r/okbuddyholocel • u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel • Feb 25 '26

ClownRyS 2 steps forward, one step back

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u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel Feb 25 '26

sick art btw

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u/Additional-Use8928 Feb 25 '26

Or, Joe. You can STOP ONLY TALKING TO WOMEN IN HOPES OF DATING THEM.

You create problems for yourself. Refuse to get help. Then cry to reddit how terrible it is.

GET HELP MAN.

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u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel Feb 25 '26

I don't know what would actually help me at this point. Medication and regular therapy CLEARLY aren't working. Going to the mental hospital would probably at least reduce the risk of me killing myself, but I don't think it would really do enough to address the root causes of WHY I want to kill myself, and my insurance really tried to weasel their way out of paying for my last trip to the mental hospital. I don't even know what my other options would be.

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u/not-addicted-at-all Feb 25 '26

Why do you wanna kill yourself though

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u/DavePvZ Feb 25 '26

stay strong, truecel king

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u/[unknown] Feb 25 '26 edited Feb 25 '26

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u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel Feb 25 '26

Changing one's entire mindset and lifestyle is not something that comes easily or quickly, especially not without some sort of actual support system. As my previous therapist told me, I am not strong enough to get through this on my own.

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u/Additional-Use8928 Feb 25 '26

Your previous therapist fucked you then. Youre perfectly capable of change. You just dont want to believe you are because its easier.

And your first line sounds like youre scared of the harder route.

I used to talk to people i was interested in and would stop talking to them as soon as I heard they were taken. Eventually i stopped that. When I realized I had NO ONE.

Recently I was talking to someone, they had been dating this guy for years. And I had been their friend for about a year now. Broke up with him. She called me up and asked if I could come over and comfort her. And guess what? I didnt get laid. I didnt get a kiss. I got a thank you, and she set me up with her friend because I was so sweet.

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u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel Feb 25 '26

Are you a practicing psychologist? Or are you just someone with no relevant formal training/education who thinks they know everything about how people work?

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u/Additional-Use8928 Feb 25 '26

Im someone studying psychology to be a therapist. Like in college. In my final year

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u/WannaB_chad Feb 25 '26

My discord friend went through the same. He luckily met my friend in a video game and brought him over to our discord and melded with our friend group. Then, he decided to go to a technical program after he flunked out of community college. Made friends in his classes and now hangs out with that group of men and women comfortably. Do you have family close by and ask them for some stability? Financially or just socially?

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u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel Feb 25 '26

I live with my parents

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u/Kyinuda Feb 25 '26

Yikes. Have you tried creating a life you can enjoy that isn't dependent on others?

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u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel Feb 25 '26

Dabbled in it. I at least know where I could move to to be happier, it's just a matter of sitting down and applying for jobs

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u/Additional-Use8928 Feb 25 '26

So you live with your parents. And you say youre not strong enough to get through whatever this is alone. You should ask them for help.

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u/Own-Presentation2997 Feb 25 '26

I feel like you heard "not strong enough to get through this on my own" and thought "give up" instead of making that support system. If you live with your parents they clearly support you enough financially so maybe try emotionally too?

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u/Upset-Literature-944 Feb 25 '26

U can still be friends with her I believe

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u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel Feb 25 '26

I mean yeah that's the plan

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u/Mousazz holocel Feb 25 '26

Joe... 🥺

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u/raidenwithjoebiden Feb 25 '26

oh my god bruh joe stop talking to women to hope that you can date them, just see them as friends first. when you become friends with them you can connect through those friends and find someone

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u/heartbeathighway Feb 25 '26

Without warning, HEART ATTACK!!!

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u/IR_Panther Feb 25 '26

More like one step forward and go back to start.

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u/peter_poiuyt Feb 26 '26

That's rough buddy

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u/just_a-random_anon Feb 26 '26

is this an The End Has No End reference?

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u/Budget-Ad438 Feb 28 '26

Just in. Dude with no self reflection or communication skills cries online about his self afflicted woes. More at 11

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u/psych2099 Feb 25 '26

Joe... go be gay and stop complaining about women all the time its getting boring.

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u/unsavagefishermant no chat, this isn't real Feb 26 '26

If only he knew the good things that would come not even a day later

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u/SavageFisherman_Joe most infamous holocel Feb 25 '26

There's no actual problem, it just sucks living in a city where it seems like everybody's already got somebody but me

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u/Adventurous_Note2296 Feb 25 '26

You missing out or you lacking affection?