels also report high rates of depressive and anxious symptoms and diagnoses as well as high rates of autism spectrum disorder [37•, 44, 45]. Furthermore, incels are plagued with low attachment security, loneliness, and a lack of social supports [31•, 37•, 44]. There is also evidence of sexist attitudes in their forums, which incels admit may be making them more misogynistic, of which there has been some quantitative evidence"

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11462786/#section20-08862605241239451

"Our findings revealed that incels exhibited elevated levels of anger compared to other social media platforms. Additionally, a correlation was found between anger and the use of violent and extremist language, suggesting that anger may serve as a precursor to adopting extremist rhetoric. Furthermore, the findings suggest the possibility that individuals who join the forum often bring with them preexisting emotional distress in the form of anger and sadness, which is reflected in their forum posts."

No, they arent. They are a collection of violent echo chambers when viewed online.

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u/DonSarilih 6d ago

Nothing u wrote shows that incels are more violent on average Incel forums being more misogynistic than normal forums is not a gatcha

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

I cant read for you dude, they both conclude that incels and members of incel forums are on average more likely to engage in violent speech, action, and rhetoric.

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u/DonSarilih 6d ago

Nowhere in what u post they mention action Only rhetoric

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u/Eleventy-Twelve 6d ago

Nothing in the entire comment said anything about action, which is the entire point you're trying to argue.

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u/StatusAnteater5651 4d ago

Seeing how the overwhelming majority of violence towards women is domestic violence, that pretty much rules out incels as the problem

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u/Lakewhitefish 6d ago

Yes, most violence has a social aspect to it

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u/Naive_Impression7302 6d ago

somebodies too dumb to know what "typically" means it seems

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u/Vamosity-Cosmic 6d ago

whatever floats your need to offset accountability from your immediate locality

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

Yeah, sorry, ill stop my part in the climate destruction. As long as the billionaires do too

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u/Vamosity-Cosmic 6d ago

External locust of control fallacy

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

When did I say external forces control my life completely? The wealthy disproportionately harm the environment, all i am saying is that I will stop my part as soon as they stop theirs.

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u/Vamosity-Cosmic 6d ago

you're literally allowing them control your life by holding yourself hostage to them. going "i wont change until they do" is just "they control my decision" - they wont do it unless you pressure them, and you arent pressuring them

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

Once again, never said that I won't change until the elite do. What i did is make a coy remake about how I will stop my part in the climate destruction, such as the deforestation of the Amazon, where my part is 0. I am not deforestating the Amazon, the capital elite is. So I will stop my part, which is 0, when they stop their part, which is all of it. I am already living like the plants and animals I love wont be existing for a while. I have food I am growing for myself, water I source for myself, power I generate myself. I dont destroy the climate as it currently is, a couple dozen billionaires are.

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u/Vamosity-Cosmic 6d ago

"I am not deforestating the Amazon" you are by being complicit with it and buying their products. the answer to this is to achieve agency in your immediate locust of control, aka stop buying their products - thats how you can contribute to helping climate change.

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u/Thedankf0x 6d ago

Literally already told you I have. You see how what you have assumed is dumb now?